Love is Blind Season 6 - Charlotte NC

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like Jessica went on the show with an intention to get famous. She didn't really seem interested in Jimmy - but was more interested in her story line. Especially with her pity party blowup and lashing out on him, saying that he dragged her along. Girl YOU waited until the 3rd date to mention something that is a very big part of your life.

I have empathy for things she went through in her personal life, but it really feels like she went on the show with an intention that wasn't to find a loving relationship or marriage.

Trevor is adorable, mullet and all. I'd marry him!

I kind of felt the opposite with Jessica. It felt like she just assumed she’d get engaged on the show and when that didn’t work out she lashed out.

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The fake everything on these women is so hard to look at. Season 5 (I think) the weirdly shy, 50 year old looking guy clutching his American flag security blanket freaked out when his pick walked out looking like a drag queen. He was right when he finally declared that she was prettier with no make up, and she is. She dodged a bullet. He did, too.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like Jessica went on the show with an intention to get famous. She didn't really seem interested in Jimmy - but was more interested in her story line. Especially with her pity party blowup and lashing out on him, saying that he dragged her along. Girl YOU waited until the 3rd date to mention something that is a very big part of your life.

I have empathy for things she went through in her personal life, but it really feels like she went on the show with an intention that wasn't to find a loving relationship or marriage.

Trevor is adorable, mullet and all. I'd marry him!

I kind of felt the opposite with Jessica. It felt like she just assumed she’d get engaged on the show and when that didn’t work out she lashed out.

I think both things are true.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like Jessica went on the show with an intention to get famous. She didn't really seem interested in Jimmy - but was more interested in her story line. Especially with her pity party blowup and lashing out on him, saying that he dragged her along. Girl YOU waited until the 3rd date to mention something that is a very big part of your life.

I have empathy for things she went through in her personal life, but it really feels like she went on the show with an intention that wasn't to find a loving relationship or marriage.

Trevor is adorable, mullet and all. I'd marry him!

I kind of felt the opposite with Jessica. It felt like she just assumed she’d get engaged on the show and when that didn’t work out she lashed out.

I think both things are true.

DP but I agree. DH (who told me he wasnt watching...) said she sounded like she doesnt often hear "no" lol. That blow up was gross. She should have left when Laura said.

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Better that Trevor gave a collar with her name on it than with his name on it. Yes, the optics are awful but at least it's not "wear this to show the world you're my property". I am very unattracted to Trevor - from the mullet to the clothing to the body type.

AD was doing so well and then ... Clay? Oh no, run girl!

Matthew? I really hope his therapist watched this show so s/he can help him see what a mess of a person he is. I got the sense he is VERY controlling and would be an abusive partner and be surpised to find that out about himself.

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I think there should be an age limit - you have to be 30 to be on the show. There's a woman this season who's 24!

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Anonymous wrote:Chelsea’s insistence that Jimmy is huge made me wonder if she’s a pathological liar. Not that I have any way of proving it, but the girth she was indicating seemed embarrassingly exaggerated.

Yeah, I don't believe this. His love handles were a turnoff too.

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Anonymous wrote:Matt is a sociopath. What a mind f*cker!!! 😡

He seems sort of psycho, I agree.

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Anonymous wrote:I actually kind of liked Matthew and wonder why they didn't show us his scenes with the other girl. If he really was saying the same things to her as he did to AD, I think they would have showed it.

Jessica sucked. So vapid.

I think Trevor and Chelsea would have been a better match. Jimmy isn't in to her physically, but he's definitely trying to convince himself that he is. I like him, and he was put in a rough spot with Jessica.

Laura, Amy, Johnny, and Jeremy are boring, but I think it has to do with editing, and the couples who had messy love triangles just got so much lore screen time.

Jessica is beautiful, but of course her tough life is going to leave its mark.

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Anonymous wrote:I was also rooting for Trevor, BUT… He gave her a collar. He gave her a collar. He. Gave. Her. A. Collar. I know it was his dog’s. I know they have the same name. I know he didn’t understand the optics. But he gave her a collar…WITH HER NAME ON IT!!!!

And despite all that, Trevor probably would’ve been a better fit for Chelsea because they’re on a more equal emotional level. It was the “You made me feel uncomfy” comment for me. She whines and talks like a baby. She’s Zaneb all over again.

