Men what are/were you looking for in a woman?

[Anonymous]

Physically
great Butt,

Mentally.. Knows and takes advantage of why NFL cheerleaders and playboy bunnies are hot.

playful sexually.


Graceful and no manipulation.

appreciates being loved. likes the beach.

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Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

Is that why a lot of women chase the bad boys?

maybe. I like the bad boys because they can handle me and they aren't boring. And they like me back.

- Future single mom with kids.

LOL. You wish. Stay bitter.

I don't wish for you (or anyone) and I am certainly not bitter. It's your life, not mine.

Well, FYI, I would be perfectly happy being a single mom. It would be fab to have a child and not have some dude hovering around trying to tell me what to do. Sign me up!

You already have.

Yay!

[Anonymous]

- Honesty. Someone who is truly honest about who they are, how they feel, what they want, etc. Too many times I meet someone that claims they are what they think I want them to be. Then turn out completely opposite. Like getting to know them would overshadow the fact they lured me in with lies. Or just be honest about everything....no stupid little lies. No hiding anything. Just be up front....I do the same.

- Good Hearted. I don't want a woman that doesn't have a truly, good heart. If you are surrounded by drama, there is a VERY good chance you don't have a good heart.

- Funny/Smiles/optimist. Someone who likes to laugh, doesn't take herself too serious, and smiles a lot. Very positive outlook on life.

- Works to Live. If you are married to your job, I don't want to be with you. I want someone that cherishes their time not being at work and leaves it all behind at the end of the day.

- Confident/Independent. You know what you want, you go after it, and you aren't scared to take a chance. You don't need anyone to support you.

- Women friends. If you are the type that "only gets along with guys", I'll pass. Something is seriously wrong if you can't have friends that aren't male.

- Individuality. You value being an individual and don't need someone else to make you who you are. Yet can get along fine in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

11:47 here. To add:

- Witty. I like someone who can give me shit and take the shit I put out. Nothing rude. But nobody who will get offended at anything that isn't a compliment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.

So...you don't have sex with men before marriage and you're not exactly thin. It's crystal clear what your problem is.

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Anonymous wrote:No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.

So...you don't have sex with men before marriage and you're not exactly thin. It's crystal clear what your problem is.

LOL....No shit. Talk about screwing yourself.

[Anonymous]

OP here, I appreciate the heartfelt responses!

As for the others...guess it further explains why good men are hard to find here...because they are rare!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.

So...you don't have sex with men before marriage and you're not exactly thin. It's crystal clear what your problem is.

OP later explained that that isn't what she meant (though it certainly does read that way). She doesn't have casual sex but has sex with boyfriends.