Need Advice: Just found out DD (16 yo) is dating a 25 yo

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is clear that either OP is a troll or OPs daughter is lying.

There is NO evidence that OP is a troll. His posts and story all appear genuine. The guy seems to be sincerely looking for feedback on what he should do.

Really, you should stop it with your tendency to quick-troll people on these forums. If you don't believe it, leave it! But don't get in the way of the support being offered here.

Except for the part where there is no such thing as a 25-year-old in high school.

Please provide support for your statement or STHU.

On the contrary. Please explain how somebody could be 25 and in high school. Well, public high school. Private high schools make their own rules.

[Anonymous]

20 appears to be the maximum age to be in high school in VA (at the start of the year anyway, so theoretically could turn 21 during the year).

http://law.lis.virginia.gov/vacode/22.1-1/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is clear that either OP is a troll or OPs daughter is lying.

Or LexisNexis is wrong.

[Anonymous]

When we were 16 my friend was dating a 25 year-old. Her parents knew and stayed out of it. They dated for about a year and then broke up. She was on birth control, never got pregnant, and other than being super "old", he was a good guy. I would lose my mind if my DD (only 9 now) was dating a much older guy, but shared my friend's experience.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, either your source is a person, and has credible evidence to back up the claim, or your source is a website, in which case this is bullshit.

There are public records sites. He might not be talking about some .com where anyone can enter any info they want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, if you think they might have had sex, I'd probably call the police. Although I really don't see how a 25 year old is allowed to go to high school. Are you sure the guy online is the same guy your daughter is seeing? Could it be someone else with the same name? Have you met your daughter's boyfriend? Does he seem 25?

Call the police about what? The age of consent is 16. I would also add to the view that there is no way that he is 25 and also in high school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, if you think they might have had sex, I'd probably call the police. Although I really don't see how a 25 year old is allowed to go to high school. Are you sure the guy online is the same guy your daughter is seeing? Could it be someone else with the same name? Have you met your daughter's boyfriend? Does he seem 25?

Call the police about what? The age of consent is 16. I would also add to the view that there is no way that he is 25 and also in high school.

Not in VA. http://www.pnalaw.com/2015/07/02/age-of-consent-in-virginia/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only 25 year olds in high school are teachers...

Yep. I know a teacher who married her (former) student

[Anonymous]

The best advice I can give you is to not skimp on the shovel. Fiberglass handle is better than wood, because the last thing you wanna deal with while digging a grave in the woods in the middle of the night is a broken shovel when the hole is only half-dug.

So get the best shovel you can find.


That's my advice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only 25 year olds in high school are teachers...

Yep. I know a teacher who married her (former) student

Details please

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many immigrants in FFX & PW co are waaay beyond the usual HS age.

This.

Exactly, Mexico isn't sending their best and brightest

Just a majority of people who have an unbelievable work ethic, for a wage and job you would probably never consider but is vital to our economy.
Most people traveled over an ocean seeking a better life here and you want to begrudge them for traveling a few feet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The best advice I can give you is to not skimp on the shovel. Fiberglass handle is better than wood, because the last thing you wanna deal with while digging a grave in the woods in the middle of the night is a broken shovel when the hole is only half-dug.

So get the best shovel you can find.


That's my advice.

This is why it's good to have Trump voters around. Because they have good, sound, practical advice about some sorts of things that most people here don't have insights into.

I've never dug an unmarked grave before. But if I need to, I'll damn sure be using a shovel with a fiberglass handle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only 25 year olds in high school are teachers...

Yep. I know a teacher who married her (former) student

I k ow a headmaster/coach who married a student.

[Anonymous]

OP never returned to the thread, so chances are high that a. she was a troll or b. she discovered that she was wrong about the boyfriend's age

[Anonymous]

I hope she goes to the police soon... there's only 1 thing a 25 year old man wants from dating a 16 year old girl.....