Dh's birthday is coming up...need to make it special

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Anonymous wrote:What is it about a BJ that turns men on so much?

I understand women preferring oral because most women have trouble climaxing from just penetration. But men have no problem with climaxing from sex.

I think they just enjoy the psychological aspect of knowing they are getting pleasure from it and their partner is not. Knowing it's ALL ABOUT THEM. It's like a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

It feels amazing in a way that's different that coitus.

It's not just the psychology.

But you admit that's partly the psychology...
and then you wonder why women aren't interested in sex with you....


LOL. I'm sorry- but the self defeating level of idiocy here is just hilarious to me...

Why is the psychology offensive to you?

It's not offensive, it's just funny. You crave a sex act partly because it's not pleasurable for the other party and then wonder why the other party doesnt want to do it... hilarious...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What is it about a BJ that turns men on so much?

I understand women preferring oral because most women have trouble climaxing from just penetration. But men have no problem with climaxing from sex.

I think they just enjoy the psychological aspect of knowing they are getting pleasure from it and their partner is not. Knowing it's ALL ABOUT THEM. It's like a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

Hmmm. If all men climax from sex, which is basically true, you're suggesting then that all climaxes are the same. If that is true, we have sex until I come. I use my finger on you until you come. And I never have to do anything that might feel even more amazing if I can make you come without fail just using My finger. Thus, if you argue that you need oral stimulation on your clit vs My finger (wet or dry), we can conclude based on your own statement that you're a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

LOL!!! Take a logic class, please. This does not add up.. it's actually nonsensical.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What is it about a BJ that turns men on so much?

I understand women preferring oral because most women have trouble climaxing from just penetration. But men have no problem with climaxing from sex.

I think they just enjoy the psychological aspect of knowing they are getting pleasure from it and their partner is not. Knowing it's ALL ABOUT THEM. It's like a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

It feels amazing in a way that's different that coitus.

It's not just the psychology.

But you admit that's partly the psychology...
and then you wonder why women aren't interested in sex with you....


LOL. I'm sorry- but the self defeating level of idiocy here is just hilarious to me...

Why is the psychology offensive to you?

It's not offensive, it's just funny. You crave a sex act partly because it's not pleasurable for the other party and then wonder why the other party doesnt want to do it... hilarious...

I don't think you can lump everyone into that. I both wouldn't force someone to do what they didn't want to do (because how good could it be) and I just wouldn't be with that person. But there's no part of me that would get off on forcing someone to do something they didn't like. I suppose there are people like that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What is it about a BJ that turns men on so much?

I understand women preferring oral because most women have trouble climaxing from just penetration. But men have no problem with climaxing from sex.

I think they just enjoy the psychological aspect of knowing they are getting pleasure from it and their partner is not. Knowing it's ALL ABOUT THEM. It's like a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

Hmmm. If all men climax from sex, which is basically true, you're suggesting then that all climaxes are the same. If that is true, we have sex until I come. I use my finger on you until you come. And I never have to do anything that might feel even more amazing if I can make you come without fail just using My finger. Thus, if you argue that you need oral stimulation on your clit vs My finger (wet or dry), we can conclude based on your own statement that you're a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

LOL!!! Take a logic class, please. This does not add up.. it's actually nonsensical.

It was pure logic. If men can get off from intercourse alone, they don't need anything else. Accordingly, if women can get off from manual stimulation of the clit, then they don't need anything else.

As soon as a woman explains why she needs oral but men don't, that's where logic fails. You obviously have never taken a logic course in your life.

[Anonymous]

Dear OP,

Only you can answer this question. From everything posted here, what would YOUR husband like more than anything?

- Sports stuff
- Car stuff
- Sex stuff (yes, a BJ or anything you KNOW he likes or wants)
- Tech stuff

Seriously. Why are you asking here when you should hopefully know what he wants and likes?

