Brigham Young University

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Anonymous wrote:It's very rare for students who are not LDS to go to BYU (only about 1% students are not LDS.)

I was thinking the same thing so I was incredibly surprised to see so many people from my kid's school committing to BYU. I didn't think that there were so many LDS families around here.

You are mistaken.
The truth is that the LDS community is very aware of the bias against them in “this area” so LDS kids tend to lay low about their status as church members.
But BYU is a great school and will be a wonderful opportunity for those kids!

There is no bias against mormons. Most people don't even know anything about mormons. Those that do generally think mormons are very nice people. They might not understand how mormons can believe some of the stuff they do, but I don't think anyone holds that against them.

LOL.
I moved to an area with a lot of Mormons as a young adult. Before I knew any Mormons I was like...they're odd. Then I started to get to know them a bit and I'm like...oh, they're so nice! Very family oriented! Then I actually started learning about their beliefs and we were kind of back in square one. Wait...they really believe this stuff? I still think you're very nice, and good neighbors, but man oh man.

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Anonymous wrote:OP it has good medical programs, particularly Women's medicine.

There's no way this is true. Especially since all women are encouraged to just get married and have babies.

I agree the original information is off base. Disagree that LDS women are encouraged to just get married and have babies. This is not true of wealthy and UMC LDS women for the last 2 generations. Some may end up staying home with kids, but not without first getting a quality education.

It may depend on where you live -- most LDS in this area tend to be wealthy transplants, esp. compared to say, the Motherland (Utah) -- but I have found it to be true that the LDS women here do tend to be educated. Now, I can't think of a single one I know who works in anything more than a very flexible, family-oriented job (if working at all- most don't), so career women they are not, but they do value the educatio piece.

But yes, OP, there are more Mormons around here than you probably realize. My kids are at McLean HS and I know of many. And they all seem to go to BYU.

OP here - yeah, honestly I had no idea that there were so many Mormons at McLean High School (nothing wrong with it, but I had no idea). So I thought that maybe BYU was the new up and coming school (kind of like how a lot of the SEC schools became super popular over the last few years).

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Anonymous wrote:OP it has good medical programs, particularly Women's medicine.

There's no way this is true. Especially since all women are encouraged to just get married and have babies.

I agree the original information is off base. Disagree that LDS women are encouraged to just get married and have babies. This is not true of wealthy and UMC LDS women for the last 2 generations. Some may end up staying home with kids, but not without first getting a quality education.

It may depend on where you live -- most LDS in this area tend to be wealthy transplants, esp. compared to say, the Motherland (Utah) -- but I have found it to be true that the LDS women here do tend to be educated. Now, I can't think of a single one I know who works in anything more than a very flexible, family-oriented job (if working at all- most don't), so career women they are not, but they do value the educatio piece.

But yes, OP, there are more Mormons around here than you probably realize. My kids are at McLean HS and I know of many. And they all seem to go to BYU.

OP here - yeah, honestly I had no idea that there were so many Mormons at McLean High School (nothing wrong with it, but I had no idea). So I thought that maybe BYU was the new up and coming school (kind of like how a lot of the SEC schools became super popular over the last few years).

Nope! It's due to the Mormon population. No one who's going there isn't Mormon.

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Anonymous wrote:OP it has good medical programs, particularly Women's medicine.

There's no way this is true. Especially since all women are encouraged to just get married and have babies.

I agree the original information is off base. Disagree that LDS women are encouraged to just get married and have babies. This is not true of wealthy and UMC LDS women for the last 2 generations. Some may end up staying home with kids, but not without first getting a quality education.

It may depend on where you live -- most LDS in this area tend to be wealthy transplants, esp. compared to say, the Motherland (Utah) -- but I have found it to be true that the LDS women here do tend to be educated. Now, I can't think of a single one I know who works in anything more than a very flexible, family-oriented job (if working at all- most don't), so career women they are not, but they do value the educatio piece.

