Who are these mothers dating with a newborn?

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Anonymous wrote:The woman has zero stability or commitment in her life. She will likely live single, in poverty. Many men are not signing up to be stepfathers anymore, it's a bum deal. I feel sorry for those kids.

Why do you believe locking down a man in a legal contract is the end all be all of stability and commitment?

Because all of the data confirms this. You wanting to be a contrarian doesn't change the facts.

Okay so, according to you, all single mothers have no stability or commitment?

DP. I’m sorry, you have got to be one of the stupidest people alive. Truly. Aside from the lady this post is about.

How am I stupid? PP says if a mother is single she has no commitment or stability in her life. That’s just patently untrue.

I'm PP and I never said that, anywhere. I said the data consistently shows that two parent households are better for children.

A PP said this woman has zero stability or commitment in her life.

She doesn’t…

How do you know that? Stability and commitment comes from more than being married! Do widows suddenly have no commitment or stability just because they don’t have a husband anymore? Divorced women? She might have a supportive loving family and friends. She seems to have a nice house. She talks a lot about having a good coparenting relationship with one of the fathers. It’s disgusting to extrapolate that because she doesn’t have a husband she has zero commitment or stability.

How can she have a good coparenting relationship with one of the fathers when the one whose kid has already been born hasn't met the kid and the other kids are still in utero?

All three are here. They were born in 2020. Neither dad lives with or has custody.

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Anonymous wrote:The woman has zero stability or commitment in her life. She will likely live single, in poverty. Many men are not signing up to be stepfathers anymore, it's a bum deal. I feel sorry for those kids.

Why do you believe locking down a man in a legal contract is the end all be all of stability and commitment?

Because all of the data confirms this. You wanting to be a contrarian doesn't change the facts.

Okay so, according to you, all single mothers have no stability or commitment?

DP. I’m sorry, you have got to be one of the stupidest people alive. Truly. Aside from the lady this post is about.

How am I stupid? PP says if a mother is single she has no commitment or stability in her life. That’s just patently untrue.

I'm PP and I never said that, anywhere. I said the data consistently shows that two parent households are better for children.

A PP said this woman has zero stability or commitment in her life.

She doesn’t…

How do you know that? Stability and commitment comes from more than being married! Do widows suddenly have no commitment or stability just because they don’t have a husband anymore? Divorced women? She might have a supportive loving family and friends. She seems to have a nice house. She talks a lot about having a good coparenting relationship with one of the fathers. It’s disgusting to extrapolate that because she doesn’t have a husband she has zero commitment or stability.

How can she have a good coparenting relationship with one of the fathers when the one whose kid has already been born hasn't met the kid and the other kids are still in utero?

Clearly you haven’t actually watched any of this woman’s content. Her twins are well over a year old.

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And this is exactly why I’m glad the child tax credit expansion did not pass. WTF would I want my tax dollars to pay a woman who had three kids in a single year $900 a month to do nothing for 18 years?

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Feel bad for the kids. How many men will come in and out of their lives?

And yeah, who posts this stuff??!!

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So, forget about the lady for a minute. How did she happen to get involved with 2 separate men who are the type to break up with their children’s mother during pregnancy/infancy? Like, where is she meeting these terrible men…?

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Anonymous wrote:And this is exactly why I’m glad the child tax credit expansion did not pass. WTF would I want my tax dollars to pay a woman who had three kids in a single year $900 a month to do nothing for 18 years?

Incel much? You have never raised kids have you. By raise I mean obtain clothing, diapers and formula for baby in the last 10 years cause you really think $900 a month will allow some one to “do nothing” around 3 kids under 5?

Troll.

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Anonymous wrote:So judgy! She’s young, pretty, lonely, and horny. I don’t judge her. Kudos to her for getting some. Sorry that you’re such a judgmental harpy op, you must have a low sex drive or have no understanding of what it’s like to be in her situation

she’s a whore.

