Men what are/were you looking for in a woman?

Anonymous
I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?
Anonymous
Are you having sex with men who aren't offering you a commitment? If so, I'd say that's where you should start.
Anonymous
Read the rules. It totally sucks that she is right, but she's right. Good luck.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Men what are/were you looking for in a woman?


My penis
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?


Are you thin?
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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?


Are you thin?


Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?


Are you thin?


Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.


OP you sound great. The white person will come along, dont stress about it. Maybe move out of DC would be my tip
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?


Are you thin?


Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.


If you're not thin, you're at a disadvantage. You asked what men look for in women. Being thin is in top 2.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?


Are you thin?


Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.


If you're not thin, you're at a disadvantage. You asked what men look for in women. Being thin is in top 2.


LOL. I'm so curious- what is the other one from "top 2"? A pretty face?

GTFOOH
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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?


Are you thin?


Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.


If you're not thin, you're at a disadvantage. You asked what men look for in women. Being thin is in top 2.


LOL. I'm so curious- what is the other one from "top 2"? A pretty face?

GTFOOH


Yes. Look, you asked. What do men look for in a women? The answer is: Thin, pretty face, kind, smart, witty. Those attributes are right up there. If you're not thin, that could explain some of your difficulties. Your propensity to be dismissive and roll your eyes at people who answer questions you pose is also off-putting.
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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?


Are you thin?


Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.


If you're not thin, you're at a disadvantage. You asked what men look for in women. Being thin is in top 2.


LOL. I'm so curious- what is the other one from "top 2"? A pretty face?

GTFOOH


Yes. Look, you asked. What do men look for in a women? The answer is: Thin, pretty face, kind, smart, witty. Those attributes are right up there. If you're not thin, that could explain some of your difficulties. Your propensity to be dismissive and roll your eyes at people who answer questions you pose is also off-putting.


I'm a new poster. I have a beautiful face that I get complimented on constantly and a great body. But I have no interest in dudes that think of me as basically a sexual gratification robot where the only important factors (or the two most) are face and body. In that case, buy a real doll.

Lots of men care more about a woman's personality and her intelligence levels. You sound like a pig.
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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?


Are you thin?


Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.


If you're not thin, you're at a disadvantage. You asked what men look for in women. Being thin is in top 2.


LOL. I'm so curious- what is the other one from "top 2"? A pretty face?

GTFOOH


This says it all.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?


Are you thin?


Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.


If you're not thin, you're at a disadvantage. You asked what men look for in women. Being thin is in top 2.


LOL. I'm so curious- what is the other one from "top 2"? A pretty face?

GTFOOH


Yes. Look, you asked. What do men look for in a women? The answer is: Thin, pretty face, kind, smart, witty. Those attributes are right up there. If you're not thin, that could explain some of your difficulties. Your propensity to be dismissive and roll your eyes at people who answer questions you pose is also off-putting.


I'm a new poster. I have a beautiful face that I get complimented on constantly and a great body. But I have no interest in dudes that think of me as basically a sexual gratification robot where the only important factors (or the two most) are face and body. In that case, buy a real doll.

Lots of men care more about a woman's personality and her intelligence levels. You sound like a pig.


I didn't say anything about sexual gratification robot. I was simply pointing out the obvious: Men value thin women. Women who carry extra weight have a harder time attracting a mate.
Anonymous
Smart, kind, low drama, good taste, good sense of humor, dog person (as opposed to cats), loyal (not just to me but friends).

Everything else I'm coming up with is basically a variation of low drama.
Anonymous
don't be nasty, don't be a bitch...
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