But yes, OP, there are more Mormons around here than you probably realize. My kids are at McLean HS and I know of many. And they all seem to go to BYU.

OP here - yeah, honestly I had no idea that there were so many Mormons at McLean High School (nothing wrong with it, but I had no idea). So I thought that maybe BYU was the new up and coming school (kind of like how a lot of the SEC schools became super popular over the last few years).

Nope! It's due to the Mormon population. No one who's going there isn't Mormon.

^This. I have lots of Mormon friends. It is a truly hilarious religion. Nice people for sure, make lots of cute babies. BYU and BYU-Idaho are basically Hogwarts for Mormons.

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Anonymous wrote:OP it has good medical programs, particularly Women's medicine.

There's no way this is true. Especially since all women are encouraged to just get married and have babies.

I agree the original information is off base. Disagree that LDS women are encouraged to just get married and have babies. This is not true of wealthy and UMC LDS women for the last 2 generations. Some may end up staying home with kids, but not without first getting a quality education.

It may depend on where you live -- most LDS in this area tend to be wealthy transplants, esp. compared to say, the Motherland (Utah) -- but I have found it to be true that the LDS women here do tend to be educated. Now, I can't think of a single one I know who works in anything more than a very flexible, family-oriented job (if working at all- most don't), so career women they are not, but they do value the educatio piece.

But yes, OP, there are more Mormons around here than you probably realize. My kids are at McLean HS and I know of many. And they all seem to go to BYU.

OP here - yeah, honestly I had no idea that there were so many Mormons at McLean High School (nothing wrong with it, but I had no idea). So I thought that maybe BYU was the new up and coming school (kind of like how a lot of the SEC schools became super popular over the last few years).

Nope! It's due to the Mormon population. No one who's going there isn't Mormon.

^This. I have lots of Mormon friends. It is a truly hilarious religion. Nice people for sure, make lots of cute babies. BYU and BYU-Idaho are basically Hogwarts for Mormons.

Ha! I grew up in Mesa, Arizona where there is a very large LDS population. I might dispute the nice thing, but damn if they don't take the most gorgeous family photos ever...

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP it has good medical programs, particularly Women's medicine.

There's no way this is true. Especially since all women are encouraged to just get married and have babies.

I agree the original information is off base. Disagree that LDS women are encouraged to just get married and have babies. This is not true of wealthy and UMC LDS women for the last 2 generations. Some may end up staying home with kids, but not without first getting a quality education.

It may depend on where you live -- most LDS in this area tend to be wealthy transplants, esp. compared to say, the Motherland (Utah) -- but I have found it to be true that the LDS women here do tend to be educated. Now, I can't think of a single one I know who works in anything more than a very flexible, family-oriented job (if working at all- most don't), so career women they are not, but they do value the educatio piece.

But yes, OP, there are more Mormons around here than you probably realize. My kids are at McLean HS and I know of many. And they all seem to go to BYU.

OP here - yeah, honestly I had no idea that there were so many Mormons at McLean High School (nothing wrong with it, but I had no idea). So I thought that maybe BYU was the new up and coming school (kind of like how a lot of the SEC schools became super popular over the last few years).

Nope! It's due to the Mormon population. No one who's going there isn't Mormon.

^This. I have lots of Mormon friends. It is a truly hilarious religion. Nice people for sure, make lots of cute babies. BYU and BYU-Idaho are basically Hogwarts for Mormons.

Ha! I grew up in Mesa, Arizona where there is a very large LDS population. I might dispute the nice thing, but damn if they don't take the most gorgeous family photos ever...

True- so many of those family vloggers are Mormon and from Utah!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP it has good medical programs, particularly Women's medicine.

There's no way this is true. Especially since all women are encouraged to just get married and have babies.

I agree the original information is off base. Disagree that LDS women are encouraged to just get married and have babies. This is not true of wealthy and UMC LDS women for the last 2 generations. Some may end up staying home with kids, but not without first getting a quality education.

