The men who think they're protecting women's bathrooms/locker rooms/spaces etc

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Anonymous wrote:I have never seen a man walk his daughters into the women's restrooms. He should stand guard outside and sometimes ask if everything is ok if they seem to be taking a long time. Going in with them was a super weird choice.

You've never had a kid who's needed help wiping after a sticky poop or got their underwear tangled or a button stuck? Or a kid who can't reach the soap dispenser over the sink? A lot of bathrooms have the soap or paper towels out of reach for a kid that age. Are little girls just supposed to not wash their hands?

DP. As a dad, I encountered this many times, but we just went in the men's room where I could help.

I'm a mom and I just don't see why Dad at the sinks would be an issue for anyone. You cannot see anything private in the women's restroom because there are stalls.

Not to mention, who wants to see someone urinate or defacate?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Leave it to DCUM to find a way to turn any random occurrence into an occasion to bash all men.

To be fair, OP is only bashing MAGA men.

Yeah OP is bashing a man who harassed little girls. If you're a man (or woman) who harasses young girls, you deserve bashing.

The yelling man should be trespassed and banned.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

You have serious mental health problems if you see a father with two young daughters washing their hands at the sink and feel threatened. Total lunacy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

Exactly. If we are splitting hairs, I'd rather my DH take our daughters in the women's room with stalls than a men's room where the men are peeing in the open. But this lunacy and obsession with where everyone is peeing is a uniquely American nonsense.

And my daughters would prefer that your dh stay out of their sex-specific designated safe space.

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

You have serious mental health problems if you see a father with two young daughters washing their hands at the sink and feel threatened. Total lunacy.

Some people are easily excitable

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

Yes, so why should Dad take his daughters into the place where men are in open urinals. Why do the little girls have to be in the open room with men with their pants open versus the women behind private stalls?

If you see a guy washing his daughter's hands and think he's a scary predator, you have serious issues and need therapy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

Exactly. If we are splitting hairs, I'd rather my DH take our daughters in the women's room with stalls than a men's room where the men are peeing in the open. But this lunacy and obsession with where everyone is peeing is a uniquely American nonsense.

And my daughters would prefer that your dh stay out of their sex-specific designated safe space.

A public restroom is not your personal safe space, snowflake. It's where people go to pee.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

You have serious mental health problems if you see a father with two young daughters washing their hands at the sink and feel threatened. Total lunacy.

Obviously, washing hands is no threat, but if we allow the good guys in, we also have to allow the bad guys in. Once you admit any men, you end up admitting ALL men. Even predators are dads with little kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

Yes, so why should Dad take his daughters into the place where men are in open urinals. Why do the little girls have to be in the open room with men with their pants open versus the women behind private stalls?

If you see a guy washing his daughter's hands and think he's a scary predator, you have serious issues and need therapy.

The girls aren't using the urinals so there's nothing to see.

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

You have serious mental health problems if you see a father with two young daughters washing their hands at the sink and feel threatened. Total lunacy.

Obviously, washing hands is no threat, but if we allow the good guys in, we also have to allow the bad guys in. Once you admit any men, you end up admitting ALL men. Even predators are dads with little kids.

You know slippery slope is a logical fallacy, right?

If you think "Dad washing his kid's hands no where near the toilets" means "I have to now tolerate a man looking into women's stalls", I just can't help you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

Exactly. If we are splitting hairs, I'd rather my DH take our daughters in the women's room with stalls than a men's room where the men are peeing in the open. But this lunacy and obsession with where everyone is peeing is a uniquely American nonsense.

And my daughters would prefer that your dh stay out of their sex-specific designated safe space.

A public restroom is not your personal safe space, snowflake. It's where people go to pee.

I didn’t segregate by sex, but that’s the custom. Advocate for more unisex bathrooms if that’s what you want. I’m advocating for what I want.

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

Yes, so why should Dad take his daughters into the place where men are in open urinals. Why do the little girls have to be in the open room with men with their pants open versus the women behind private stalls?

If you see a guy washing his daughter's hands and think he's a scary predator, you have serious issues and need therapy.

The girls aren't using the urinals so there's nothing to see.

And the women in the stalls peeing are in no way threatened by a father helping his daughters. Get over yourself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

You have serious mental health problems if you see a father with two young daughters washing their hands at the sink and feel threatened. Total lunacy.

Obviously, washing hands is no threat, but if we allow the good guys in, we also have to allow the bad guys in. Once you admit any men, you end up admitting ALL men. Even predators are dads with little kids.

You know slippery slope is a logical fallacy, right?

If you think "Dad washing his kid's hands no where near the toilets" means "I have to now tolerate a man looking into women's stalls", I just can't help you.

Luckily for the rest of us most men realize this isn't the right way to do it. Never have I seen a man washing his kid's hands in a women's restroom. This isn't going to catch on no matter how much you attempt to normalize it. A man is perfectly capable of washing hands in a men's restroom.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's pretty weird the dad took his kids to the women's bathroom. Take them to the men's restroom. The reaction was unnecessary but really esh

+1 The grown man should be in the men’s restroom and his young children should accompany him. The bathroom of choice isn’t determined by one’s 4 year old. 4 year old boys with their moms should be in the women’s restrooms. That’s how it works.

I don't understand why grown women in stalls are considered more vulnerable than little girls in a room with open urinals.

Dad's choice to use the more private bathroom is legitimate.

No, it’s not, because he doesn’t belong in there. If it’s a unisex bathroom, fine, have at it, but if it’s a ladies’ room, he doesn’t belong in there.

So why do the little girls belong in the men's restroom then?

You can make a different call for yourself but I think Dad deciding he doesn't want his daughters in the with urinals is a legitimate choice.

No one has articulated why a Dad at the sinks woth his daughter's poses any problem to anyone. Because it's ridiculous.

Many, many women don’t want men in the WOMEN’S restroom. People have to take their kids places, so little kids accompany their parents. No little girls pose a threat to grown men. Some grown men do pose threats to little girls and women. Are you new on earth?

You have serious mental health problems if you see a father with two young daughters washing their hands at the sink and feel threatened. Total lunacy.

Obviously, washing hands is no threat, but if we allow the good guys in, we also have to allow the bad guys in. Once you admit any men, you end up admitting ALL men. Even predators are dads with little kids.

You know slippery slope is a logical fallacy, right?

If you think "Dad washing his kid's hands no where near the toilets" means "I have to now tolerate a man looking into women's stalls", I just can't help you.

The problem isn’t with dads helping kids wash hands. The problem is accepting that men have any place in women’s private spaces.