I think Jimmy was struggling hardcore with becoming a stepdad overnight. And he just didn’t want to sound like the bad guy and say it out loud. I don’t think it makes him bad at all. They have an extremely short time in the pods, and if he chose Jessica, he also would’ve chosen her daughter. And even if he doesn’t end up married to Chelsea (I’m assuming they break up, actually), I don’t think he’ll regret Jessica one bit. Because he didn’t want to be a stepfather, and that’s ok.

When she described her typical day, I think it turned him off. I am a single mother too, so recognized what she said...but it was not a scenario most men in their 20's would want to drop into. Especially when they are picturing the early, hot days of a new romance.

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Anonymous wrote:I was also rooting for Trevor, BUT… He gave her a collar. He gave her a collar. He. Gave. Her. A. Collar. I know it was his dog’s. I know they have the same name. I know he didn’t understand the optics. But he gave her a collar…WITH HER NAME ON IT!!!!

And despite all that, Trevor probably would’ve been a better fit for Chelsea because they’re on a more equal emotional level. It was the “You made me feel uncomfy” comment for me. She whines and talks like a baby. She’s Zaneb all over again.

I think Jimmy was struggling hardcore with becoming a stepdad overnight. And he just didn’t want to sound like the bad guy and say it out loud. I don’t think it makes him bad at all. They have an extremely short time in the pods, and if he chose Jessica, he also would’ve chosen her daughter. And even if he doesn’t end up married to Chelsea (I’m assuming they break up, actually), I don’t think he’ll regret Jessica one bit. Because he didn’t want to be a stepfather, and that’s ok.

I agree with everything except the collar haha. Yes its weird, but that was the first thing they talked about and bonded over! I think it's still kind of sweet.

I feel like Jimmy isnt that into Chelsea though. He keeps saying he is, but idk, I dont feel it 100%. She seems to need constant validation and I think that's because she can also feel he's not in it 100%.

Chelsea made a big mistake with the Megan Fox comment. He had that in his head and the reality is very different. And she pretended to be a cool girl in the pods, and she’s absolutely not, too insecure. I think he had a better connection with Jess, but made what he thought was a cooler and more interesting lifestyle choice. But it was based on in faulty info. No way they stay together.

I thought that as soon as she said it. Big mistake, though she did say she did not see it. Still, she has put that fantasy in his head.

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Anonymous wrote:I was also rooting for Trevor, BUT… He gave her a collar. He gave her a collar. He. Gave. Her. A. Collar. I know it was his dog’s. I know they have the same name. I know he didn’t understand the optics. But he gave her a collar…WITH HER NAME ON IT!!!!

And despite all that, Trevor probably would’ve been a better fit for Chelsea because they’re on a more equal emotional level. It was the “You made me feel uncomfy” comment for me. She whines and talks like a baby. She’s Zaneb all over again.

I think Jimmy was struggling hardcore with becoming a stepdad overnight. And he just didn’t want to sound like the bad guy and say it out loud. I don’t think it makes him bad at all. They have an extremely short time in the pods, and if he chose Jessica, he also would’ve chosen her daughter. And even if he doesn’t end up married to Chelsea (I’m assuming they break up, actually), I don’t think he’ll regret Jessica one bit. Because he didn’t want to be a stepfather, and that’s ok.

I agree with everything except the collar haha. Yes its weird, but that was the first thing they talked about and bonded over! I think it's still kind of sweet.

I feel like Jimmy isnt that into Chelsea though. He keeps saying he is, but idk, I dont feel it 100%. She seems to need constant validation and I think that's because she can also feel he's not in it 100%.

Chelsea made a big mistake with the Megan Fox comment. He had that in his head and the reality is very different. And she pretended to be a cool girl in the pods, and she’s absolutely not, too insecure. I think he had a better connection with Jess, but made what he thought was a cooler and more interesting lifestyle choice. But it was based on in faulty info. No way they stay together.

100%
I saw in the preview for next eps that she meets up with Trevor. Im interested to see how that goes!

I agree also that Ken and Brittney seem good together.

Chelsea was unwise picking Jimmy in the first place. She is looking for loyalty and kindness, should have picked Trevor the mensch!

Maybe the fact that someone else wanted Jimmy made him sem more desirable?

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Anonymous wrote:I was also rooting for Trevor, BUT… He gave her a collar. He gave her a collar. He. Gave. Her. A. Collar. I know it was his dog’s. I know they have the same name. I know he didn’t understand the optics. But he gave her a collar…WITH HER NAME ON IT!!!!

