If you have duds for kids, is it a reversion back to family history or an outlier?

[Anonymous]

Genetics 101.
All it takes is one dud dna and it goes on and on and on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I think my father was a dud back in the day but he managed to hold a job and have a family. However he was very helpless in all other aspects of his life. But then maybe he is ok since he has a job and kids? The jury is still out on that one.
My ex’s uncle is a clear cut dud. Lives with his 93yo mom and was never married. Idk what his issue is.

Was your father a good man? Treat everyone ok? He supported his family, he didn’t walk away. If so, he’s not a dud (Stupid term)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:WTF is a "dud" child?

Unsuccessful. Average or below.

You all have some narrow minded ideas on what you consider unsuccessful.

Who ever posted this is probably average because that’s where most of us fit. Having a college degree or not doesn’t factor in the equation. What type of job doesn’t factor in the equation.

A successful person is one who is able to care for themselves and their families. They are responsible with their money. They don’t buy status symbols they put the money towards their children’s education. They enjoy being with their families and friends during their off time. When there are tough times they don’t walk away.

Duds go to bars after work instead of going to have dinner with family. Duds in the bar spend money on buying women drinks. Duds don’t play with their young kids or have any interest in their teens.

This is just about married adults. Single adults have their own criteria.

[Anonymous]

My dud sister is raising dud children, so it is clearly genetic. She is passing down her mental illness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Genetics 101.
All it takes is one dud dna and it goes on and on and on.

This

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My kids are dudes from a long line of dudes.

Dudes or duds?