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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is it about a BJ that turns men on so much?

I understand women preferring oral because most women have trouble climaxing from just penetration.  But men have no problem with climaxing from sex.

I think they just enjoy the psychological aspect of knowing they are getting pleasure from it and their partner is not.  Knowing it's ALL ABOUT THEM. It's like a toddler wanting the attention on themselves. [/quote]

It feels amazing in a way that's different that coitus.

It's not just the psychology. [/quote]

But you admit that's partly the psychology...
and then you wonder why women aren't interested in sex with you....

LOL. I'm sorry- but the self defeating level of idiocy here is just hilarious to me...[/quote]

Why is the psychology offensive to you?[/quote]

It's not offensive, it's just funny. You crave a sex act partly because it's not pleasurable for the other party and then wonder why the other party doesnt want to do it... hilarious...[/quote]

I don't think you can lump everyone into that.  I both wouldn't force someone to do what they didn't want to do (because how good could it be) and I just wouldn't be with that person. But there's no part of me that would get off on forcing someone to do something they didn't like. I suppose there are people like that. [/quote]

It's hard to keep track of who I'm responding to, but the original poster had said part of the appeal of BJs was the fact that it was solely his pleasure and none for his partner. [/quote]

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