This has not actually been shown, but let's see the cite to the study you are misrepresenting. |
NP here. Here's an analysis from edweekly that talks about the difficulties of studying the impacts of redshirting and recommends that parents only redshirt their children if: there is extreme developmental delay, outside of the normal range, to such an extent that another year’s development will potentially put the child in range of his classmates. Another is when a child is experiencing trauma, such as having a terminally ill parent or sibling. http://educationnext.org/is-your-child-ready-kindergarten-redshirting-may-do-more-harm-than-good/
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You realize this is an opinion piece by authors who are not proponents of redshirting, not a research study, and does not actually find that kids are disadvantaged by redshirting. |
It's interesting how you said the bold instead "A young-for-their-grade child is likely to struggle". In other words, September-born girls are fine starting on time, but September-born boys aren't. You seem to be saying that girls are smarter than boys, which now that I think about it, makes perfect sense. I can't think of a single male as smart as Alberta Einstein, Isabel Newton, Amadea Mozart, Charlotte Darwin, Stephanie Hawking, Marcia Zuckerberg, or Bilia Gates. |
I thought it was undisputed that boys mature a bit slower than girls but by the end of elementary school are generally at the same level of maturity. As for as intelligence and gender go, my understanding, which may be entirely wrong, is that there are smart men and smart women, but that the bell curve for men is wider, meaning that the extreme outliers at both ends are more often men than women. |
NP, Little boys have more trouble sitting still and paying attention to their teacher than little girls in early elementary, on average, it is not an issue of intelligence. As a mom of a boy and a girl, I think pp is entirely correct. |
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No, don’t consider it cheating at all. Held one of ours back and would do it again. Held back for them!! Never even considered it was so they ‘d be smarter, more athletic, more a leader. Don’t know anyone who did it for those reasons. All three I knew were aug bday with sept cut off. Very young for age, speech issues, extreme shyness. It was a gift of time. Why are people in such an uproar over 9 mos - 12 mos.
They have their whole life to go to school, work, etc. so a few kids need a few extra months. Nothing more or less. Who cares. Now in HS all doing well. No advantage or disadvantage to the decision. They are thriving in various interests/ pursuits. It was based purely on child’s needs at time. Gosh, my senior is now ready for college. A year ago I might not have been sure. A year is huge in a child/teens life. Give them time if they need it. |
...and whether your child's birthday is on September 27 or October 1? |
+1 a few weeks or even a month before the cutoff does not make the redshirted child really any different than the oldest kids in a regular class. My DD was born at 37 weeks one week before the cutoff. Is she were born at 40 I would have to choice in the matter |
In general, girls develop the kinds of that position them for success in an academic environment, e.g. fine motor skills, verbal abilities, focusing and sitting still for periods of time, earlier than boys do. Many boys are about six months behind girls in these areas. http://www.howkidsdevelop.com/developKindergarten.html |
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Without a professionally identified issue then I agree with the whole first paragraph. |
You realize that the authors quoted a number of studies in this opinion piece that find minimal benefits for red shirting. But if you want your kid to be 2 heads taller than the other kids in the class, go ahead! |
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The deadline is arbitrary. Every state/district has their own. If you lived in MD your kid would be the oldest by default... I encourage you to look at the MCPS form to enroll a child to K early (September and early Oct. birthdays). They want kids to be writing sentences! Can your 4 year old write a sentence? In my mind they expect that these young for their grade kids should should be advanced, (not that the potential redshirt kids are behind or delayed as many on this board see as needed for redshirting).
IMO, it’s not cheating. Kindergarten is now 1st grade (and has been for at least 10 years). That means kids are the ones who are cheated out of a true Kindergarten experience. |