Thinking I need to break up with boyfriend

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah, this will not get better. He's not even doing the thing where he listens and promises to make changes, then "forgets". There is no happy ending here. I'm sorry OP.

I think what I am post pissed off about is that he used to constantly do everything right when we first started dating. When I first pointed out he never compliments me, never does nice little gestures anymore, etc. about six months ago, he replied, (I am not joking here) "I don't need to anymore."

Yeah, he should be done. I've been with my husband for over 30 years at this point, and he still gives me compliments and nice gestures. As I do for him too. And not for "points"...but because that's what people who truly care about each other do. I'm so sorry, I know you feel at 32 it's over, but you deserve better than this loser. (And he's 39?!? Really?)

I met my DH 6 months after breaking up with my old BF — I was 32. We married less than a year later and have been going strong for 22 years. There is hope!

[Anonymous]

I do not think you should remain in an unhappy relationship just because you are thirty-two.

Besides 32 is still relatively youthful.