Did you buy alcohol for your Freshman when you dropped them off?

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Anonymous wrote:We got DS and his roommate 2 Kegs for their first week.


I think this is a troll, but most frats have weekends sponsored by parents who pay for the kegs. Not for a freshman on their first day tho.
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Nope but I did pack condoms. Along the lines of having a drink at home, I gave her, her first gummy. Better to know what it feels like safe at home. I’m not buying alcohol or weed for her.
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Anonymous wrote:Nope but I did pack condoms. Along the lines of having a drink at home, I gave her, her first gummy. Better to know what it feels like safe at home. I’m not buying alcohol or weed for her.


So, you basically told her "go have sex with people you don't know!" on her first night? why not give her booze and drugs too?
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Anonymous wrote:No. What a weird question. I don’t know anyone that would do this.


Same. What decent parent buys alcohol for a 17 yr old?!


One who loves them enough to keep them from seeking out older frat guys to help them procure the booze they're going to drink anyway?

So instead of teaching her not to get drunk with strange men, you give her alcohol so she is already wasted by the time she gets to the frat party? What a way to set her up for success.


You do know kids drink at college, right?

Sorry, rather her have her mixing her own drinks than letting some rapist at a frat do it.


Well, that's called pre-gaming. And then they go to the frat party anyway.

You're not helping your kid by supplying your 17/18 year old with alcohol. It's actually very cringe.

Also, this isn't the 90s. This generation drinks far less than their parents generation. Sure, some kids choose to get wasted on alcohol, but it's not really the norm for Gen Z anymore. Certainly compared to when their parents went to college.
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Anonymous wrote:No. What a weird question. I don’t know anyone that would do this.


Same. What decent parent buys alcohol for a 17 yr old?!


One who loves them enough to keep them from seeking out older frat guys to help them procure the booze they're going to drink anyway?

So instead of teaching her not to get drunk with strange men, you give her alcohol so she is already wasted by the time she gets to the frat party? What a way to set her up for success.


You do know kids drink at college, right?

Sorry, rather her have her mixing her own drinks than letting some rapist at a frat do it.


Well, that's called pre-gaming. And then they go to the frat party anyway.

You're not helping your kid by supplying your 17/18 year old with alcohol. It's actually very cringe.

Also, this isn't the 90s. This generation drinks far less than their parents generation. Sure, some kids choose to get wasted on alcohol, but it's not really the norm for Gen Z anymore. Certainly compared to when their parents went to college.



Hahah, yeah, I'm sure you believe all that too. Did your daughter tell you that?



there's clueless parents in every generation!

My daughter texted a thank you and as I said earlier was very happy to have us drop off little shipments when we came to visit.
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Anonymous wrote:Nope but I did pack condoms. Along the lines of having a drink at home, I gave her, her first gummy. Better to know what it feels like safe at home. I’m not buying alcohol or weed for her.


So, you basically told her "go have sex with people you don't know!" on her first night? why not give her booze and drugs too?


Do you really believe your 18+ college kid isn’t having sex?
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Anonymous wrote:Nope but I did pack condoms. Along the lines of having a drink at home, I gave her, her first gummy. Better to know what it feels like safe at home. I’m not buying alcohol or weed for her.


So, you basically told her "go have sex with people you don't know!" on her first night? why not give her booze and drugs too?


Do you really believe your 18+ college kid isn’t having sex?


why is it any better to give them condoms than give them a bottle of tequila?
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What's weird question.
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I would never buy my underage child alcohol.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If so, what is the reasoning?


No. How about you, OP?
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Anonymous wrote:Nope but I did pack condoms. Along the lines of having a drink at home, I gave her, her first gummy. Better to know what it feels like safe at home. I’m not buying alcohol or weed for her.


So, you basically told her "go have sex with people you don't know!" on her first night? why not give her booze and drugs too?


Do you really believe your 18+ college kid isn’t having sex?


why is it any better to give them condoms than give them a bottle of tequila?


Giving your kid condoms is not like giving your kid tequila it’s like giving them an uber account so they don’t drink a ride.
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Anonymous wrote:Nope but I did pack condoms. Along the lines of having a drink at home, I gave her, her first gummy. Better to know what it feels like safe at home. I’m not buying alcohol or weed for her.


So, you basically told her "go have sex with people you don't know!" on her first night? why not give her booze and drugs too?


Do you really believe your 18+ college kid isn’t having sex?


why is it any better to give them condoms than give them a bottle of tequila?


So their friends don’t get sent to the slammer for helping them get an abortion if they get pregnant. Depending on the state.
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Anonymous wrote:Ours had an amazing fake I.D. that would even scan at the strict places.


Nice!
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Anonymous wrote:Nope but I did pack condoms. Along the lines of having a drink at home, I gave her, her first gummy. Better to know what it feels like safe at home. I’m not buying alcohol or weed for her.


So, you basically told her "go have sex with people you don't know!" on her first night? why not give her booze and drugs too?


Do you really believe your 18+ college kid isn’t having sex?


why is it any better to give them condoms than give them a bottle of tequila?


Giving your kid condoms is not like giving your kid tequila it’s like giving them an uber account so they don’t drink a ride.


A pack of condoms on the first day of college is literally encouraging them to have sex with strangers. Maybe that's what you want for your kids? But god forbid they have a bottle of tequila!
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