Feeling slighted on FB by DH

[Anonymous]

My wife always tries to compare us to other couples that she knows. One guy killed his wife! Another two couples got divorced. Every time she starts up I remind her not to compare us to other people.

[Anonymous]

Good Lord. FB drama at your age? Grow up

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here...Lots of people have posted wedding photos on big anniversaries. It is the only photo of the two of us besides a few family camping trip photos I have ever posted.

I am not narcissistic at all. I have so few photos of myself on fB it isn't even funny.

I only looked today at his page because I was feeling ignored completely by him for the past few years and I wondered if he ever responded to what I posted..sort of to confirm to myself that yes he does ignore me.

FB i a funny place to be looking for validation from your spouse.

My wife and I are both on FB. We might comment on each other's posts once in a blue moon, but there's really no reason for us to interact on FB since, you know, we live in the same house.

You are looking for trouble where there is none, and these expectations you have for how he is supposed to respond to what you post is completely irrational and, frankly, out of line.

Really OP, this. Forget about Facebook and focus on who your husband treats you in person. If he is ignoring you IRL then you have a problem.

[Anonymous]

It's a year old post, people!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's a year old post, people!

Haha.. Have you seen the number of FB posts lately?

What do I know. DH and I aren't even FB friends. Takes all the drama out of it.

[Anonymous]

Op, look up 'love languages.' If you truly did do this as a nice thing for him, it seems like it was something that you liked giving more than he liked getting. You may just have different love languages.

[Anonymous]

Man OP you are getting flamed! I think your feelings are hurt he didn't acknowledge your anniversary photo and message, but did other stuff. I dont think it's strange to feel the way you do, and would just talk to him. You know your marriage better than we do.