And despite all that, Trevor probably would’ve been a better fit for Chelsea because they’re on a more equal emotional level. It was the “You made me feel uncomfy” comment for me. She whines and talks like a baby. She’s Zaneb all over again.

I think Jimmy was struggling hardcore with becoming a stepdad overnight. And he just didn’t want to sound like the bad guy and say it out loud. I don’t think it makes him bad at all. They have an extremely short time in the pods, and if he chose Jessica, he also would’ve chosen her daughter. And even if he doesn’t end up married to Chelsea (I’m assuming they break up, actually), I don’t think he’ll regret Jessica one bit. Because he didn’t want to be a stepfather, and that’s ok.

I agree with everything except the collar haha. Yes its weird, but that was the first thing they talked about and bonded over! I think it's still kind of sweet.

I feel like Jimmy isnt that into Chelsea though. He keeps saying he is, but idk, I dont feel it 100%. She seems to need constant validation and I think that's because she can also feel he's not in it 100%.

Chelsea made a big mistake with the Megan Fox comment. He had that in his head and the reality is very different. And she pretended to be a cool girl in the pods, and she’s absolutely not, too insecure. I think he had a better connection with Jess, but made what he thought was a cooler and more interesting lifestyle choice. But it was based on in faulty info. No way they stay together.

Chelsea absolutely misrepresented herself. Dumb guys. Jess miscalculated, and put too much pressure on Jimmy way too soon about the stepdad thing.

Even more than the looks issue, Jimmy is like wtf happened to the fun, chill girl from the pods? I actually feel sorry for him. A bait and switch in every way.

She is super whiny too. I could barely listen to her during episode 6.
I think he is a dud too, though.

A red flag for me would have been how often she cried in the pods.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like Jessica went on the show with an intention to get famous. She didn't really seem interested in Jimmy - but was more interested in her story line. Especially with her pity party blowup and lashing out on him, saying that he dragged her along. Girl YOU waited until the 3rd date to mention something that is a very big part of your life.

I have empathy for things she went through in her personal life, but it really feels like she went on the show with an intention that wasn't to find a loving relationship or marriage.

Trevor is adorable, mullet and all. I'd marry him!

You guys expect someone who has lived Jessica's life to not have hard edges?

She must be a wreck psychologically. I feel bad for anyone who has endured her life. And she probably attracts every player in the room, who then dumps her when they realize she needs a family man.

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Anonymous wrote:I was also rooting for Trevor, BUT… He gave her a collar. He gave her a collar. He. Gave. Her. A. Collar. I know it was his dog’s. I know they have the same name. I know he didn’t understand the optics. But he gave her a collar…WITH HER NAME ON IT!!!!

And despite all that, Trevor probably would’ve been a better fit for Chelsea because they’re on a more equal emotional level. It was the “You made me feel uncomfy” comment for me. She whines and talks like a baby. She’s Zaneb all over again.

I think Jimmy was struggling hardcore with becoming a stepdad overnight. And he just didn’t want to sound like the bad guy and say it out loud. I don’t think it makes him bad at all. They have an extremely short time in the pods, and if he chose Jessica, he also would’ve chosen her daughter. And even if he doesn’t end up married to Chelsea (I’m assuming they break up, actually), I don’t think he’ll regret Jessica one bit. Because he didn’t want to be a stepfather, and that’s ok.

I agree with everything except the collar haha. Yes its weird, but that was the first thing they talked about and bonded over! I think it's still kind of sweet.

I feel like Jimmy isnt that into Chelsea though. He keeps saying he is, but idk, I dont feel it 100%. She seems to need constant validation and I think that's because she can also feel he's not in it 100%.

Chelsea made a big mistake with the Megan Fox comment. He had that in his head and the reality is very different. And she pretended to be a cool girl in the pods, and she’s absolutely not, too insecure. I think he had a better connection with Jess, but made what he thought was a cooler and more interesting lifestyle choice. But it was based on in faulty info. No way they stay together.

I thought that as soon as she said it. Big mistake, though she did say she did not see it. Still, she has put that fantasy in his head.

Yes, and I definitely agree with the lifestyle choice. He thought dating a flight attendant would be cool and fun. Not hanging out with a ten year old, eating spaghetti and watching tv.