Am I being overly sensitive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He thinks your a loser and probably has some resentment being with you.

Why would he think I’m a loser? Before I got laid off I made more than him, had a better career, and have never asked or received a dime from him.

Are you attractive op? I have a theory but it hinges on this answer.

Pp, and if so, are you more attractive than him?

[Anonymous]

Wow.

He was really rude.

Some guys really enjoy when a woman is insecure. I wonder if he felt your confidence rise as you talked about your accomplishments. It’s definitely a red flag that his first instinct was to try to put you down.

Now, instead of spending the night celebrating your achievements, you’re on here ruminating over his insults. And according to him it wasn’t an insult, it was a joke! Make no mistake, he knew what he was doing. Jokes are the insults of cowards.

I don’t know if I would break up over this but I would definitely start paying attention.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He thinks your a loser and probably has some resentment being with you.

Why would he think I’m a loser? Before I got laid off I made more than him, had a better career, and have never asked or received a dime from him.

OP, are you taking in what everyone is saying to you?

Does it matter what he thinks? He is mean to you. He disses, dismisses, and denigrates you. He body-shames you. He is not a kind person.

Why are you with him?

You’re right. I don’t need to focus on what he thinks but how he treats me, which is horrible. Definitely needed this reality check from DCUM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He thinks your a loser and probably has some resentment being with you.

Why would he think I’m a loser? Before I got laid off I made more than him, had a better career, and have never asked or received a dime from him.

Are you attractive op? I have a theory but it hinges on this answer.

Pp, and if so, are you more attractive than him?

Not to toot my own horn, but yes I’m very attractive. Men will come up to us while we’re sitting together, walking holding hands, etc., and will hit on me but I wouldn’t say that I’m more attractive than him per se. He’s very short though, about 5’4/5’5. He’s the first man I’ve ever dated under six foot but I wanted to open up my dating pool and not be so physically picky years ago.

[Anonymous]

I think he sounds like a jerk and you should dump him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He thinks your a loser and probably has some resentment being with you.

Why would he think I’m a loser? Before I got laid off I made more than him, had a better career, and have never asked or received a dime from him.

Are you attractive op? I have a theory but it hinges on this answer.

Pp, and if so, are you more attractive than him?

Not to toot my own horn, but yes I’m very attractive. Men will come up to us while we’re sitting together, walking holding hands, etc., and will hit on me but I wouldn’t say that I’m more attractive than him per se. He’s very short though, about 5’4/5’5. He’s the first man I’ve ever dated under six foot but I wanted to open up my dating pool and not be so physically picky years ago.

So you’re very attractive, had a better career and made more money than him (before getting laid off), and he’s a very short man? So he’s a little man with napoleon complex can’t stand that you excel better than him in life, from career to looks, and he knows this. He knows how desired you are most people that interact with you, so he needs to knock you down a few pegs because you’re too good for him. He knows that if you felt more secure about yourself you’d leave him, so to ensure that you don’t and to prop himself up he has to make you feel insecure because he’s an insecure little man himself.

He will always tear you down. Find someone who wants to lift you up OP.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like an ex that I had. There must be something causing you low self esteem, which is why you stay with him. Because if you realized how smart, beautiful, powerful you are then you wouldn't be with him. You're journey is starting...best wishes!