Melinda French Gates whining about her divorce

[Anonymous]

She brags about her "good deeds.". I was brought up that one does their good deeds in silence. Her self aggrandizement is over the top.

What?? She talks about her work as a way to raise awareness and to encourage other billionaires to use their money to make a difference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

She brags about her "good deeds.". I was brought up that one does their good deeds in silence. Her self aggrandizement is over the top.

What?? She talks about her work as a way to raise awareness and to encourage other billionaires to use their money to make a difference.

So how many billions have you donated, to what organizations? It is anonymous here, do tell.

[Anonymous]

I think if I had billions I wouldn't bother writing a book describing my divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

She brags about her "good deeds.". I was brought up that one does their good deeds in silence. Her self aggrandizement is over the top.

What?? She talks about her work as a way to raise awareness and to encourage other billionaires to use their money to make a difference.

So how many billions have you donated, to what organizations? It is anonymous here, do tell.

That went right over your head!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

She brags about her "good deeds.". I was brought up that one does their good deeds in silence. Her self aggrandizement is over the top.

What?? She talks about her work as a way to raise awareness and to encourage other billionaires to use their money to make a difference.

So how many billions have you donated, to what organizations? It is anonymous here, do tell.

That went right over your head!

+1. Plenty of rich people don’t bother to do any good deeds despite having billions-the Trumps, the Bezoses…the Koch brothers, and of course Elon Musk.

[Anonymous]

Bill was sleeping around on her. He might have been involved in some of Epstein's pedo activities. I'm sure it was really painful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think if I had billions I wouldn't bother writing a book describing my divorce.

melinda & sheryl sandberg are soul sisters

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I've always liked Melinda. I think she's a very smart lady and a good mother. I give her credit for the kids. I think she had to be very patient being married to Bill. He is brilliant but seems very detached and probably was not the most involved husband or father.

+1 Me too. Her kids all seem pretty functional--the eldest is a doctor. Melinda could have been a Lauren Sanchez and just hang around celebrities on a yacht all day. But she's gone to the poorest countries in the world and tried to help bring medicine and clean water. And I think her new org is focused specifically on helping poor women.

Wow, some of the posts here are totally bonkers. Melinda has been speaking out on behalf of the most vulnerable populations in the world for decades and she has sat for many, many interviews, so before you judge her, I recommend that you go on YouTube and listen to her first. She cares about providing free birth control to women in extremely impoverished areas and actually spends the money to make it happen. She is an amazing speaker and non-profit leader.

So much jealousy on dcum.

Charity begins at home and she has done nothing for American women. With her billions she could easily have a program to pay for travel to blue states for women in Red states with draconian abortion laws.

[Anonymous]

Come on.
"Bill Gates and Melinda Gates had an unusual agreement where Bill would spend a long weekend every year with his ex-girlfriend, Ann Winblad, at her beach cottage in North Carolina.
Melinda's Approval:
Melinda Gates reportedly approved of this arrangement, which was part of the deal when they married in 1994.
Nature of the Trips:
These trips were described as platonic and involved activities like dune buggy riding, discussing biotechnology, watching movies, and exploring advanced subjects like bioengineering and physics.
Friendship:
Bill Gates and Ann Winblad met at a computer conference in the 1980s, and their romantic relationship ended in 1987, but their friendship remained.
Public Statements:
In a 1997 Time magazine profile, Gates mentioned the arrangement, saying, "We can play putt-putt while discussing biotechnology".
Divorce Context:
The details of this arrangement resurfaced after Bill and Melinda Gates announced their divorce in 2021.
Other Factors in Divorce:
While the arrangement with Winblad was a point of public discussion, other factors, including Bill Gates's relationship with Jeffrey Epstein, also contributed to Melinda's decision to leave.
Winblad's Perspective:
Ann Winblad has also spoken about the trips, describing them as a way to share their thoughts about the world and themselves.
Bill and Melinda Gates' Marriage: The Most Surprising Parts
May 4, 2021 — Bill Took Annual Vacations with His Ex-Girlfriend. ... "Every spring, as they have for more than a decade, Gates spends.

The Arrangement:
Bill Gates and Melinda Gates had an unusual agreement where Bill would spend a long weekend every year with his ex-girlfriend, Ann Winblad, at her beach cottage in North Carolina.
Melinda's Approval:
Melinda Gates reportedly approved of this arrangement, which was part of the deal when they married in 1994.
Nature of the Trips:
These trips were described as platonic and involved activities like dune buggy riding, discussing biotechnology, watching movies, and exploring advanced subjects like bioengineering and physics.
Friendship:
Bill Gates and Ann Winblad met at a computer conference in the 1980s, and their romantic relationship ended in 1987, but their friendship remained.
Public Statements:
In a 1997 Time magazine profile, Gates mentioned the arrangement, saying, "We can play putt-putt while discussing biotechnology".
Divorce Context:
The details of this arrangement resurfaced after Bill and Melinda Gates announced their divorce in 2021.
Other Factors in Divorce:
While the arrangement with Winblad was a point of public discussion, other factors, including Bill Gates's relationship with Jeffrey Epstein, also contributed to Melinda's decision to leave.
Winblad's Perspective:
Ann Winblad has also spoken about the trips, describing them as a way to share their thoughts about the world and themselves.
Bill and Melinda Gates' Marriage: The Most Surprising Parts
May 4, 2021 — Bill Took Annual Vacations with His Ex-Girlfriend. ... "Every spring, as they have for more than a decade..."

