Have you ever told a manager to fu** off?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It’s just so stupid to make a scene at work no matter what. You never know which of your colleagues might be in a position to hire you for a job you want down the road, and anyone who witnesses you losing it in such a self-destructive manner is going to hesitate to work with you again. It doesn’t matter how bad the manager is or how much they “deserved it.” What the manager does or doesn’t do doesn’t reflect on you. Only what YOU do about it reflects on you. And you chose to do something that only hurts you and didn’t hurt the manager at all.

OP here. I didn't make a scene at work. This was all done via text message. The manager hurt me as well with the abuse I put up with. I presumably hurt her; otherwise, people wouldn't make a big deal about calling someone a fata**. I usually don't resort to name-calling, but I will say it felt good. You have no idea how many weekends I put up with bullying. After I resigned, I emailed HR with proof she messed with my time card and clocked me out for hours I was working. That's illegal and could get her fired, and only after I stopped working there did I feel comfortable reporting that. It goes to show how weak and controlled people feel in these jobs. This happened for several paychecks, and I could and should report it to the labor department in my state. People are going about the right way to quit, but remember, this is an at-will job. I guarantee they would have been even nastier if I had given two weeks. I probably won't do this again because I know the signs of a bad workplace. I am grateful I have help from my parents and an internship I have been doing for two years. It turned into a work-from-home internship. It's paid, and I do that once a week. None of my friends who have done service jobs in college have used those jobs as a reference.

So you are a vindictive twat too.

No, she made the choice to to commit fraud and there is no way she can prove that I took a break because she doesn't come into the office until after my breaks. I am also pretty sure she is supposed to be there in the morning supervising but she doesn't come in until 11 am or 12 noon. She's breaking the law but yet I am vindictive. You can't win on this forum. It must be full of lying managers.

[Anonymous]

Op, since you are so great, why not work for yourself. I can't argue that the work place wasn't toxic since I have worked in several such places.
Seems like they wanted you to quit, and I don't blame them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When people complain about being ‘thin body shamed’ I always just think of whiney white people complaining about racism :/

you must be overweight pp.

LOL wrong. But "thin shaming" is not nearly as harsh as fat shaming. Saying someone is too thin and may float away is really not as damaging as calling someone a fat a--. Being thin is the ideal, any sort of shade people try to throw at it doesnt negate that IMO. Like people who try and sh*t on victorias secret models - you just look ridiculous, but no one is taking it seriously.

That's your opinion, pp. Talking about people's bodies is inappropriate end of story. Her or his manager was out of line to say something like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, since you are so great, why not work for yourself. I can't argue that the work place wasn't toxic since I have worked in several such places.
Seems like they wanted you to quit, and I don't blame them.

OP here. Once this fraud issue is out I am pretty sure they will wish they treated me better. I am done with this forum. A lot of you want to be mean for the sake of being argumentative. Your life must be sad if you get satisfaction from taking other people down. You said yourself you have dealt with similar issues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, since you are so great, why not work for yourself. I can't argue that the work place wasn't toxic since I have worked in several such places.
Seems like they wanted you to quit, and I don't blame them.

OP here. Once this fraud issue is out I am pretty sure they will wish they treated me better. I am done with this forum. A lot of you want to be mean for the sake of being argumentative. Your life must be sad if you get satisfaction from taking other people down. You said yourself you have dealt with similar issues.

Oh, you’re not done. You’ll just start another one of your threads.

[Anonymous]

Girl, I’m glad you told her off. Your manager sounds like a major assshole.