DP you are reading into the PP that they are only experiencing happiness when they drink, which would be problematic. But if they are having a couple of glasses of wine at a weekend dinner party, and the buzz helps them enjoy the evening, then who cares? If I am socializing with people I don't know that well, a little buzz is helpful. It doesn't mean I can't experience enjoyment without it, but it does add something for me in certain situations (situations I encounter once every couple of weeks if that). If it doesn't for you that's fine! But raising your eyebrows because someone says they enjoy alcohol from time to time is pretty silly. |
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The problem is that it’s individual-specific but we don’t yet understand how exactly. For me, even one glass of wine inhibits deep sleep. I’m already insulin resistant and one poor night of sleep messes with insulin further, which is only bad. But that’s a snapshot of my specific health concerns and may not be relevant to anyone else. I still drink on occasion but it’s not harmless.
I agree that encouraging women of childbearing age to abstain feels paternalistic, but the health of our potential children really matters. I didn’t know I was pregnant until 10 weeks on two occasions (anovulation the first time and minor hemorrhage mimicking period the second). I drank moderately the first time, regretted it once I knew I was pregnant and then abstained until done having kids. Many, many women have similar stories. |
How did you get pregnant if you didn't ovulate? If you are tracking your cycles and taking pregnancy tests regularly (you can order a bunch really cheaply online) it's not hard to know when you are not pregnant. Many women TTC do this. And if you are not TTC, then birth control is probably wise (which would exempt you from the CDC's guidance). The reason it feels paternalistic is because it is. It assumes women can't possibly understand their reproductive systems on their own. They should just have said simply, if there's a possibility you might be pregnant, don't drink alcohol. Here are some signs you might be pregnant. If have irregular cycles, be extra cautious. Instead they said :
Bear in mind that many women, including the vast majority of my friends, have had to TTC for over a year before they got pregnant. To encourage society to collectively monitor any woman who has stupidly revealed to other people that she is TTC, to shame her for drinking, which is essentially what this is (and what my friends did to me), is ridiculous and unhelpful. |
| If you have a specific health issue or take medication that makes small amounts of alcohol truly bad for you that sounds like something your doctor should definitely discuss with you. Blanket "Alcohol is bad!" messages are not going to do any good for those individuals. |
You’re extrapolating your situation onto other people. For most people, having a single drink say, once a month or even once a week actually is harmless, especially in the context of everything else they do (or don’t do). The fact that SO many women have the experience of drinking very early in pregnancy - and then stopping for the duration - tells you that doing so is, if not 100% harmless, fairly close to that. I mean, if we’re going to scream at women who are TTC for drinking, we should also be screaming at them for eating a crappy diet, not exercising, etc., while pregnant. And we don’t do that because it’s paternalistic. Again, I’m not advocating that anyone start drinking or that alcohol is harmless. It’s not. But asserting that light drinking is harmful for most people also isn’t accurate. Maybe the better message for healthcare professionals to give people is that if an individual notices negative consequences, they should abstain. That’s not the same as “light drinking is harmful, I’m just not telling you it is.” |
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The US does much worse in health metrics than many countries with heavier drinking. |
| I don't want to live to 90, so maybe I should have another glass. |
+1 I think there are good reasons to advise women not to drink during pregnancy. Just because we don't have proof of negative effects on the fetus from small amounts, doesn't mean there aren't any. So we should say that - we don't know if there's any level that is safe in pregnancy, so you are best off not drinking at all. But we also shouldn't be alarmist about small amounts of alcohol, and be honest that known FASD occurs from large amounts of alcohol. Saying that women who are TTC can't have a cocktail at brunch after their period comes just in case it's not actually their period but a freak hemorrhage is ridiculous and feeds into not only alarmism but also the criminalization of pregnancy. |
Sure you can and cigarettes are the perfect example. But it was a change that took more than a generation to gain acceptance. And now the idea of anyone smoking in our presence is an alien concept. Alcohol is different - for reasons already stated - but the only thing stopping public health from starting a campaign to advocate abstinence or minimal drinking is the mindset that they can't. Of course, I don't think the public is going to take you seriously when you've got a doctor at the end of your article entitled, "Even a Little Alcohol Can Harm Your Health" scoffing at the idea of advocating abstinence. |
But you can't make the argument, right now, that alcohol is the direct cause of 80-90% of cases of the the most deadly type of cancer. All we can say is it increases the risk of some cancers. And personally I've never gotten the impression I would be missing out on much by not smoking. Alcohol is different, it is just so much more a part of how people enjoy themselves. Would we be better off as a society of nobody drank? Sure. I think though that you're being overoptimistic in what is achievable based on what the science says right now and the role that alcohol plays in our society. |
Prohibition and the War on Drugs both went so well! More of that! |
Well said. |
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We don't need a study to tell us this. I can look around my life and see people who drink/drank booze on the regular. They age worse, get cancer more, more problems with fertility, have more heart disease and they die younger. There are a few exceptions of people who live into their 80-90's with good health. But those people are rare and probably have great genes.
Everything is a choice and a tradeoff. It's personal choice. Drink or don't, but don't lie to yourself. |
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I have found the alcohol is very inflammatory for me now that I’m over 40. It doesn’t work well with any amount of serious exercise or training for endurance events and that sort of thing. It also does a number on my sleep unless it’s a very small amount and after a long day of other activities - like walking all over Manhattan or something like that.
I drank quite a bit for a long time, so I’ve certainly had my share. I think I’m done with alcohol. Time will tell if I can keep it off my plate. |
| I think I see the cancer link anecdotally in my family. But it's hard to tell. So much gives us cancer, the family members who were the heaviest drinkers also grew up in a small industrial town and probably got exposed to all kinds of awful stuff |