Who are these mothers dating with a newborn?

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Maybe once her kid is a year old.
Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn.

Because newborns require a lot of work and time. A LOT of work and time. It's hard with two parents in the home. So time that she is spending dating and finding guys on tinder is time she's away from her baby.

It's ok to be a feminist and still this this lady has screwed up priorities. How would you feel about a man doing this?

Maybe dad shares custody of the baby.

Maybe mom has family and friends who are helping out.

Maybe mom hires a sitter a couple times a week.

Most dads aren’t all that involved during the newborn stage and no one bats an eye.

Very strange you think women with babies should be locked up in the house taking on 100% of the responsibility. This is why PPD is so high. I went out almost daily without my newborn so I didn’t develop PPD.

Going out and going out on dates are very different things. Or do you think she's bringing her newborn with her to the bar? In a pandemic?
And you saying dads aren't involved kind of proves the point. She's doing it on her own. And dating. Her kid is getting the short of it and if you don't believe that you're FOS.

What’s the difference? If the issue is time away from the baby, it doesn’t really matter what she’s doing.

The answer to dads not stepping up isn’t for women to take on all the extra responsibility. It’s for dads to step up. Odd that you blame her for the dads (assumed) lack of involvement. If dad actually isn’t involved, it’s even more important for mom to take care of her mental health and live a well-balanced life.

The baby will be fine if mom is off on a date once or twice a week. Plenty of married couples go out on dates when they have babies and everyone survives.

Look I know you don't really believe this. That's cool, but we see through it.

According to you, how long after a baby is born is a single mom allowed to go on a date and have sex?

Either:
a) when she gets married

Or

b) when she learns to use birth control

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So judgy! She’s young, pretty, lonely, and horny. I don’t judge her. Kudos to her for getting some. Sorry that you’re such a judgmental harpy op, you must have a low sex drive or have no understanding of what it’s like to be in her situation

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Anonymous wrote:Very odd IMO. Nothing against dating as a single mother (I was one), but getting it on seven weeks postpartum? With a stranger??

And making a Tik Tok about it.

If it’s on TikTok it must be true, right? Everything on the internet is true.

Who would get on the internet to fake sonograms and lie about being a two-time baby mama with three kids under 1? No one with a hint of intelligence I could tell you.

There's a lot of weirdos and stupid people looking for 15 minutes of fame. Sadly, I think it's rrsl

It is real. I checked out her TikTok.

She actually had the three girls in the same calendar year. Singleton in January, twins in December. 2020 was a big year for her!

So what. Why do you care OP? Get your own life.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn.

Sex with your husband is at least partly about strengthening a bond with the father of your child. It’s not really about getting off.

And of course people would bat an eye at a man having babies with two different women born within 11 months of each other.

ROTFLMAO.

I was having sex 2 weeks PP and it’s because I was horny as hell and wanted to get off. Was masturbating, too.

Who Tf are these weirdos that think women don’t want to get off and shouldn’t be having sex unless is within the confines of marriage and “bonding”?!?! I feel bad for them, because it’s either women who haven’t had great sex ever, or men who aren’t very good at getting a woman off.

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Anonymous wrote:For real how do you find out you are 3 weeks pregnant? Three weeks and the embryo hasn’t even implanted in most cases- not sure I get it

The pregnancy test will still alert to changes in your biochemistry. The sonogram she's displaying wasn't until 8 weeks.

No pregnancy tests only measures hcg That is made after implantation. And then it takes time as in days to get into your urine.Three weeks pregnant is a week before your period is due. So again that is incredibly early and casts doubt on her story.

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Anonymous wrote:Very odd IMO. Nothing against dating as a single mother (I was one), but getting it on seven weeks postpartum? With a stranger??

And making a Tik Tok about it.

If it’s on TikTok it must be true, right? Everything on the internet is true.

Who would get on the internet to fake sonograms and lie about being a two-time baby mama with three kids under 1? No one with a hint of intelligence I could tell you.

There's a lot of weirdos and stupid people looking for 15 minutes of fame. Sadly, I think it's rrsl

It is real. I checked out her TikTok.

She actually had the three girls in the same calendar year. Singleton in January, twins in December. 2020 was a big year for her!

So what. Why do you care OP? Get your own life.

Multiple people are posting.

Obviously it’s very unique

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I had sex 2 weeks postpartum with my husband.
The baby was right next to us and I think made a noisy dirty diaper while we were doing it. I was bleeding and leaking milk. Not sure what kind of new boyfriend would’ve been interested in that….
Also, we used a condom! Im not taking any chances with pregnancy. I don’t care that it was only 2 weeks postpartum and chance of ovulation was basically zero.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

Nope, it's still PIV. Welcome to year 2022.

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Anonymous wrote:I had sex 2 weeks postpartum with my husband.
The baby was right next to us and I think made a noisy dirty diaper while we were doing it. I was bleeding and leaking milk. Not sure what kind of new boyfriend would’ve been interested in that….
Also, we used a condom! Im not taking any chances with pregnancy. I don’t care that it was only 2 weeks postpartum and chance of ovulation was basically zero.

Your husband was interested in it

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Anonymous wrote:I had sex 2 weeks postpartum with my husband.
The baby was right next to us and I think made a noisy dirty diaper while we were doing it. I was bleeding and leaking milk. Not sure what kind of new boyfriend would’ve been interested in that….
Also, we used a condom! Im not taking any chances with pregnancy. I don’t care that it was only 2 weeks postpartum and chance of ovulation was basically zero.

Your husband was interested in it

Because he’s my husband and we’ve been together 15 years! Are you a moron? I don’t understand why you are trying so hard to prove that sex with a new guy when you have a newborn is a totally normal thing.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

Nope, it's still PIV. Welcome to year 2022.

It's different. Sorry you think all there is to sex is getting it in.

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Anonymous wrote:So judgy! She’s young, pretty, lonely, and horny. I don’t judge her. Kudos to her for getting some. Sorry that you’re such a judgmental harpy op, you must have a low sex drive or have no understanding of what it’s like to be in her situation

Not op but sorry you're an idiot. Hopefully you have figured out how to use condoms so you stop getting pregnant.by your hookups

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Anonymous wrote:I had sex 2 weeks postpartum with my husband.
The baby was right next to us and I think made a noisy dirty diaper while we were doing it. I was bleeding and leaking milk. Not sure what kind of new boyfriend would’ve been interested in that….
Also, we used a condom! Im not taking any chances with pregnancy. I don’t care that it was only 2 weeks postpartum and chance of ovulation was basically zero.

Your husband was interested in it

Because he’s my husband and we’ve been together 15 years! Are you a moron? I don’t understand why you are trying so hard to prove that sex with a new guy when you have a newborn is a totally normal thing.

I think that poster is trolling.

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Women who absolutely cannot function in life for one day “without a man.”

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Anonymous wrote:I had sex 2 weeks postpartum with my husband.
The baby was right next to us and I think made a noisy dirty diaper while we were doing it. I was bleeding and leaking milk. Not sure what kind of new boyfriend would’ve been interested in that….
Also, we used a condom! Im not taking any chances with pregnancy. I don’t care that it was only 2 weeks postpartum and chance of ovulation was basically zero.

Eh. Most men will have sex with a woman on her period. Blood isn’t that scary.

And a lot of men are REALLY into the leaky boobs. BTDT.