Why is being called an “incel” an insult to men in the “manosphere”?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You think calling a woman “average” wouldn’t be an insult?

I mean most people are average.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The average IQ on this thread is 69

67!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’ve just watched the series Adolescence on Netflix and it sent me down a rabbit hole on the whole Andrew Tate/Manosphere/incel culture.

If these men truly believe in the 80/20 rule, and subscribe to the “Manosphere”, how is it insulting to them to be described as an incel, a word created by the movement itself. Isn’t that exactly what they are being indoctrinated to believe? That because of women—not because of themselves—they aren’t having sex? What is insulting about being called a term your own cult coined?

Explain it to me like I’m 5, please.

Because you are literally telling them they are incapable of getting laid.

An “incel” literally translates to “involuntarily celibate.”

The wedge is they display characteristics that are unattractive to women — laziness, toxic masculinity, etc. But instead of improving themselves they have turned to misogyny, decided they are entitled to sex, get bitter, and blame women instead of themselves.

That’s it in a nutshell.

The bolded part is correct.
The non-bold part is wrong.

Nope. It's all correct.

[Anonymous]

I like my men to be incompetent

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The term "incel" has evolved to the point that it means "man that I disagree with" in most instances where I see it used.

Mostly women use it as a term to cut a man down to size even when it is not applicable.

Like most of these terms, it is becoming diluted to the point of meaninglessness.

Btw, a woman actually coined the term.

No, this is not at all true.

You need to educate yourself. Please watch the NetFlix documentary “Adolescence.”

LMAO! Oh the irony of that bolded part.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you know that incel is short for involuntarily celibate? That’s why it’s an insult. It’s saying you can’t get laid.

Sounds like atheist bullying, trying to normalize sexual degeneracy and hookup culture. Celibacy, purity and monogamy should be celebrated, not condemned. Same for kids staying away from porn and weed. Good on them.

They’d be better off just taking the vow and living as monks. No woman wants them for anything - not sex, not companionship, not a relationship, and often not friendship, either. That’s why it stings when it comes from someone else - basically confirms what they already know. Their appeal to other humans is zero.

Yup. Same for girls who are Femcels. 80% of women now are obese and/or ruined by social media, and will likely never attract a man that's willing to stay around.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you know that incel is short for involuntarily celibate? That’s why it’s an insult. It’s saying you can’t get laid.

Sounds like atheist bullying, trying to normalize sexual degeneracy and hookup culture. Celibacy, purity and monogamy should be celebrated, not condemned. Same for kids staying away from porn and weed. Good on them.

They’d be better off just taking the vow and living as monks. No woman wants them for anything - not sex, not companionship, not a relationship, and often not friendship, either. That’s why it stings when it comes from someone else - basically confirms what they already know. Their appeal to other humans is zero.

Yup. Same for girls who are Femcels. 80% of women now are obese and/or ruined by social media, and will likely never attract a man that's willing to stay around.

LOL. Complete fail. Even the worse females will find someone who will happily have sex with them.

Men being rejected for sex is the ultimate rejection.

These men are such losers in terms of earnings, education, social standing, mindset, attractiveness, likability, family, background, sexiness, ability to be a provider... that except for sex worker or trafficked women/underage children who are forced to have sex with them, no one wants them around.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you know that incel is short for involuntarily celibate? That’s why it’s an insult. It’s saying you can’t get laid.

Sounds like atheist bullying, trying to normalize sexual degeneracy and hookup culture. Celibacy, purity and monogamy should be celebrated, not condemned. Same for kids staying away from porn and weed. Good on them.

They’d be better off just taking the vow and living as monks. No woman wants them for anything - not sex, not companionship, not a relationship, and often not friendship, either. That’s why it stings when it comes from someone else - basically confirms what they already know. Their appeal to other humans is zero.

Yup. Same for girls who are Femcels. 80% of women now are obese and/or ruined by social media, and will likely never attract a man that's willing to stay around.

LOL. Complete fail. Even the worse females will find someone who will happily have sex with them.

Getting laid is not a relationship sweetie.
Anyone can hookup and have sex. Being desirable for a relationship is another thing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you know that incel is short for involuntarily celibate? That’s why it’s an insult. It’s saying you can’t get laid.

Sounds like atheist bullying, trying to normalize sexual degeneracy and hookup culture. Celibacy, purity and monogamy should be celebrated, not condemned. Same for kids staying away from porn and weed. Good on them.