Personally, This is not an arrangement I would not agree to.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I've always liked Melinda. I think she's a very smart lady and a good mother. I give her credit for the kids. I think she had to be very patient being married to Bill. He is brilliant but seems very detached and probably was not the most involved husband or father.

+1 Me too. Her kids all seem pretty functional--the eldest is a doctor. Melinda could have been a Lauren Sanchez and just hang around celebrities on a yacht all day. But she's gone to the poorest countries in the world and tried to help bring medicine and clean water. And I think her new org is focused specifically on helping poor women.

Wow, some of the posts here are totally bonkers. Melinda has been speaking out on behalf of the most vulnerable populations in the world for decades and she has sat for many, many interviews, so before you judge her, I recommend that you go on YouTube and listen to her first. She cares about providing free birth control to women in extremely impoverished areas and actually spends the money to make it happen. She is an amazing speaker and non-profit leader.

So much jealousy on dcum.

Charity begins at home and she has done nothing for American women. With her billions she could easily have a program to pay for travel to blue states for women in Red states with draconian abortion laws.

Since her divorce she's been pouring money into reproductive rights for American women. Maybe you should pay a little more attention.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Come on.
"Bill Gates and Melinda Gates had an unusual agreement where Bill would spend a long weekend every year with his ex-girlfriend, Ann Winblad, at her beach cottage in North Carolina.
Melinda's Approval:
Melinda Gates reportedly approved of this arrangement, which was part of the deal when they married in 1994.
Nature of the Trips:
These trips were described as platonic and involved activities like dune buggy riding, discussing biotechnology, watching movies, and exploring advanced subjects like bioengineering and physics.
Friendship:
Bill Gates and Ann Winblad met at a computer conference in the 1980s, and their romantic relationship ended in 1987, but their friendship remained.
Public Statements:
In a 1997 Time magazine profile, Gates mentioned the arrangement, saying, "We can play putt-putt while discussing biotechnology".
Divorce Context:
The details of this arrangement resurfaced after Bill and Melinda Gates announced their divorce in 2021.

Personally, This is not an arrangement I would not agree to.

I don’t think the average person in a normal marriage is analogous here. Powerful/wealthy people are fairly isolated in terms of friendships and relationships. They can speak freely with very very few people. I can understand having a trusted person from your past that you continue to confide in. The average person doesn’t need the same outlet since we have friends we can confide in regularly and in a normal way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why anyone would want to read her book. Why is she interesting?

I could maybe understand why you might listen to a free podcast interview, but even that might get boring.

+1 NP

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I've always liked Melinda. I think she's a very smart lady and a good mother. I give her credit for the kids. I think she had to be very patient being married to Bill. He is brilliant but seems very detached and probably was not the most involved husband or father.

+1 Me too. Her kids all seem pretty functional--the eldest is a doctor. Melinda could have been a Lauren Sanchez and just hang around celebrities on a yacht all day. But she's gone to the poorest countries in the world and tried to help bring medicine and clean water. And I think her new org is focused specifically on helping poor women.

Wow, some of the posts here are totally bonkers. Melinda has been speaking out on behalf of the most vulnerable populations in the world for decades and she has sat for many, many interviews, so before you judge her, I recommend that you go on YouTube and listen to her first. She cares about providing free birth control to women in extremely impoverished areas and actually spends the money to make it happen. She is an amazing speaker and non-profit leader.

So much jealousy on dcum.

Charity begins at home and she has done nothing for American women. With her billions she could easily have a program to pay for travel to blue states for women in Red states with draconian abortion laws.

Since her divorce she's been pouring money into reproductive rights for American women. Maybe you should pay a little more attention.

+1
I'm with Bernie, we don't need billionaires. At least she's been using her voice and power to help women and girls. To the PP who complained about her charities in other countries, in the first place as above, you're wrong, she does support women and girls in the US. Secondly, you should do some reading. Global health crises and poverty bring problems to you right here in the US. From a selfish point of view, providing assistance to foreign countries benefits you. In the third place, I don't know how to explain that you should care about other people so I guess I'll leave it at that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is like a ton of other uberwealthy people who have agents approaching her for book deals kissing her ass and telling her that people want to hear her story. Does anybody really care about her story? Probably not. But, the publisher will make some money and she will make some money, so all good.

Sorry but your are contradicting yourself. If she and the publisher will make money, it means some are interested in her story, so many that even the publisher can cash on it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP,

Money doesn't cure heart-ache. It doesn't prevent stress and panic attacks. I know, I have millions but suffer from a panic disorder.

Also, did you know that Bill deeply regrets his divorce? Called it the worst mistake of his life.

This break-up was incredibly painful for both of them.

Have some dammed respect, OP.

Why did they get divorced?

Bill was caught cheating with a very young (legal aged) Russian chess protege. Allegedly.