Men what are/were you looking for in a woman?

[Anonymous]

^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?

Are you thin?

Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.

If you're not thin, you're at a disadvantage. You asked what men look for in women. Being thin is in top 2.

LOL. I'm so curious- what is the other one from "top 2"? A pretty face?

GTFOOH

Yes. Look, you asked. What do men look for in a women? The answer is: Thin, pretty face, kind, smart, witty. Those attributes are right up there. If you're not thin, that could explain some of your difficulties. Your propensity to be dismissive and roll your eyes at people who answer questions you pose is also off-putting.

^This is not the OP responding FYI

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

Is that why a lot of women chase the bad boys?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Men what are/were you looking for in a woman?

My penis

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

OP here, I'm actually a very drama-free girl. As such I seem to attract men that actually like drama, but say they don't. My last boyfriend seemed to dump me because we never fought. He lived off of that stuff, but said to the contrary.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

OP here, I'm actually a very drama-free girl. As such I seem to attract men that actually like drama, but say they don't. My last boyfriend seemed to dump me because we never fought. He lived off of that stuff, but said to the contrary.

Is this why a lot of men like bad girls?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

OP here, I'm actually a very drama-free girl. As such I seem to attract men that actually like drama, but say they don't. My last boyfriend seemed to dump me because we never fought. He lived off of that stuff, but said to the contrary.

Is this why a lot of men like bad girls?

Excuse me: Is that why a lot of men chase the bad girls?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

Is that why a lot of women chase the bad boys?

maybe. I like the bad boys because they can handle me and they aren't boring. And they like me back.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?

Are you thin?

Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.

You won't have sex before a marriage commitment? You might as well take up cats.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

Is that why a lot of women chase the bad boys?

maybe. I like the bad boys because they can handle me and they aren't boring. And they like me back.

- Future single mom with kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

Is that why a lot of women chase the bad boys?

maybe. I like the bad boys because they can handle me and they aren't boring. And they like me back.

- Future single mom with kids.

LOL. You wish. Stay bitter.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

Is that why a lot of women chase the bad boys?

maybe. I like the bad boys because they can handle me and they aren't boring. And they like me back.

- Future single mom with kids.

LOL. You wish. Stay bitter.

I don't wish for you (or anyone) and I am certainly not bitter. It's your life, not mine.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?

Are you thin?

Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.

You won't have sex before a marriage commitment? You might as well take up cats.

So according to you, women can't win. Don't have sex till commitment= you will end up alone. Have sex without commitment= you will end up alone.

This is why smart women disregard what dumb assholes have to say and do what they think is best for themselves.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Ugh. Men are such boring simpletons.

They all want "no drama" because they can't stand any real passion and the high emotions that come along with it. Blegh.

Is that why a lot of women chase the bad boys?

maybe. I like the bad boys because they can handle me and they aren't boring. And they like me back.

- Future single mom with kids.

LOL. You wish. Stay bitter.

I don't wish for you (or anyone) and I am certainly not bitter. It's your life, not mine.

Well, FYI, I would be perfectly happy being a single mom. It would be fab to have a child and not have some dude hovering around trying to tell me what to do. Sign me up!

[Anonymous]

I am not a dude, but I believe there are a lot of amazing guys out there who are interested in way more than looks. With that said, I do think you have to be attracted to the person. I think many guys go deeper thank skinny and a face, plus everyone has different taste in looks. I am guessing that very overweight is a turn off for most.