They didn't say that. And most of the low income kids zoned for Eastern also don't go there! |
I actually said nothing about race. But the OP pretty blatantly said other kids "can't relate" so yes there's a clear SES issue at play at a lot of schools like Eastern. As higher SES kids leave, parents get gun shy about being the only ones left and that sets off a mad dash of higher performing kids. I'm not saying Eastern is perfect, but there's absolutely SES prisoner's dilemma that happens at more diverse socioeconomic schools. There are whole threads on here about how terrible the J-R principal is and the drug problems at Hardy and MacArthur. And yet UMC families in other feeders are Hunger Games style lotterying for spots because since they're in predominantly wealthy areas there's the assumption that you'll always have a pipeline of UMC and wealthy kids and families and thus test scores won't drop and kids will have peer hobbies. I'm not judging people who are weary of other DCPS HSs I'm simply stating that there is obviously an underlying SES impact at play here and causes issues for both families and the schools themselves. |
What else, truly, is this supposed to me? "Also PP above is absolutely correct. The experience of your kid will be very different with friends who can’t relate to things, friends who can’t do things, etc…." |
IB is really rigorous. It’s a waste of time to go through the really difficult process of taking those exams when you are only at grade level. There are honestly more productive things to do with your time like take some AP exams that you could potentially get a 4/5 in than go through the IB diploma process to ultimately not get it. Remember for the IB diploma you have to take the exams in 6 subjects including math, language, social studies, foreign language, sciences and an elective. It’s no joke. If you are only on grade level, ifs a way better play to hope for the best in a few targeted AP classes and do your best on the SAT/ACT with some good internships. |
Mann families are never faced with the choice of whether to send their kids to Eastern. The Eastern feeder elementariness largely have nowhere near the money that Mann does (Maury and Brent might, I don't know, but none of the other schools do for sure). Many of these schools are Title 1. All three feeder MSs are Title 1. So you are accusing families whose kids have attended Title 1 elementary schools and sometimes middle schools of not wanting their kids to interact with lower SES families, because they are choosing not to send their kids to Eastern. It doesn't make sense. No one knows better than a family who has gone through Eastern feeders what the environment at Eastern is likely to be like. And as one of those families, we are making the choice to send our kids elsewhere. It is not about fear of interacting with low SES families. It's about wanting a HS environment that will actually meet the needs of kids who are academic and college bound. Eastern does not currently offer that, the IB program notwithstanding. Yes, you *can* go through Eastern and then go to college (in fact attending the school may offer a boost in admission to many universities that are seeking to boost the number of students from urban Title 1 HSs) but is it a great choice for most kids? No. Does DC offer a variety of other options college bound kids? Yes, and most people pick one of those. You can sling accusations of classism and racism if you want, but at the end of the day this really is parents just making the right choice for their kids. Including black families. I don't know a single black family in our cohort with college educated parents who are choosing Eastern. Charters, moving, parochial schools, other privates, yes. Eastern, no. It does not offer a good college prep experience. |
Of course there is an SES issue at play, but that's not the same thing as saying that a PP "do[es]n't want to interact with lower SES families". That is an insane accusation for someone at an Eastern MS feeder (newsflash: all have substantial lower SES populations to majority lower SES populations) and has very different connotations than your "not judging" follow up post. |
It is hard to tell if this is the same person coming back and posting repeatedly -- we get why you made/make the education choices you have made, and what your priorities are. Not sure why spelling them out in several paragraphs long posts seems necessary. There are thousands of families in feeder schools, so the data sampling of your cohort, as well as your family is just that, a data point. It is just as easy for any of us to come on here and write paragraphs about the families we know and their choices. For the sake of all of us, consider your point made, and let this thread die, or at least allow for some other topics relevant to the post to be discussed. |
This thread was about Eastern trying to improve and people basically immediately saying they'd never send their kids because of test scores and then slowly starting to say also there are other reasons, like fit.
So I mean it, what can Eastern do to prove to higher SES parents to stay. It's apparently not getting a seasoned principal, or building out IB, so what is it? I am sincerely asking. I think there are a lot of HSs and MSs in DC that would love to keep their IB populations but truly struggle with how to balance a culture of people jumping ship even before kids get to MS and HS for WOTP while serving the students that do matriculate. |
Sorry no, that PP pretty much said that my kid could never have any friends at Eastern or any social life. It’s one of the more nakedly offensive and racist things I’ve seen here (and I have seen a lot). |
Ok well then speak for you own kid. Others of us have more flexible kids. |
You are free to do what you want, but you cannot come on here and say reprehensible things like the kids at Eastern aren’t even worth being friends with, and not expect a reaction. |
Thank you. I feel like I'm going to insane. This person was like my kid really won't find friends they can relate to because they're smart and have wealthy hobbies unlike the Eastern HS kids and then presumably the same person keeps turning around and saying how dare you accuse me of of bigotry. |
I think they have started a few things that are making inroads - just harder to see from the outside especially if you are a parent of younger kids. It also doesn't help that whatever limited data is publicly available on schools is usually at least a year outdated. I think they realized parents wanted more rigorous options before the IB courses started junior year, so they worked to ramp up their EPIC program. I know they were trying to get it onto MySchoolDC like the other application programs, but until then, the application process is linked through their website. I get the impression the number of kids applying/participating in that program has increased in the past few years. It also seems like they are trying to connect with the middle school communities, some of the sports teams practice together, I think the bands coordinate together sometimes, etc. I don't know a ton of families there, but the ones I know are happy. |
This is a legitimately helpful response. Thank you. |
Good question. I think the EPIC program is intended to help attract stronger students, so that's one thing. Increasing the quality of academic instruction across the board is the main thing. And I say this from having been involved at a Title I elementary where that approach did work. No name brand programs or partnerships, just a relentless focus on core academics. Yes a high school is very different from an elementary, but still. This isn't really about figuring out what will keep the highest performance feeder kids right now. It's about gradually increasing performance of the kids they do have. Getting CAPE scores out of the disaster zone so that they are merely bad, then middling. Keeping more and more of their feeder and IB kids so that entering kids went to decent middle schools. It's a very slow and gradual process and retaining the top kids is at the end of the process. |