I like that my girlfriend was a virgin when we met

[Anonymous]

I dated a woman like that but sadly we never had intercourse

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It is not so rare nowadays because USA is becoming more diverse culturally. There are many beautiful and smart girls who are more interested in education and jump starting their careers and their family culture does not encourage dating. They start dating only when they are economically independent in a high paying professional career.

Only the WASP culture in USA is obsessed about virginity or lack of it. Please, sex is not rocket science.

You have apparently never known any Middle Easterners or Indians.

Actually, I am an Indian. And I was a virgin when I married, as was my DH. How hard was it to learn how to have amazing sex for us? LOL. Is there any dearth of material available now?

I am glad that my first sexual experience was with my husband because it was not only with a person who I loved and who loved me back, but it was also a person who would not betray my trust. Mentally, it allowed me to enjoy sex fully without guilt or fear, and made it exciting, pleasurable and intimate.

Sex for us was addictive and heady. It cemented our marital relationship because this was our first sexual relationship and we were not going to have other partners. So there was no reason for us to guard our hearts. Think back to your first crush and sexual experience. That chemistry was lost on some random person. If it would have been your spouse, it would have made your marriage magical.

Yes, as for sex is concerned - read the forums. No one is having sex with their spouses. People hate each other. People dislike the children they make. And WASP marriages do not last. How can it? The glue of sex has lost its effectiveness to make marriages stick because it has been relegated to a bodily function like taking dump.

You say this yet the divorce rate in Saudi Arabia is 50%. Not much sticking power in the glue of sex, virgin or not.

LOL! Where do you get this fake statistics?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It is not so rare nowadays because USA is becoming more diverse culturally. There are many beautiful and smart girls who are more interested in education and jump starting their careers and their family culture does not encourage dating. They start dating only when they are economically independent in a high paying professional career.

Only the WASP culture in USA is obsessed about virginity or lack of it. Please, sex is not rocket science.

You have apparently never known any Middle Easterners or Indians.

Actually, I am an Indian. And I was a virgin when I married, as was my DH. How hard was it to learn how to have amazing sex for us? LOL. Is there any dearth of material available now?

I am glad that my first sexual experience was with my husband because it was not only with a person who I loved and who loved me back, but it was also a person who would not betray my trust. Mentally, it allowed me to enjoy sex fully without guilt or fear, and made it exciting, pleasurable and intimate.

Sex for us was addictive and heady. It cemented our marital relationship because this was our first sexual relationship and we were not going to have other partners. So there was no reason for us to guard our hearts. Think back to your first crush and sexual experience. That chemistry was lost on some random person. If it would have been your spouse, it would have made your marriage magical.

Yes, as for sex is concerned - read the forums. No one is having sex with their spouses. People hate each other. People dislike the children they make. And WASP marriages do not last. How can it? The glue of sex has lost its effectiveness to make marriages stick because it has been relegated to a bodily function like taking dump.

You say this yet the divorce rate in Saudi Arabia is 50%. Not much sticking power in the glue of sex, virgin or not.

LOL! Where do you get this fake statistics?

Poster is off, but not massively - SA has a higher than average divorce rate.

According to statistics from Saudi Arabia, 37% of marriages end in divorce, which is substantially higher than the global average of 18–22%.Aug 2, 2023

[Anonymous]

East Asian gen x. We were raised that sex was meant to be for serious relationship that would led to marriage. It wasn’t about religion. I was a virgin in college. My wife has been the only sex partner . We have a very healthy sex drive.

We didn’t teach our children about sex. For whatever reason, they don’t believe in hook up culture either. Sex drive doesn’t have to be a pure physical urge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dated a woman like that but sadly we never had intercourse

Me too, twice. Really hurts to think that I wasn't enough to take the plunge. Luckily, my next two girlfriends and wife are hyper-sexual.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

You like that your girlfriend was a virgin when you first met and now she’s a $lut. 😁