I can't get past my new guys sexual past.

[Anonymous]

20:25, we're not talking a hot guy getting offers. We're talking 50 plus married women in 4 years, in addition to multiple other encounters. Let's not write that off as "typical guy stuff."
I didn't say it was unheard of, of course it is, but it's not typical

[Anonymous]

Sounds like cut buddy material but not someone you bring home to mom.

[Anonymous]

I spent 8 years with a scumbag like this. They don't change. The fact that he told you all about it at the start, is a kind of release from feeling guilty. He'll tell the next one all about the cheating he did on you.

[Anonymous]

He's going on hook up sites and meeting up with married women who want to get laid. He's not even going out and bringing women home that he is physically attracted to, he's just taking whatever he can get on a hook up site.

That is not attractive. And it makes him not so hot. But that's just me. Maybe you can overlook that, not me. No way would I want to touch that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:20:25, we're not talking a hot guy getting offers. We're talking 50 plus married women in 4 years, in addition to multiple other encounters. Let's not write that off as "typical guy stuff."
I didn't say it was unheard of, of course it is, but it's not typical

Im OP. I don't really get why you keeping saying 4 years? Yes he was single before we met for FOUR years BUT he was also single for 2.5 before that relationship and slept with many married and unmarried women then.

Please don't try and correct other posters when you don't even know the facts yourself!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's going on hook up sites and meeting up with married women who want to get laid. He's not even going out and bringing women home that he is physically attracted to, he's just taking whatever he can get on a hook up site.

That is not attractive. And it makes him not so hot. But that's just me. Maybe you can overlook that, not me. No way would I want to touch that.

OP here. Not true. He has plenty of standards and will turn down what he views unattractive or overweight. Please stop acting like you know what he was doing and if he was taking just anyone.

[Anonymous]

If it was 50 women, in general, that would be one thing.

50 married women is messed up. That's almost sociopathic. Think about all of the mayhem that he has sowed into other people's lives. That would bother me. It should bother HIM. He really needs to figure out what compelled him to do this.

I definitely wouldn't get too committed to this guy until he goes into therapy. Something is very wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's going on hook up sites and meeting up with married women who want to get laid. He's not even going out and bringing women home that he is physically attracted to, he's just taking whatever he can get on a hook up site.

That is not attractive. And it makes him not so hot. But that's just me. Maybe you can overlook that, not me. No way would I want to touch that.

OP here. Not true. He has plenty of standards and will turn down what he views unattractive or overweight. Please stop acting like you know what he was doing and if he was taking just anyone.

That doesn't mean standards. Ok they were all hot (not sure how you'd know). Still gross. Still indiscriminate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's going on hook up sites and meeting up with married women who want to get laid. He's not even going out and bringing women home that he is physically attracted to, he's just taking whatever he can get on a hook up site.

That is not attractive. And it makes him not so hot. But that's just me. Maybe you can overlook that, not me. No way would I want to touch that.

OP here. Not true. He has plenty of standards and will turn down what he views unattractive or overweight. Please stop acting like you know what he was doing and if he was taking just anyone.

Well o.k. then. Sounds like you are cool with his standards. Maybe you two are a match.

[Anonymous]

Now you'r defending him. Wow.

[Anonymous]

100 + total women, 50+ married. I think we're done here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it was 50 women, in general, that would be one thing.

50 married women is messed up. That's almost sociopathic. Think about all of the mayhem that he has sowed into other people's lives. That would bother me. It should bother HIM. He really needs to figure out what compelled him to do this.

I definitely wouldn't get too committed to this guy until he goes into therapy. Something is very wrong.

OP mentioned that some of these women had husbands who knew what was going on or were there for it. Cuckolding situations. That changes the mayhem aspect of it.

[Anonymous]

I think one of the most significant building blocks of any long-term relationship, especially marriage, is that your value systems are generally well aligned, and in the relationship you describe they do not appear to be. I'm jot passing judgment on your boyfriend but this relationship will absolutely not survive long term.

[Anonymous]

The double standards are rediculously obvious.

https://archive.today/CxvIo

Here's a guy with a very similar question. Wife has done WORSE than what you describe here and gets the whole "well, she's different now..." Nonsense.

It's either good for everyone or good for nobody. But why should the guy suffer with this while women are told to run?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Feeling glad i don't know what you are talking about...cuckold, ran a train, bdsm.
And I thought I was lost in the food forum...pate', making a rue, soft boil

+1 LMAO