One child substantially more attractive than the other

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Posters an attack OP and call her names but unless you experienced having a gorgeous sibling when you’re just average won’t get it.

My younger sister is stunningly beautiful and always was. I can’t begin to tell you how hurtful it was to me to constantly hear how beautiful she was and then hear nothing about me. Please stop people from making comments like that for both of your children’s sake.

Hey me too! And I am not ugly at all! Sister looks like Michelle Pfeifer/Meg Ryan(from better days) cross, but maybe even more beautiful than them. I am not even joking. Had violet eyes till 8 years old! She is a warmer beauty than Pfeifer and less cute than Ryan, but more stunning.
I have brown eyes and hair, and was a bit chubby as a young kid, which stuck with me even when I was skinny! By 3rd grade I was skinny, yet, I was always the good eater, and sister was a beauty!
I love my younger sister, and it was never her, in fact, she is insecure, but that doesn't meant that thoughtless adults praising her did not cause me plenty of damage. I only recently paused and after a friend's sister complimented my eyes, I looked at them. Green around and yellow around the pupil, my eyes are actually pretty beautiful. Nobody, including me, ever stopped and looked at me, not really. Well, apart DH. Mom to this day gushes about my sister and her beauty.
Don't know how you navigate this OP, but while it is not the worst thing ever, try to make sure that you do not praise one child over the other.
Anonymous
Hah. I was the "pretty" one, until puberty. Thanks, cystic acne.
Anonymous
I looked like a child model before puberty and now I am a DC six. I wouldn’t burn too much energy on this.
Anonymous
I think my second born is prettier than my first, but it’s her personality tht makes her shine. She gets so much more attention than her older sister... it’s sad to witness. I do think though that older sister will be taller and slender, while younger will be shorter and rounder (they are 7 and 5, but I can tell).

I think they are also too different to really compare and that is what I say to them when my eldest asks why people think her sister is so cute. I tell her that she younger and people are more likely to think younger kids are cute than older and also that they are different. That she should not compare herself to her sister because they are very different...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OMG, grow up, OP.


Not OP but shut up.
Anonymous
Ugly baby - beautiful toddler - ugly teenager- beautiful young person - ugly middle age.

that's how it rolls...


You know who:..

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ugly baby - beautiful toddler - ugly teenager- beautiful young person - ugly middle age.

that's how it rolls...


You know who:..

Anonymous
O for goodness sake here is that image..

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OMG, grow up, OP.


Not OP but shut up.


Yeah, shut up.. you have no idea how much money the OP spent to have a designer baby so this is f.. ing nightmare!

MONEY Back OP.. MONEY BACK!!!.. hope you saved the receipt!

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