They’d be better off just taking the vow and living as monks. No woman wants them for anything - not sex, not companionship, not a relationship, and often not friendship, either. That’s why it stings when it comes from someone else - basically confirms what they already know. Their appeal to other humans is zero.

Yup. Same for girls who are Femcels. 80% of women now are obese and/or ruined by social media, and will likely never attract a man that's willing to stay around.

LOL. Complete fail. Even the worse females will find someone who will happily have sex with them.

Getting laid is not a relationship sweetie.
Anyone can hookup and have sex. Being desirable for a relationship is another thing.

not anyone. There are minimum requirements that some people fail to meet.

[Anonymous]

It’s Karen for men. People attach meanings to words.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The incel category has grown beyond men who aren't having sex. It's now embraced by men who aren't having sex with the right kind of woman. They have some term for it, but basically if they're getting laid by the wifey and she doesn't look like an 18 year old Gisele, that sex doesn't count. They're entitled to more. They're not actually celibate, but they think they may as well be because even if they're 3s they feel entitled to 9s and any sex with below a 9 is worthless. So basically they're gross misogynist who think the incel label is a little more pitiable.

This is also exactly the same reason many young women are not having sex or relationships also.

The "participation trophy" childhood raised them to be entitled and think they are all 9/10+ princesses when many are overweight and below a 5/10, and demanding a guy who is super tall, rich, and a 10/10.

The term for them is FEMCEL.

Wouldn't that be INLES?

Not really. On dating sites, women, any woman will get a LOT of attention her first week and really could take her pick. The choices may not be good depending on her attractiveness but she will have choices. I do agree that if she judges herself higher than the market will bear it will be tough. I also think it's the same for these so-called incels. A lot of them probably think they deserve a woman who would never have him, thus it's hopeless. In reality, women outnumber men especially in this area of the country and they just aren't willing to lower their standards. Because I assure you, willing women are out there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Frankly, I am tired of hearing the most privileged group on earth, WHITE MEN, complain.

White men do the least complaining. Especially conservative men. We speak at the voting booth. It's why the polls are so wrong. They talk to too many vocal complainers and not the more silent majority.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The incel category has grown beyond men who aren't having sex. It's now embraced by men who aren't having sex with the right kind of woman. They have some term for it, but basically if they're getting laid by the wifey and she doesn't look like an 18 year old Gisele, that sex doesn't count. They're entitled to more. They're not actually celibate, but they think they may as well be because even if they're 3s they feel entitled to 9s and any sex with below a 9 is worthless. So basically they're gross misogynist who think the incel label is a little more pitiable.

This is also exactly the same reason many young women are not having sex or relationships also.

The "participation trophy" childhood raised them to be entitled and think they are all 9/10+ princesses when many are overweight and below a 5/10, and demanding a guy who is super tall, rich, and a 10/10.

The term for them is FEMCEL.

Wouldn't that be INLES?

Not really. On dating sites, women, any woman will get a LOT of attention her first week and really could take her pick. The choices may not be good depending on her attractiveness but she will have choices. I do agree that if she judges herself higher than the market will bear it will be tough. I also think it's the same for these so-called incels. A lot of them probably think they deserve a woman who would never have him, thus it's hopeless. In reality, women outnumber men especially in this area of the country and they just aren't willing to lower their standards. Because I assure you, willing women are out there.

aka, date the 400lb blue short haired shutin with a bajillion cats and body odor.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Do you know that incel is short for involuntarily celibate? That’s why it’s an insult. It’s saying you can’t get laid.

Sounds like atheist bullying, trying to normalize sexual degeneracy and hookup culture. Celibacy, purity and monogamy should be celebrated, not condemned. Same for kids staying away from porn and weed. Good on them.

They’d be better off just taking the vow and living as monks. No woman wants them for anything - not sex, not companionship, not a relationship, and often not friendship, either. That’s why it stings when it comes from someone else - basically confirms what they already know. Their appeal to other humans is zero.

Yup. Same for girls who are Femcels. 80% of women now are obese and/or ruined by social media, and will likely never attract a man that's willing to stay around.

LOL. Complete fail. Even the worse females will find someone who will happily have sex with them.

Getting laid is not a relationship sweetie.
Anyone can hookup and have sex. Being desirable for a relationship is another thing.

not anyone. There are minimum requirements that some people fail to meet.

That's why God invented alcohol, to help you pick.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Frankly, I am tired of hearing the most privileged group on earth, WHITE MEN, complain.

White men do the least complaining. Especially conservative men. We speak at the voting booth. It's why the polls are so wrong. They talk to too many vocal complainers and not the more silent majority.

You keep thinking so, hon