He Turned Down Sex..

[Anonymous]

If the genders were reversed, OP would be crucified for feeling entitled to a woman's body, or informed that she must be a creep, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am asking this again after the thread has seemed to be deleted. I would like answers to my question, not a war amongst two people like last night. I went on a date 3 with a guy and he declined to come back to my place. We are late 20's and early 30's. We met at a housewarming party, and after a couple weeks of being unsure, I went on a date. I really have liked getting to know him, and wanted to further our intimacy, but he said no. We have been talking since the date, let usual, but no mention of Friday night. Do I ask? Keep my mouth shut until he says something?

If you want a real relationship with him then you need to talk to him if it is really bothering you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the genders were reversed, OP would be crucified for feeling entitled to a woman's body, or informed that she must be a creep, etc.

Men and women aren't judged by the same standards when it comes to sex? Someone alert the media!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the genders were reversed, OP would be crucified for feeling entitled to a woman's body, or informed that she must be a creep, etc.

Agreed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the genders were reversed, OP would be crucified for feeling entitled to a woman's body, or informed that she must be a creep, etc.

Men and women aren't judged by the same standards when it comes to sex? Someone alert the media!

so true, Men need to be dominant and take the woman in passion. Women want to be desired and have a manly man.

[Anonymous]

OP - when is your next date?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm gonna be divorced soon. I haven't dated in over 10 years. I have noooooo idea how many dates I will need or want before having sex with a strange woman for the first time in over a decade. It's gonna be all kinds of weird and scary!

Are you the one initiating the divorce?

Yes.

May I ask if the divorce had anything to do with sex or lack thereof?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the genders were reversed, OP would be crucified for feeling entitled to a woman's body, or informed that she must be a creep, etc.

Men and women aren't judged by the same standards when it comes to sex? Someone alert the media!

so true, Men need to be dominant and take the woman in passion. Women want to be desired and have a manly man.

Sounds like rape.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm gonna be divorced soon. I haven't dated in over 10 years. I have noooooo idea how many dates I will need or want before having sex with a strange woman for the first time in over a decade. It's gonna be all kinds of weird and scary!

Are you the one initiating the divorce?

Yes.

May I ask if the divorce had anything to do with sex or lack thereof?

Yup. Dead bedroom plus her emotional affair and lack of interest in fixing the marriage.

[Anonymous]

Update? Get some?

[Anonymous]

I'd love an update as well, I've been following this quietly for the past days.

It's not usual for a man to turn down sex. I know this doesn't make your situation better - but try not asking him explicitly for it. Try subtly making him crazy about you.

/Adam - ReelingHimIn.com

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the genders were reversed, OP would be crucified for feeling entitled to a woman's body, or informed that she must be a creep, etc.

Men and women aren't judged by the same standards when it comes to sex? Someone alert the media!

so true, Men need to be dominant and take the woman in passion. Women want to be desired and have a manly man.

Sounds like rape.

If that's your definition of rape, then 95% of all hetero sex is rape, without wh

[Anonymous]

^^^ Without which our species would be extinct