Married neighbors having an affair

[Anonymous]

does the cheating woman have any children? Are you destroying two families with kids involved?

[Anonymous]

She has 1. But lets get this straight, I am not destroying 2 families. The cheaters destroyed their families. Dont shoot the messenger, the damage is done with these familes. You dont have a long term affair with your next door neighbor and close friend and maintain a happy family life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She has 1. But lets get this straight, I am not destroying 2 families. The cheaters destroyed their families. Dont shoot the messenger, the damage is done with these familes. You dont have a long term affair with your next door neighbor and close friend and maintain a happy family life.

Just stop.

[Anonymous]

Have you seen anything recently? For all you know the situation may have resolved itself. Or maybe it will resolve itself once the baby is born. I'd wait, let it play out a bit. Unless you actually saw these two neighbors having sex I don't think you should say anything. You don't want to start rumors if nothing is going on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you seen anything recently? For all you know the situation may have resolved itself. Or maybe it will resolve itself once the baby is born. I'd wait, let it play out a bit. Unless you actually saw these two neighbors having sex I don't think you should say anything. You don't want to start rumors if nothing is going on.

Even then, its none of her business. Unless her spouse is involved.

I am betting that the OW is HOT, and there is all these jealous women wanting to being her down!

[Anonymous]

Ok enough is enough, why are people responding & not reading. I just said that I know for sure that they are having an affair. How would I start rumors by telling the pregnant lady that does not even make any sense.

[Anonymous]

Are you friendly with the cheating woman or the cheating husband? Maybe pull one of them aside and voice your concern. I wouldn't say ANYTHING to the pregnant wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She has 1. But lets get this straight, I am not destroying 2 families. The cheaters destroyed their families. Dont shoot the messenger, the damage is done with these familes. You dont have a long term affair with your next door neighbor and close friend and maintain a happy family life.

Remember - You saw nothing. Your husband saw it. If he feels the need to insert himself into the situation, so be it (I'll bet he doesn't) but that would be his call, not your call.

So consider yourself off the hook. Relax. Not your problem.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I also disagree with the rest of the posters on here. If my husband was cheating on me, I would want to know. However, I would absolutely not want to be the one to tell and be responsible. I can't imagine how awkard that would make the neighborhood dynamic if I ruined 2 marriages.

I would mail an anonymous letter maybe. I better be dead sure though and not speculating.

MYOB. These are not relatives and best friends that they need to "tell". This is a neighborhood of newly constructed homes.

Get a life! You are pathetic.

HAHA! Wow, such rage... are you the cheating neighbor? There seem to be a lot of MYOB crazies on this thread who I imagine are likely cheaters themselves. I think OP should have a discreet conversation with the pregnant woman and leave it at that. For all you MYOB-freaks, if you don't want your business being minded by others, quit boning in the backyard.

Quit looking in their backyard.

I would only tell if they were using my backyard! What is your problem?

[Anonymous]

this has gotten really crazy and I think this is going on in my neighborhood in which case I know which two people are involved and it's horrible! Is this in Burgundy Woods?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you friendly with the cheating woman or the cheating husband? Maybe pull one of them aside and voice your concern. I wouldn't say ANYTHING to the pregnant wife.

Friendly does not mean "Best Friends from Kindergarten". OP and her husband are nasty busybodies. No one here has a problem like this but they do. People usually have problems in their own lives that they want to solve. The OP and her DH do not have a life.

Willing to bet that the neighbors that they want to "out" are better looking, more popular and are making more money. There is no other reason for this jealousy.

And she has already told others in her neighborhood as well. In strictest confidence, of course. I know horrible, ugly people like that in my own neighborhood! Ugh! So low class!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have you seen anything recently? For all you know the situation may have resolved itself. Or maybe it will resolve itself once the baby is born. I'd wait, let it play out a bit. Unless you actually saw these two neighbors having sex I don't think you should say anything. You don't want to start rumors if nothing is going on.

Do not feed the troll. This is not her problem and her call at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:this has gotten really crazy and I think this is going on in my neighborhood in which case I know which two people are involved and it's horrible! Is this in Burgundy Woods?

No, it is not! But feel free to IM the OP. You guys can meet up for coffee, or become FB friends, or start another thread- the sky is the limit!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:this has gotten really crazy and I think this is going on in my neighborhood in which case I know which two people are involved and it's horrible! Is this in Burgundy Woods?

I'm not the OP or the cheaters but I'm your neighbor too and I want to vomit whenever I see the cheating mom out with her kid and husband acting all loving. And yes she's 100% cheating with the neighbor I've seen them kissing and him leaving her house at 3am when her husband is out of town on business.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok enough is enough, why are people responding & not reading. I just said that I know for sure that they are having an affair. How would I start rumors by telling the pregnant lady that does not even make any sense.

OP, you have tons of time on your hand. I suggest use it to increase your flossing time.