It may depend on where you live -- most LDS in this area tend to be wealthy transplants, esp. compared to say, the Motherland (Utah) -- but I have found it to be true that the LDS women here do tend to be educated. Now, I can't think of a single one I know who works in anything more than a very flexible, family-oriented job (if working at all- most don't), so career women they are not, but they do value the educatio piece.

But yes, OP, there are more Mormons around here than you probably realize. My kids are at McLean HS and I know of many. And they all seem to go to BYU.

OP here - yeah, honestly I had no idea that there were so many Mormons at McLean High School (nothing wrong with it, but I had no idea). So I thought that maybe BYU was the new up and coming school (kind of like how a lot of the SEC schools became super popular over the last few years).

Nope! It's due to the Mormon population. No one who's going there isn't Mormon.

^This. I have lots of Mormon friends. It is a truly hilarious religion. Nice people for sure, make lots of cute babies. BYU and BYU-Idaho are basically Hogwarts for Mormons.

Ha! I grew up in Mesa, Arizona where there is a very large LDS population. I might dispute the nice thing, but damn if they don't take the most gorgeous family photos ever...

True- so many of those family vloggers are Mormon and from Utah!

Including the super abusive ones like Ruby Franke. There is a lot of emphasis on appearance, which can give a superficial impression of niceness.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP it has good medical programs, particularly Women's medicine.

There's no way this is true. Especially since all women are encouraged to just get married and have babies.

I agree the original information is off base. Disagree that LDS women are encouraged to just get married and have babies. This is not true of wealthy and UMC LDS women for the last 2 generations. Some may end up staying home with kids, but not without first getting a quality education.

It may depend on where you live -- most LDS in this area tend to be wealthy transplants, esp. compared to say, the Motherland (Utah) -- but I have found it to be true that the LDS women here do tend to be educated. Now, I can't think of a single one I know who works in anything more than a very flexible, family-oriented job (if working at all- most don't), so career women they are not, but they do value the educatio piece.

But yes, OP, there are more Mormons around here than you probably realize. My kids are at McLean HS and I know of many. And they all seem to go to BYU.

OP here - yeah, honestly I had no idea that there were so many Mormons at McLean High School (nothing wrong with it, but I had no idea). So I thought that maybe BYU was the new up and coming school (kind of like how a lot of the SEC schools became super popular over the last few years).

Nope! It's due to the Mormon population. No one who's going there isn't Mormon.

^This. I have lots of Mormon friends. It is a truly hilarious religion. Nice people for sure, make lots of cute babies. BYU and BYU-Idaho are basically Hogwarts for Mormons.

Ha! I grew up in Mesa, Arizona where there is a very large LDS population. I might dispute the nice thing, but damn if they don't take the most gorgeous family photos ever...

True- so many of those family vloggers are Mormon and from Utah!

Including the super abusive ones like Ruby Franke. There is a lot of emphasis on appearance, which can give a superficial impression of niceness.

Oh that's right- I forgot about Ruby Franke! Oh let's not forget about the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP it has good medical programs, particularly Women's medicine.

There's no way this is true. Especially since all women are encouraged to just get married and have babies.

I agree the original information is off base. Disagree that LDS women are encouraged to just get married and have babies. This is not true of wealthy and UMC LDS women for the last 2 generations. Some may end up staying home with kids, but not without first getting a quality education.

It may depend on where you live -- most LDS in this area tend to be wealthy transplants, esp. compared to say, the Motherland (Utah) -- but I have found it to be true that the LDS women here do tend to be educated. Now, I can't think of a single one I know who works in anything more than a very flexible, family-oriented job (if working at all- most don't), so career women they are not, but they do value the educatio piece.

But yes, OP, there are more Mormons around here than you probably realize. My kids are at McLean HS and I know of many. And they all seem to go to BYU.

