Ex is hiding money and step mother VA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you purposely being dense,OP? His "assets" as previously stated are not considered in cs, only his income and not his new wife's income. Assets would have been an issue at the time of a divorce for settlement purposes.

Profit from sales are income.
Got more name calling PP?- op

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:14:45 Karma. (Not OP.)

How so? Ex marries someone who makes more money (financially married up) and OP wants a piece of that pie even though that pie is not hers or her child's.

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Anonymous wrote:OP--can you provide a rational reason why you feel you are entitled to increased CS based on the new wife's income? I guess what I'm asking is why should she be financially obligated for a child she did not have?

I just don't read the OP this way. Her XH is hiding behind his new wife. OP is interested if there are any options at all.

I think her XH sounds like a cheat. Sadly, I don't think there's a lot OP can do, except realize these are all reasons why they are divorced and to thank god every day she's rid of him.

Yes, he is hiding assests in her name. He sells a house with wife 3. Wife #4 buys a house (not jointly) a few months after settlement etc... There are other instances. In addition, he is postering for voluntary impoverishment (He is plannin on losing his job and being unable to find another) this kind of nonsense.

So, which wife are you or are you an affair. Nothing makes sense. Why would you have a child with a man who probably has several other kids and married 4 times. Sounds like a bad decision on your part. Divorced once, ok, but 3 times and on wife 4, something isn't right. He may have not gotten any money from wife 3 and she took the money from the house or they may have not gotten anything. Wife #4 could have a good job, savings and bought the house with her money and was smart enough to protect herself. When we bought our house, I put the downpayment down, not my husband.

No. He's hiding money from wife 3. I can see it and know about some but I've not told her all I know-can't show my hands it he'll owe her a chunk too

So which wife are you? #1, #2, an affair or break between wives. Sorry, no empathy if you knew all this about him and still choose to have a child. Stop complaining and file for child support. You can complain on here all you want, but you have to file and let the court or child support office deal with it. Assuming he may be paying alimony to some wives and may have other kids, your child support amount may be really low. Next time pick a better man to have a child with.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:14:45 Karma. (Not OP.)

How so? Ex marries someone who makes more money (financially married up) and OP wants a piece of that pie even though that pie is not hers or her child's.

No. He did NOT marry up. She makes less than me and less than him. He is essentially money laundering. You second wives are some bitter rhymes with witches.

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He cannot purposely under-employ himself. Friend's ex tried to do this. Had a job paying $130K. Moved on his own volition (wasn't fired or laid off or reassigned). Took a job paying $92K and wanted to lower child support. He was living off his new girlfriend. The court say no. The child support calculation would still be calculated as if he were making $130K.

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OP, does your ex make 22K a month ?

[Anonymous]

First you say you want to revisit the order based on him marrying. Now you say establish. You're changing your story, if any of this is true at all.

To answer your original post, no, you can't revisit support based on a new stepmother's income.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:14:45 Karma. (Not OP.)

How so? Ex marries someone who makes more money (financially married up) and OP wants a piece of that pie even though that pie is not hers or her child's.

No. He did NOT marry up. She makes less than me and less than him. He is essentially money laundering. You second wives are some bitter rhymes with witches.

Ok, so he's a drug dealer or what are you trying to say. Your story makes no sense. Are you the first wife out of four or who? Go file.

[Anonymous]

OP,

How can your ex hide income unless it's under the table? Is he employed?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, does your ex make 22K a month ?

I wish. ,op

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP,

How can your ex hide income unless it's under the table? Is he employed?

Profit. Sells house stock then new wife buys house stock. There's a paper trail.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP,

How can your ex hide income unless it's under the table? Is he employed?

Profit. Sells house stock then new wife buys house stock. There's a paper trail.

Except that profit is not income. Profit is a one time windfall. Child support is based upon an amount that the non custodial parent can be expected to contribute on regular basis. Meh won't be selling a house for profit every 2 weeks.

How do you know the house was sold for a profit? Maybe it was a loss. Or there really isn't that much profit leftover after the house debts have been paid. Maybe new wife has assets and bought the house using her funds.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP,

How can your ex hide income unless it's under the table? Is he employed?

Profit. Sells house stock then new wife buys house stock. There's a paper trail.

Except that profit is not income. Profit is a one time windfall. Child support is based upon an amount that the non custodial parent can be expected to contribute on regular basis. Meh won't be selling a house for profit every 2 weeks.

How do you know the house was sold for a profit? Maybe it was a loss. Or there really isn't that much profit leftover after the house debts have been paid. Maybe new wife has assets and bought the house using her funds.

[Anonymous]

Sorry, OP! My ex lives w/ Mommy and Daddy in a wealthy neighborhood and enjoys an upper MC lifestyle while unemployed or underemployed. His "fiancee" just moved in with them. Ex pays very little in CS and it burns me up when he goes on vacation while I am paying for nearly everything on my income.

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Anonymous wrote:OP,

How can your ex hide income unless it's under the table? Is he employed?

Profit. Sells house stock then new wife buys house stock. There's a paper trail.

Except that profit is not income. Profit is a one time windfall. Child support is based upon an amount that the non custodial parent can be expected to contribute on regular basis. Meh won't be selling a house for profit every 2 weeks.

How do you know the house was sold for a profit? Maybe it was a loss. Or there really isn't that much profit leftover after the house debts have been paid. Maybe new wife has assets and bought the house using her funds.

Child support is based off income. Selling a house that is not part of business is not income. This is correct. Op, instead of complaining, go file and let a judge decide. Simple.