He Just Walked Out ..... AGAIN!! Ugh!!

[Anonymous]

OP Here:

Thanks everyone for your responses.

The main reason he only visits, but never spends the night is because he hates cats and I have two indoor ones.

He is not allergic to them, he just says he likes dogs and hates cats. So when he comes over, I close the bedroom door and when he leaves, I let them back in. To anyone who has kitties, they do not like closed doors. So after awhile the scratching and meowing gets to him. My cats sleep on the bed with me and he would never be okay sleeping with cats. So he leaves. I like still having my space too. Everyone is happy.

But that is not the true issue. I just can't stand it when he gets mad and storms out.

By the way, he is not married because I did finally go to his house twice already and there was no wife present. I have met his mom and step-dad as well as have attended a work function with him plus we talk on Facebook.

He's not hitched, he's just a dick.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's not hitched because he's a dick, stop investing more time in him. You will get more and more attached and he will eventually direct that anger toward you.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a complete manipulative nightmare. Telling you what to do in public?? Stomping out if you dare say something he doesn't like?? Is he a toddler??

Get out of the relationship. Seriously. There are other funny dudes out there.

[Anonymous]

He's a dick, you know it but you're not going to leave him.
What more does the guy have to do to repulse you?

[Anonymous]

OP, you know very well at this point that this guy is a huge piece of shit. How many more times are you going to post here - simply BAFFLED and wondering what to do - because he continues to act like an ass in private and in public, embarrassing you and making you miserable? He's never been married because no sensible woman would have him. Either dump him, or settle in for a lifetime of disappointment.

[Anonymous]

OP,

He is physically abusive to strangers in the most mundane circumstances.

How do you think he will act with you soon?

He won't stop at walking out, that's for sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
OP,

He is physically abusive to strangers in the most mundane circumstances.

How do you think he will act with you soon?

He won't stop at walking out, that's for sure.

OP ENJOYS this behavior. Read the other threads, she is at best spinless, and at worst a masochist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He sounds a little unhinged. You shoud probably move on.

Just out of curiosity, give us an example of something that set him off.

I find he is rude to people when we go out in public together and that it makes me look bad as well.

For instance, we were at the movies and not in aisle seats. A few people had to use the restroom during the flick and had to walk by us. They were polite, said, "Excuse me..." then tried to get by. He sighed annoyingly and refused to move his legs.

Also another time at the movies, the people in front of us were talking, thus disturbing HIM. I personally didn't hear any talking, but I could have been engrossed in the movie too much. Anyhow, instead of tapping the people on the shoulder and mentioning to them that they were bothering him with their chatting, he instead forcefully kicked the back of their chairs really hard, thus angering them. Can't say I blame them.

When I tell him that he should be more kind to people, he takes it way too personally.

He sounds like a real winner..... Dump him and find someone more respectful and with better communication skills and perhaps less anger issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should've walked after the second time.

5 times?! YOu need to get some self esteem, tell him you don't communicate well and that it's over.

[Anonymous]

You have been posting about this dick for months now. Your relationship has been a trainwreck from the start.

My question is, what is wrong with you that you want this man? He sounds absolutely awful.

[Anonymous]

Good Lord Eminem Nanny, will you really just put up with ANYTHING to have a man in your life? He's an asshole. He always has been. You are kooky as all hell but I have to believe there is better out there for you than this. Find it. And stop posting about this guy in the meantime.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He sounds a little unhinged. You shoud probably move on.

Just out of curiosity, give us an example of something that set him off.

I find he is rude to people when we go out in public together and that it makes me look bad as well.

For instance, we were at the movies and not in aisle seats. A few people had to use the restroom during the flick and had to walk by us. They were polite, said, "Excuse me..." then tried to get by. He sighed annoyingly and refused to move his legs.

Also another time at the movies, the people in front of us were talking, thus disturbing HIM. I personally didn't hear any talking, but I could have been engrossed in the movie too much. Anyhow, instead of tapping the people on the shoulder and mentioning to them that they were bothering him with their chatting, he instead forcefully kicked the back of their chairs really hard, thus angering them. Can't say I blame them.

When I tell him that he should be more kind to people, he takes it way too personally.

This sounds like someone who, if you stay with him, will eventually be smacking you around.

[Anonymous]

OP, can you please answer this: WHY are you still with him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This guy I have been seeing exclusively the since Feb. has been hanging out at my house about 4-5 evenings a week.

We usually go out to dinner, then come back to my place and watch T.V., play board/card games, make love and have discussions about current events. Then he usually will leave around midnight or 1 o'clock.

Well recently he has been doing something that has been driving me nuts and I am wondering if this is normal or a true deal-breaker.

Sometimes he will not like something I say and get angry over it. Then without talking it over with me, he will angrily put on his shoes, grab his keys/wallet/phone and declare, "I am walking out now. I don't have to listen or deal with any of this." Then he makes an abrupt exit.

He has done it about 5x thus far. Last night he did it again and I honestly am getting tired of it. I feel as if I am always walking on eggshells with this guy, I never know when I will say something that will offend or annoy him and if it eventually does, he suddenly gets up and walks out vs. talking about it.

What do you all think?

I would never be spending four to five nights a week at your house. Three at the absolute max.

[Anonymous]

Dump him.