Why isn’t divorce justified if my wife lets herself slide or withholds?

[Anonymous]

If OP has love handles he needs to hit the gym, not the keyboard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is not what I signed up for.

Are you what she signed up for?

If you have a problem with ordinary aging, then you've got a rude awakening: none of us is getting out of this alive or unscathed.

That said, before you complain about the mother of your children being soft around the middle... do you have rock-hard abs? Because if she's squishy at least she has an excuse. If you're a fat load yourself, then guess what? You could bond over a fitness journey together. Congratulations! But also STFU.

I'm so grossed out by men who complain about their wives not being fit. Meanwhile, as a woman, I work out on the rowing machine at the gym next to these paunchy dad-bods and blow them out of the fake water. It's a little bit of fun proving to them that they're out of shape, especially compared to a 100lb women who's had 3 children. Just in case they want to belittle their wives, they can get a little taste of their own imperfections.

Oh! Aren't you the one! In your pompous, little insecure mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is not what I signed up for.

Are you what she signed up for?

If you have a problem with ordinary aging, then you've got a rude awakening: none of us is getting out of this alive or unscathed.

That said, before you complain about the mother of your children being soft around the middle... do you have rock-hard abs? Because if she's squishy at least she has an excuse. If you're a fat load yourself, then guess what? You could bond over a fitness journey together. Congratulations! But also STFU.

I'm so grossed out by men who complain about their wives not being fit. Meanwhile, as a woman, I work out on the rowing machine at the gym next to these paunchy dad-bods and blow them out of the fake water. It's a little bit of fun proving to them that they're out of shape, especially compared to a 100lb women who's had 3 children. Just in case they want to belittle their wives, they can get a little taste of their own imperfections.

Oh! Aren't you the one! In your pompous, little insecure mind. :roll: :lol:

Sorry to disillusion you about your studliness, but it's not hard to outwork an out-of-shape dad bod. The posturing and gut-sucking is both funny and sad. Aw, are those 45lb plates too heavy, bud? :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Anonymous]

You don’t need a reason to divorce, OP. But you already know that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is not what I signed up for.

Are you what she signed up for?

If you have a problem with ordinary aging, then you've got a rude awakening: none of us is getting out of this alive or unscathed.

That said, before you complain about the mother of your children being soft around the middle... do you have rock-hard abs? Because if she's squishy at least she has an excuse. If you're a fat load yourself, then guess what? You could bond over a fitness journey together. Congratulations! But also STFU.

I'm so grossed out by men who complain about their wives not being fit. Meanwhile, as a woman, I work out on the rowing machine at the gym next to these paunchy dad-bods and blow them out of the fake water. It's a little bit of fun proving to them that they're out of shape, especially compared to a 100lb women who's had 3 children. Just in case they want to belittle their wives, they can get a little taste of their own imperfections.

Oh! Aren't you the one! In your pompous, little insecure mind. :roll: :lol:

It's true that men have an easier time working off the paunchiness than women do.

My ex developed a beer gut. It's so disgusting to look at and I feel lucky not to be married to it anymore. Meanwhile, I'm still in the same size I was in high school and run several times a week (mostly to de-stress). Ex used to call me fat for having trouble shaking off the last 5 pounds after baby #2 - I was 125# then, at 5'7.5" tall. That beer gut he totes around is like some kind of karma.


Sorry to disillusion you about your studliness, but it's not hard to outwork an out-of-shape dad bod. The posturing and gut-sucking is both funny and sad. Aw, are those 45lb plates too heavy, bud? :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is not what I signed up for.

Are you what she signed up for?

If you have a problem with ordinary aging, then you've got a rude awakening: none of us is getting out of this alive or unscathed.

That said, before you complain about the mother of your children being soft around the middle... do you have rock-hard abs? Because if she's squishy at least she has an excuse. If you're a fat load yourself, then guess what? You could bond over a fitness journey together. Congratulations! But also STFU.

I'm so grossed out by men who complain about their wives not being fit. Meanwhile, as a woman, I work out on the rowing machine at the gym next to these paunchy dad-bods and blow them out of the fake water. It's a little bit of fun proving to them that they're out of shape, especially compared to a 100lb women who's had 3 children. Just in case they want to belittle their wives, they can get a little taste of their own imperfections.

Oh! Aren't you the one! In your pompous, little insecure mind. :roll: :lol:

Sorry to disillusion you about your studliness, but it's not hard to outwork an out-of-shape dad bod. The posturing and gut-sucking is both funny and sad. Aw, are those 45lb plates too heavy, bud? :lol: :lol: :lol:

It's true that men have an easier time working off the paunchiness than women do.

My ex developed a beer gut. It's so disgusting to look at and I feel lucky not to be married to it anymore. Meanwhile, I'm still in the same size I was in high school and run several times a week (mostly to de-stress). Ex used to call me fat for having trouble shaking off the last 5 pounds after baby #2 - I was 125# then, at 5'7.5" tall. That beer gut he totes around is like some kind of karma.

[Anonymous]

Beer guts are repulsive. A woman could carry fifty extra pounds in her hips and azz and not look nearly as bad as a guy with a beer gut.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The women on this site are so weird. No one would want to stay married to an overweight slob who doesn't even want to have sex. That goes both ways. Y'all are delusional. Get real.

No one is telling OP to stay married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Beer guts are repulsive. A woman could carry fifty extra pounds in her hips and azz and not look nearly as bad as a guy with a beer gut.

+1. Beer guts are a total turn-off.