Husband frequently annoyed by me
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Anonymous
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My husband is similar now, so I just try to spend as little time with him as possible and really not talk much.
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Anonymous
So people in marriages who feel this way must have some understanding why some of us choose to spend our lives single? |
Anonymous
Yes, I envy single friends |
Anonymous
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There is something in your writing that gives me the feeling that you talk at him more than with him, do you bring up a subject to him or others and just rattle off the facts that you’ve learned about it without truly engaging in finding out what the other thinks? I have known people who operated along with this constant commentary, it could be while peeling a potato or driving along a street but the words of observation that jogged thoughts were constant and make me feel like my presence and thoughts didn’t matter, they would be talking whether I was there or not because if I interject they would just continue on blathering. OP, we can all be guilty of this from time to time but think about your last social phone call, did the other person just offer you a steady stream of yeses and okays and wows during the entirety of your conversation? If so you might be the type of person that talks at people and your husband is tired of it, it makes him feel fatigued and completely inconsequential. |
Anonymous
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I’m one of the pps who has a constantly annoyed husband. No, I’m not like that - I do know people like that, but that is not me. I can even be talking with someone else on the phone and he will get angry at something I say that has nothing to do with him so I try to not talk on the phone near him.
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Anonymous
+1 I hate being around him. |