OP here - yeah, honestly I had no idea that there were so many Mormons at McLean High School (nothing wrong with it, but I had no idea). So I thought that maybe BYU was the new up and coming school (kind of like how a lot of the SEC schools became super popular over the last few years).

Nope! It's due to the Mormon population. No one who's going there isn't Mormon.

^This. I have lots of Mormon friends. It is a truly hilarious religion. Nice people for sure, make lots of cute babies. BYU and BYU-Idaho are basically Hogwarts for Mormons.

Ha! I grew up in Mesa, Arizona where there is a very large LDS population. I might dispute the nice thing, but damn if they don't take the most gorgeous family photos ever...

True- so many of those family vloggers are Mormon and from Utah!

Including the super abusive ones like Ruby Franke. There is a lot of emphasis on appearance, which can give a superficial impression of niceness.

Yes. I would say they are...friendly...but there can definitely be a dark side of dysfunction under the veneer of wholesomeness/friendliness.

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Anonymous wrote:Lotta good looking women at byu

Because they are there to find their husband for all eternity. It's important to look good

*one of their husbands

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Anonymous wrote:McLean connection: The CIA recruits heavily at BYU. BYU grads are dependable, clean-living, intelligent and patriotic graduates. A dream institution for the CIA to recruit at.

I went to a state school out west and yes, most of the Mormon undergrads I knew were married.

The reason the CIA, NSA and other government organizations recruit Mormons is because they have foreign language skills from going on their missions. BYU is an easy source of young American-born citizens who have spent significant time in other countries.

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Anonymous wrote:McLean connection: The CIA recruits heavily at BYU. BYU grads are dependable, clean-living, intelligent and patriotic graduates. A dream institution for the CIA to recruit at.

I went to a state school out west and yes, most of the Mormon undergrads I knew were married.

The reason the CIA, NSA and other government organizations recruit Mormons is because they have foreign language skills from going on their missions. BYU is an easy source of young American-born citizens who have spent significant time in other countries.

And they can get security clearances.

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Anonymous wrote:McLean connection: The CIA recruits heavily at BYU. BYU grads are dependable, clean-living, intelligent and patriotic graduates. A dream institution for the CIA to recruit at.

I went to a state school out west and yes, most of the Mormon undergrads I knew were married.

The reason the CIA, NSA and other government organizations recruit Mormons is because they have foreign language skills from going on their missions. BYU is an easy source of young American-born citizens who have spent significant time in other countries.

And they can get security clearances.

What does it take to get a security clearance?

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Anonymous wrote:McLean connection: The CIA recruits heavily at BYU. BYU grads are dependable, clean-living, intelligent and patriotic graduates. A dream institution for the CIA to recruit at.

I went to a state school out west and yes, most of the Mormon undergrads I knew were married.

The reason the CIA, NSA and other government organizations recruit Mormons is because they have foreign language skills from going on their missions. BYU is an easy source of young American-born citizens who have spent significant time in other countries.

And they can get security clearances.

What does it take to get a security clearance?

It depends on the clearance level, but drug test, polygraph, and clean criminal record. There are plenty of young people who qualify (and plenty who don't) but cloistered Mormons who have been on a mission can reliably qualify for a clearance.

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I don’t find Mormons to be all that nice. I have family that are Mormon but they left the religion after learning about the dark side.

Most of us see the clean cut, friendly people and think that’s great.

I have also lived among Mormons and they won’t include you unless they think you will convert. We chose to move because there were not many non-Mormons in that area.

I’ve been told by a Mormon that I can’t stay in a hotel. We were not married so they sent us on our way down a dark road in Utah. I guess that’s a Joseph Smith creed. Send the unmarried into darkness.

My friend’s mom could not get a job in Utah until she found a national non-Mormon company to hire her.

My friend had to move out of Utah. His Mormon neighbors would not speak to him.

While there are exceptions, they are not truly nice people.

I’ve been to church, and it’s highly patriarchal.