Signed,

DCUM poster

[Anonymous]

The love languages book was written by a MAN so obviously there are men out there that value things outside of sex. Op already said she knows her husbands love language is gifts so what's the point in constantly suggesting things like a BJ or Anal. If I showed up with an Xbox One I know a BJ wouldn't be on my husband's mind at all.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is it about a BJ that turns men on so much?

I understand women preferring oral because most women have trouble climaxing from just penetration. But men have no problem with climaxing from sex.

I think they just enjoy the psychological aspect of knowing they are getting pleasure from it and their partner is not. Knowing it's ALL ABOUT THEM. It's like a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

Hmmm. If all men climax from sex, which is basically true, you're suggesting then that all climaxes are the same. If that is true, we have sex until I come. I use my finger on you until you come. And I never have to do anything that might feel even more amazing if I can make you come without fail just using My finger. Thus, if you argue that you need oral stimulation on your clit vs My finger (wet or dry), we can conclude based on your own statement that you're a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

LOL!!! Take a logic class, please. This does not add up.. it's actually nonsensical.

It was pure logic. If men can get off from intercourse alone, they don't need anything else. Accordingly, if women can get off from manual stimulation of the clit, then they don't need anything else.

As soon as a woman explains why she needs oral but men don't, that's where logic fails. You obviously have never taken a logic course in your life.

Fine with me. I can get myself off in less than 30 seconds, so I'm good with just sex. As long as I'm not being berated with having to give blowjobs every day, I'm cool with it.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is it about a BJ that turns men on so much?

I understand women preferring oral because most women have trouble climaxing from just penetration. But men have no problem with climaxing from sex.

I think they just enjoy the psychological aspect of knowing they are getting pleasure from it and their partner is not. Knowing it's ALL ABOUT THEM. It's like a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

It feels amazing in a way that's different that coitus.

It's not just the psychology.

But you admit that's partly the psychology...
and then you wonder why women aren't interested in sex with you....


LOL. I'm sorry- but the self defeating level of idiocy here is just hilarious to me...

Why is the psychology offensive to you?

It's not offensive, it's just funny. You crave a sex act partly because it's not pleasurable for the other party and then wonder why the other party doesnt want to do it... hilarious...

I don't think you can lump everyone into that. I both wouldn't force someone to do what they didn't want to do (because how good could it be) and I just wouldn't be with that person. But there's no part of me that would get off on forcing someone to do something they didn't like. I suppose there are people like that.

It's hard to keep track of who I'm responding to, but the original poster had said part of the appeal of BJs was the fact that it was solely his pleasure and none for his partner.

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Anonymous wrote:How about a BJ every day of the week? Women who give material gifts instead of sexual ones really miss the point. Not that material gifts aren't nice sometimes, but if you're trying to reconnect, a football-related gift really misses the mark.

Man here.

This would be AMAZING.

Sigh. Men are so boring and predictable. Ugh.

Yep. Our needs are pretty basic. Assume that if there was something material that we needed, we would've already bought it. Also assume that if there is something we aren't getting, we will find a way to get it (with or without you). If you spend enough time on DCUM, you will figure that out.

Which is why divorce courts and alimony exist Do whatever you want to do, just realize every action has an equal and opposite reaction

No. Not even close to true. Been there, done that. Not equal. This isn't science.

You're right- it's not equal... because the pain of getting your assets smashed up during the divorce will be a lot worse than any temporary pain your wife experiences when she finds you cheating!

Wrong again. Assets can be reacquired over time. Emotions usually leave a permanent scar.

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Anonymous wrote:How about a BJ every day of the week? Women who give material gifts instead of sexual ones really miss the point. Not that material gifts aren't nice sometimes, but if you're trying to reconnect, a football-related gift really misses the mark.

Man here.

This would be AMAZING.

Sigh. Men are so boring and predictable. Ugh.

Yep. Our needs are pretty basic. Assume that if there was something material that we needed, we would've already bought it. Also assume that if there is something we aren't getting, we will find a way to get it (with or without you). If you spend enough time on DCUM, you will figure that out.

