He Just Walked Out ..... AGAIN!! Ugh!!
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Anonymous
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This guy I have been seeing exclusively the since Feb. has been hanging out at my house about 4-5 evenings a week.
We usually go out to dinner, then come back to my place and watch T.V., play board/card games, make love and have discussions about current events. Then he usually will leave around midnight or 1 o'clock. Well recently he has been doing something that has been driving me nuts and I am wondering if this is normal or a true deal-breaker. Sometimes he will not like something I say and get angry over it. Then without talking it over with me, he will angrily put on his shoes, grab his keys/wallet/phone and declare, "I am walking out now. I don't have to listen or deal with any of this." Then he makes an abrupt exit. He has done it about 5x thus far. Last night he did it again and I honestly am getting tired of it. I feel as if I am always walking on eggshells with this guy, I never know when I will say something that will offend or annoy him and if it eventually does, he suddenly gets up and walks out vs. talking about it. What do you all think? |
Anonymous
| Find a new guy. |
Anonymous
| You should've walked after the second time. |
Anonymous
+1 bad sign. Will only get worse. |
Anonymous
| I think you should end it. I've been there. It doesn't get better and it does stay this exhausting. It's not normal. It's manipulative and controlling. You should tell him exactly why ending it. He needs to understand that this behavior is unacceptable. You can the find someone who respects you and treats you like an equal. |
Anonymous
| What's his first initial? |
Anonymous
An alternative might be to have an open and honest conversation. This could be something that changes with communication. Why is he leaving at midnight anyway? |
Anonymous
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Is his anger reasonable or crazy?
It might just be how he manages anger. But the way you put it, it seems like his reaction is out of the blue. ? |
Anonymous
Women are so desperate. You think she is going to change this entrenched behavior with a chat? This is a fish who needs to be thrown back into the sea. OP is too thirsty to do it though. |
Anonymous
| Maybe try not doing the things that make him angry. |
Anonymous
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He sounds a little unhinged. You shoud probably move on.
Just out of curiosity, give us an example of something that set him off. |
Anonymous
| Get a new boyfriend. He is not worth your time or energy. I've been there. |
Anonymous
| Eminem Nanny, we already told you this guy was stupid. |
Anonymous
| Why doesn't he spend the night? |
Anonymous
| Your title should be enough for you to realize he sucks. |