Dating 38 year old guy, found out he's in the process of surrogacy

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Anonymous wrote:Sorry, but how does would “surrogacy” work for a signed man? Really. Don’t have the imagination to figure it out.

Some male celebs have done this.

If he was a wealthy gay guy, I get it. I don't understand why a 38 year old straight man wants to do this. Most young men are overwhelmed by the notion of having to raise children *with a partner*. It seems bizarre to me that he wants to do this by himself.

38 isn’t young.

No one said it was.

Those who say 38 isn't young must be younger than 38 because objectively 38 is young. I would love to have my healthy 38 year old body back!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:38, small one bedroom, and moving every single year would have been enough for me to move on. The rest is just icing.

This. He seems unstable.

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OP, you said you think he’s looking to you to donate eggs or be his surrogate?? Or was that a typo, or did I misread?

Putting the baby in daycare 12-13 hours a day just seems sad. Is he planning to quit coaching if he gets a baby? Are you interested in more kids? Are you interested in being with someone who has his financial situation? Has he been in any long-term relationships?

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Anonymous wrote:Sorry, but how does would “surrogacy” work for a signed man? Really. Don’t have the imagination to figure it out.

Some male celebs have done this.

If he was a wealthy gay guy, I get it. I don't understand why a 38 year old straight man wants to do this. Most young men are overwhelmed by the notion of having to raise children *with a partner*. It seems bizarre to me that he wants to do this by himself.

38 isn’t young.

No one said it was.

Those who say 38 isn't young must be younger than 38 because objectively 38 is young. I would love to have my healthy 38 year old body back!

It's all relative.

And really, if he was 28 or 58, it wouldn't be any less weird.