He Just Walked Out ..... AGAIN!! Ugh!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He sounds a little unhinged. You shoud probably move on.

Just out of curiosity, give us an example of something that set him off.

I find he is rude to people when we go out in public together and that it makes me look bad as well.

For instance, we were at the movies and not in aisle seats. A few people had to use the restroom during the flick and had to walk by us. They were polite, said, "Excuse me..." then tried to get by. He sighed annoyingly and refused to move his legs.

Also another time at the movies, the people in front of us were talking, thus disturbing HIM. I personally didn't hear any talking, but I could have been engrossed in the movie too much. Anyhow, instead of tapping the people on the shoulder and mentioning to them that they were bothering him with their chatting, he instead forcefully kicked the back of their chairs really hard, thus angering them. Can't say I blame them.

When I tell him that he should be more kind to people, he takes it way too personally.

Wow, he sounds awful!! Now I understand why you do t want him to sleep over. Why are you with this guy?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is who we're working with, people...

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/467485.page#6867417

She doesn't want help.

And here

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/464853.page

Is this you, OP? If it is we're wasting our breath.

[Anonymous]

Damn. Dump this loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He sounds a little unhinged. You shoud probably move on.

Just out of curiosity, give us an example of something that set him off.

I find he is rude to people when we go out in public together and that it makes me look bad as well.

For instance, we were at the movies and not in aisle seats. A few people had to use the restroom during the flick and had to walk by us. They were polite, said, "Excuse me..." then tried to get by. He sighed annoyingly and refused to move his legs.

Also another time at the movies, the people in front of us were talking, thus disturbing HIM. I personally didn't hear any talking, but I could have been engrossed in the movie too much. Anyhow, instead of tapping the people on the shoulder and mentioning to them that they were bothering him with their chatting, he instead forcefully kicked the back of their chairs really hard, thus angering them. Can't say I blame them.

When I tell him that he should be more kind to people, he takes it way too personally.

OMG. WTH is wrong with this person? I'm surprised he hasn't gotten his ass beat by a stranger yet

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He sounds a little unhinged. You shoud probably move on.

Just out of curiosity, give us an example of something that set him off.

I find he is rude to people when we go out in public together and that it makes me look bad as well.

For instance, we were at the movies and not in aisle seats. A few people had to use the restroom during the flick and had to walk by us. They were polite, said, "Excuse me..." then tried to get by. He sighed annoyingly and refused to move his legs.

Also another time at the movies, the people in front of us were talking, thus disturbing HIM. I personally didn't hear any talking, but I could have been engrossed in the movie too much. Anyhow, instead of tapping the people on the shoulder and mentioning to them that they were bothering him with their chatting, he instead forcefully kicked the back of their chairs really hard, thus angering them. Can't say I blame them.

When I tell him that he should be more kind to people, he takes it way too personally.

Wow. He's a jackass. If he's this way with complete strangers, it won't take long before you'll be receiving even worse. That's my prediction.

Talk about it, then dump him so he's clear on why he got the boot. I hope he's not violently inclined...

Seriously: jack. ass.

[Anonymous]

He is married. If he's not spending the night.
And- assuming you are the Op from the other thread his 'roommate.' (Wife) doesn't allow him to have guests over.

So- either keep being a side piece for a married dude, or don't.

[Anonymous]

This is only going to get worse.

[Anonymous]

He's testing you to see how much you'll put up with. Not the behavior of a good guy. Stop seeing him or put up with worse behavior as time goes on.

[Anonymous]

There are other dicks.

[Anonymous]

Dump him in public.

[Anonymous]

Tell him not to come back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dump him in public.

x2

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find a new guy.

An alternative might be to have an open and honest conversation. This could be something that changes with communication. Why is he leaving at midnight anyway?

Women are so desperate. You think she is going to change this entrenched behavior with a chat? This is a fish who needs to be thrown back into the sea. OP is too thirsty to do it though.

Harsh, but real talk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find a new guy.

An alternative might be to have an open and honest conversation. This could be something that changes with communication. Why is he leaving at midnight anyway?

Because he lives pretty close by and even though we are sleeping together in the figurative sense, I am not ready to sleep with him in the literal sense.

Huh. That's odd - he's at your house every night, you're sleeping together but you're not ready to let him sleep over? I don't really understand that.

That's because she's lying to herself. She'd actually be happy if he was willing to stay the night, but has convinced herself that this arrangement is on her terms.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Find a new guy.

An alternative might be to have an open and honest conversation. This could be something that changes with communication. Why is he leaving at midnight anyway?

Because he lives pretty close by and even though we are sleeping together in the figurative sense, I am not ready to sleep with him in the literal sense.

Huh. That's odd - he's at your house every night, you're sleeping together but you're not ready to let him sleep over? I don't really understand that.

That's because she's lying to herself. She'd actually be happy if he was willing to stay the night, but has convinced herself that this arrangement is on her terms.

Nah. I am a chick who is always the one to beg off and claim I have an early meeting and have to leave. Lots of women don't like sleeping over. I would say most men are much more into snuggling/sleeping together than women...