Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
You o buy groceries. OP wants to spend HER money on a bag.
You realize that's gross, right? Like, disgusting. I hope someone serrates it with a knife.
Are you married? Did you get an engagement ring (did you return it and buy a bunch of smaller pieces of jewelry)? Was you wedding more than a small private ceremony and cocktail/bbq/potluck reception? Does your car have a sunroof? Do you have an air conditioned home? Do you ever buy something at a regular retail store or do you only shop at goodwill/consignment shops for everything? Do you ever eat out? Do you ever get a mani or pedi? These are things that people choose to spend money on but would seem like an extreme extravagance by others who don't have as much disposable income. You should examine your own expenses and see if others would fund them "gross" or "like, disgusting".
And don't get me start on multiple $1000+ vacations a year
I love many European luxury items and prefer to have a few quality items that last forever versus 20+ cheap pieces
And always hear this judgment from women at work when they choose to blow money in other ways that I am personally more frugal about.
Fashion items are somehow not ok but all the stuff listed above is?
The only judgment if any should be if you can't afford it...if you can get the fuck out of choice of what I enjoy doing with my disposable income that I work my ass off for.
Exactly!