The men who think they're protecting women's bathrooms/locker rooms/spaces etc

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

Exactly. If we are splitting hairs, I'd rather my DH take our daughters in the women's room with stalls than a men's room where the men are peeing in the open. But this lunacy and obsession with where everyone is peeing is a uniquely American nonsense.

And my daughters would prefer that your dh stay out of their sex-specific designated safe space.

A public restroom is not your personal safe space, snowflake. It's where people go to pee.

I didn’t segregate by sex, but that’s the custom. Advocate for more unisex bathrooms if that’s what you want. I’m advocating for what I want.

And I want a young father not to be shamed because he chose to take his daughters to a women's restroom vs the men's. Get over yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

Yes, so why should Dad take his daughters into the place where men are in open urinals. Why do the little girls have to be in the open room with men with their pants open versus the women behind private stalls?

If you see a guy washing his daughter's hands and think he's a scary predator, you have serious issues and need therapy.

The girls aren't using the urinals so there's nothing to see.

And the women in the stalls peeing are in no way threatened by a father helping his daughters. Get over yourself.

Normal guys don't do this, hate to break it to you.

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

Yes, so why should Dad take his daughters into the place where men are in open urinals. Why do the little girls have to be in the open room with men with their pants open versus the women behind private stalls?

If you see a guy washing his daughter's hands and think he's a scary predator, you have serious issues and need therapy.

The girls aren't using the urinals so there's nothing to see.

And the women in the stalls peeing are in no way threatened by a father helping his daughters. Get over yourself.

Normal guys don't do this, hate to break it to you.

I'm a mom with boys and I've seen this all the time. In the real world, no one cares.

This guy didn't legitimately believe Dad was a threat, he was a brainwashed MAGA who's obsessed with bathrooms and saw his chance to get to throw a public fit.

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

Yes, so why should Dad take his daughters into the place where men are in open urinals. Why do the little girls have to be in the open room with men with their pants open versus the women behind private stalls?

If you see a guy washing his daughter's hands and think he's a scary predator, you have serious issues and need therapy.

The girls aren't using the urinals so there's nothing to see.

And the women in the stalls peeing are in no way threatened by a father helping his daughters. Get over yourself.

Normal guys don't do this, hate to break it to you.

Normal women don't feel threatened at the sight of a man because some politician told them to be scared. Idiot.

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

Yes, so why should Dad take his daughters into the place where men are in open urinals. Why do the little girls have to be in the open room with men with their pants open versus the women behind private stalls?

If you see a guy washing his daughter's hands and think he's a scary predator, you have serious issues and need therapy.

The girls aren't using the urinals so there's nothing to see.

And the women in the stalls peeing are in no way threatened by a father helping his daughters. Get over yourself.

Normal guys don't do this, hate to break it to you.

I'm a mom with boys and I've seen this all the time. In the real world, no one cares.

This guy didn't legitimately believe Dad was a threat, he was a brainwashed MAGA who's obsessed with bathrooms and saw his chance to get to throw a public fit.

PLUS A MILLION.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

Yes, so why should Dad take his daughters into the place where men are in open urinals. Why do the little girls have to be in the open room with men with their pants open versus the women behind private stalls?

If you see a guy washing his daughter's hands and think he's a scary predator, you have serious issues and need therapy.

The girls aren't using the urinals so there's nothing to see.

And the women in the stalls peeing are in no way threatened by a father helping his daughters. Get over yourself.

Normal guys don't do this, hate to break it to you.

Normal women don't feel threatened at the sight of a man because some politician told them to be scared. Idiot.

It's never women either, always white knighting men (who end up harassing women).

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

Stop inventing problems. This is not an issue anywhere else in the world where there is one bathroom for everyone.

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

Yes, so why should Dad take his daughters into the place where men are in open urinals. Why do the little girls have to be in the open room with men with their pants open versus the women behind private stalls?

If you see a guy washing his daughter's hands and think he's a scary predator, you have serious issues and need therapy.

The girls aren't using the urinals so there's nothing to see.

And the women in the stalls peeing are in no way threatened by a father helping his daughters. Get over yourself.

Normal guys don't do this, hate to break it to you.

Normal women don't feel threatened at the sight of a man because some politician told them to be scared. Idiot.

It's never women either, always white knighting men (who end up harassing women).

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

Family restrooms would be a godsend. Pools of a certain size should be required to have family dressing rooms.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

Awww you're such a helpless little flower, aren't you. How do you even walk out of the house without your husband to protect you?

The only people these little girls need protection from are lunatics like you and the one who was yelling at the father.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

So... one Dad with kids in a place where there are stalls = scary aaaaaa.

A restroom full of men with open urinals = "Dad has nothing to worry about with his daughters."

Yeah... nope.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This guy seems like a jerk, but I also don't want men in the bathroom. I want to be able to complain to management when there is one and for them to politely be asked to leave, despite their claimed personal identity.

Shhh! Someone will hear you, and you’ll be tarred and feathered as an irredeemable bigot.

Hah, and agreed. OP is clearly trying to turn this into a gotcha moment against people with legitimate and genuine concerns.

On a similar theme, at my local Y, which is very nice, there is a separate locker room just for boys, including teen boys. So there's a men's changing room/bathroom, women's changing room/bathroom, a family changing room/bathroom, and a boys changing room/bathroom. There isn't one for girls. And we all know why, don't we? It doesn't mean the vast majority of men are perfectly decent and trustworthy but there are some out there who are not.

Thats weird......
Itd be better if all places just had family restrooms but they dont.

You are familiar with the concept of leering men, aren't you? Old females aren't leering at young teen girls in changing rooms. What is weird is people who pretend this doesn't happen.

So... let's bring little girls into men's rooms?

Your logic isn't working.

The only little girls who would be in men’s rooms would have their dads there to protect them. Nobody’s bothering them.

Awww you're such a helpless little flower, aren't you. How do you even walk out of the house without your husband to protect you?

The only people these little girls need protection from are lunatics like you and the one who was yelling at the father.

This grown woman expects to be given the snowflake treatment while 4 year old girls apparently are tougher.