Which is why divorce courts and alimony exist Do whatever you want to do, just realize every action has an equal and opposite reaction

No. Not even close to true. Been there, done that. Not equal. This isn't science.

You're right- it's not equal... because the pain of getting your assets smashed up during the divorce will be a lot worse than any temporary pain your wife experiences when she finds you cheating!

Wrong again. Assets can be reacquired over time. Emotions usually leave a permanent scar.

But, I know for me, if someone cheats on me, it hurts me in the moment. But I think any intelligent person would realize that it was the cheater's fault, not their own. So honestly I wouldnt care. I would throw his ass out and file. And move on swiftly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is it about a BJ that turns men on so much?

I understand women preferring oral because most women have trouble climaxing from just penetration. But men have no problem with climaxing from sex.

I think they just enjoy the psychological aspect of knowing they are getting pleasure from it and their partner is not. Knowing it's ALL ABOUT THEM. It's like a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

Your poor husband. You sound like a real dud in bed.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How about a BJ every day of the week? Women who give material gifts instead of sexual ones really miss the point. Not that material gifts aren't nice sometimes, but if you're trying to reconnect, a football-related gift really misses the mark.

Man here.

This would be AMAZING.

Sigh. Men are so boring and predictable. Ugh.

Yep. Our needs are pretty basic. Assume that if there was something material that we needed, we would've already bought it. Also assume that if there is something we aren't getting, we will find a way to get it (with or without you). If you spend enough time on DCUM, you will figure that out.

Which is why divorce courts and alimony exist Do whatever you want to do, just realize every action has an equal and opposite reaction

No. Not even close to true. Been there, done that. Not equal. This isn't science.

You're right- it's not equal... because the pain of getting your assets smashed up during the divorce will be a lot worse than any temporary pain your wife experiences when she finds you cheating!

Wrong again. Assets can be reacquired over time. Emotions usually leave a permanent scar.

But, I know for me, if someone cheats on me, it hurts me in the moment. But I think any intelligent person would realize that it was the cheater's fault, not their own. So honestly I wouldnt care. I would throw his ass out and file. And move on swiftly.

You obviously haven't been reading the posts on DCUM. Lots of lingering pain going on from cheating spouses.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How about a BJ every day of the week? Women who give material gifts instead of sexual ones really miss the point. Not that material gifts aren't nice sometimes, but if you're trying to reconnect, a football-related gift really misses the mark.

Man here.

This would be AMAZING.

Sigh. Men are so boring and predictable. Ugh.

Yep. Our needs are pretty basic. Assume that if there was something material that we needed, we would've already bought it. Also assume that if there is something we aren't getting, we will find a way to get it (with or without you). If you spend enough time on DCUM, you will figure that out.

Which is why divorce courts and alimony exist Do whatever you want to do, just realize every action has an equal and opposite reaction

No. Not even close to true. Been there, done that. Not equal. This isn't science.

You're right- it's not equal... because the pain of getting your assets smashed up during the divorce will be a lot worse than any temporary pain your wife experiences when she finds you cheating!

Wrong again. Assets can be reacquired over time. Emotions usually leave a permanent scar.

But, I know for me, if someone cheats on me, it hurts me in the moment. But I think any intelligent person would realize that it was the cheater's fault, not their own. So honestly I wouldnt care. I would throw his ass out and file. And move on swiftly.

You obviously haven't been reading the posts on DCUM. Lots of lingering pain going on from cheating spouses.

And lots of pain from men who cheated and are upset when wife finds out and wants to divorce them, and divide all the assets in half.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What is it about a BJ that turns men on so much?

I understand women preferring oral because most women have trouble climaxing from just penetration. But men have no problem with climaxing from sex.

I think they just enjoy the psychological aspect of knowing they are getting pleasure from it and their partner is not. Knowing it's ALL ABOUT THEM. It's like a toddler wanting the attention on themselves.

Your poor husband. You sound like a real dud in bed.

And you sound so irresistible