As expected, same bullying behavior from the private school crowd telling people what rights they do and don't have |
I'm sorry this thread is getting derailed as it is a good topic. We are also applying to private schools and it is taking up most of my non working time, between the visits and shadow days and essays and applications and the test prep. But what are really the chances of being admitted at this or that school? Deep inside I'm aware there must goals the school is looking for in an incoming class, this % for athletes, this % for black students, this % for other non white students, this % for legacies, so does it really mean out of a hypothetical 30 open seats in an expansion year, we're really competing for one of five seats, not 30? Those would be the true odds. And of course we're always worried whether we're doing enough during the admissions process. Is just filling out the applications fine or do schools still somehow expect more from us without explicitly saying so? Do they keep records of how often we visit the campus? But other than the open house and shadow day, what else is there? |
+1 It's so annoying to be spending so much time on something when you don't even know if what you're doing is helping or what the best way to approach it is. |
100% ! I just wish the schools were transparent on the front end. OP is expecting transparency after the fact when they've already gone through the very time consuming admissions process. Why can't schools be upfront with some basic guidelines of what they are looking for? Like, a minimum SSAT/HSPT score, minimum level of grades ... how many non legacy/ siblings/ big donor spots are roughly available ... at least it puts things in perspective for the families and saves everyone time and money. |
| I worked in admissions for years, mostly at one that was grades 6-12 (not in this area but just as competitive and crazy) and the reality is when you have more qualified applicants than spots, you have the luxury of weeding out high drama families. OP should consider that fact carefully. |
Imagine that is not selective, not competitive at all, would you go? Why does the school have any obligation to tell you beyond what they have said on the website. |
Welcome to the real world. Have you applied college? fellowships? faculty positions? |
| Why are some people so obsessed with wanting to control every institution? So much for land if the free. |
lol ok. transparency = high drama. |
I was smart enough to avoid academia, so never applied to fellowships or faculty positions. but I did apply to college, yes. And it was great to have tons of data released by the schools I was applying to about average SAT scores, GPA, admissions rates, race breakdowns, geographic breakdowns, etc. Thanks for proving my point that private schools should do the same! |
You want to know, but you have no right to know. Do I have a right to know your personal finances? No, that’s private information |
Are you implying that most admissions offices have a way to identify anonymous internet posters and match them to applicants? |
I don't receive preferential tax treatment based on my non-profit status and service to the greater good of the community, so of course you have no right to know how I spend my money. |
Stop applying to these schools then, they don’t want you and it makes you tired. Stop with all of these nonsense threads OP, you are getting nowhere and your signature formula of question about inequality + tireless arguing about your rights + sarcasm toward everyone who disagrees with you = thread getting locked or abandoned. There is a reason people don’t want you in their community |
Is it bullying to point out that you don’t have a right to this information? Or is it just the truth? Yes, it would be great but it’s not a right. |