He Just Walked Out ..... AGAIN!! Ugh!!

[Anonymous]

And he hates cats?! I really hope you dump his ass and find a nice guy. And I say that as someone who formerly only dated/married assholes. Nice guys are worth getting to know, I promise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And he hates cats?!

This is his only redeeming quality, in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is who we're working with, people...

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/467485.page#6867417

She doesn't want help.

And here

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/464853.page

Darlin' is your profession as a nanny? Do you help to raise children? I strongly urge you to raise yourself first. You are making some very bad choices that are so blatantly obvious, and in case they're not immediately obvious to you, hundreds of posts from anonymous people have pointed them out to you.

It seems like you are a grown woman dating a grown man in in 40s and he acts like this???????? You are putting up with a selfish, rude, little boy in a grown man's body???????? GET OUT.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is who we're working with, people...

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/467485.page#6867417

She doesn't want help.

And here

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/464853.page

Darlin' is your profession as a nanny? Do you help to raise children? I strongly urge you to raise yourself first. You are making some very bad choices that are so blatantly obvious, and in case they're not immediately obvious to you, hundreds of posts from anonymous people have pointed them out to you.

It seems like you are a grown woman dating a grown man in in 40s and he acts like this???????? You are putting up with a selfish, rude, little boy in a grown man's body???????? GET OUT.

+1
He's walked out 5 times and she's only getting tired of it. She's not totally done. He's been criticizing her since the beginning, he's a jerk in public, he won't spend the night and can't have overnight visitors at his house but she's still here. WTF?

[Anonymous]

OP Here:

He's gone, I have deleted him from my phone, Facebook, e-mail and oh yeah...From my life too.

Hallelujah.

End of Story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP Here:

He's gone, I have deleted him from my phone, Facebook, e-mail and oh yeah...From my life too.

Hallelujah.

End of Story.

You still need help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP Here:

He's gone, I have deleted him from my phone, Facebook, e-mail and oh yeah...From my life too.

Hallelujah.

End of Story.

You've said that before though, OP. Right?

Did you truly just end it with him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP Here:

He's gone, I have deleted him from my phone, Facebook, e-mail and oh yeah...From my life too.

Hallelujah.

End of Story.

It's not the end until you learn to recognize that kind of man AND STAY AWAY FROM ALL OF THEM.

(Why did you stay with him for so long? Low self-esteem? Abusive childhood?)

[Anonymous]

Oh he sounds like the BIGGEST waste of time, ever.
There are plenty more who can waste your time in a far more positive way - go, find them!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here:

He's gone, I have deleted him from my phone, Facebook, e-mail and oh yeah...From my life too.

Hallelujah.

End of Story.

You've said that before though, OP. Right?

Did you truly just end it with him?

Yes, I did. He is just a waste of space. Next!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He sounds a little unhinged. You shoud probably move on.

Just out of curiosity, give us an example of something that set him off.

I find he is rude to people when we go out in public together and that it makes me look bad as well.

For instance, we were at the movies and not in aisle seats. A few people had to use the restroom during the flick and had to walk by us. They were polite, said, "Excuse me..." then tried to get by. He sighed annoyingly and refused to move his legs.

Also another time at the movies, the people in front of us were talking, thus disturbing HIM. I personally didn't hear any talking, but I could have been engrossed in the movie too much. Anyhow, instead of tapping the people on the shoulder and mentioning to them that they were bothering him with their chatting, he instead forcefully kicked the back of their chairs really hard, thus angering them. Can't say I blame them.

When I tell him that he should be more kind to people, he takes it way too personally.

OP, you have all the evidence you need but it seems you don't want to accept it. This is not going to get better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP Here:

He's gone, I have deleted him from my phone, Facebook, e-mail and oh yeah...From my life too.

Hallelujah.

End of Story.

WOO HOOO!


Happy for you OP! You dodged a major bullet with that one!

[Anonymous]

OP I'm curious- did you break up with him/ tell him what is happening, or just ghost on him?

Either way, I bet it's a hell of an ego blow to him- one he so richly deserves and needs!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here:

He's gone, I have deleted him from my phone, Facebook, e-mail and oh yeah...From my life too.

Hallelujah.

End of Story.

WOO HOOO!


Happy for you OP! You dodged a major bullet with that one!

OP Here:

Hey PP...How did you know that I am a RHOC aficionado?? Brilliant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I'm curious- did you break up with him/ tell him what is happening, or just ghost on him?

Either way, I bet it's a hell of an ego blow to him- one he so richly deserves and needs!

Well, when he left I told him not to let the door hit him in the butt as he departed.

If that counts....