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Anonymous wrote:The woman has zero stability or commitment in her life. She will likely live single, in poverty. Many men are not signing up to be stepfathers anymore, it's a bum deal. I feel sorry for those kids.

Why do you believe locking down a man in a legal contract is the end all be all of stability and commitment?

Because all of the data confirms this. You wanting to be a contrarian doesn't change the facts.

Okay so, according to you, all single mothers have no stability or commitment?

DP. I’m sorry, you have got to be one of the stupidest people alive. Truly. Aside from the lady this post is about.

How am I stupid? PP says if a mother is single she has no commitment or stability in her life. That’s just patently untrue.

I'm PP and I never said that, anywhere. I said the data consistently shows that two parent households are better for children.

A PP said this woman has zero stability or commitment in her life.

She doesn’t…

How do you know that? Stability and commitment comes from more than being married! Do widows suddenly have no commitment or stability just because they don’t have a husband anymore? Divorced women? She might have a supportive loving family and friends. She seems to have a nice house. She talks a lot about having a good coparenting relationship with one of the fathers. It’s disgusting to extrapolate that because she doesn’t have a husband she has zero commitment or stability.

Dude - she has no childcare. No job. Took at least one of the guys to court already. No family pictures or interactions with the father. Sneaks coffees in parking lots. Has three kids under 2 24 hours a day 7 days a week.

Nothing about her says stable and no commitment either.

I’m dying over “sneaks coffee in parking lots”. THE HORROR.

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Well. This is none of my business.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn.

Because newborns require a lot of work and time. A LOT of work and time. It's hard with two parents in the home. So time that she is spending dating and finding guys on tinder is time she's away from her baby.

It's ok to be a feminist and still this this lady has screwed up priorities. How would you feel about a man doing this?

Most men work 40+ hrs per week when they have newborns. Where are their priorities?

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn.

Sex with your husband is at least partly about strengthening a bond with the father of your child. It’s not really about getting off.

And of course people would bat an eye at a man having babies with two different women born within 11 months of each other.

ROTFLMAO.

I was having sex 2 weeks PP and it’s because I was horny as hell and wanted to get off. Was masturbating, too.

Who Tf are these weirdos that think women don’t want to get off and shouldn’t be having sex unless is within the confines of marriage and “bonding”?!?! I feel bad for them, because it’s either women who haven’t had great sex ever, or men who aren’t very good at getting a woman off.

Wait you mean, like, you actually enjoy it? How dare you now that you are a mother!

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Anonymous wrote:So judgy! She’s young, pretty, lonely, and horny. I don’t judge her. Kudos to her for getting some. Sorry that you’re such a judgmental harpy op, you must have a low sex drive or have no understanding of what it’s like to be in her situation

she’s a whore.

At least she is an not an idiot like you.

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I’m so happy that I’m 43, own my home, my child is thriving and I give ZERO f$$ks about some incel in his mom’s basement thinking I shouldn’t have a sex drive. If I want to get it on by myself, I do. If I want to have a casual relationship just for sex, I do. Men who can’t get a woman to sleep with them calling a woman (or me) a whole has zero effect on me.

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Anonymous wrote:They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD.

Sex or being pursued helped?

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it.

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn.

Because newborns require a lot of work and time. A LOT of work and time. It's hard with two parents in the home. So time that she is spending dating and finding guys on tinder is time she's away from her baby.

It's ok to be a feminist and still this this lady has screwed up priorities. How would you feel about a man doing this?

Most men work 40+ hrs per week when they have newborns. Where are their priorities?

...to their newborns when they're not working? That's the entire point? Newborns require all hands on deck.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m so happy that I’m 43, own my home, my child is thriving and I give ZERO f$$ks about some incel in his mom’s basement thinking I shouldn’t have a sex drive. If I want to get it on by myself, I do. If I want to have a casual relationship just for sex, I do. Men who can’t get a woman to sleep with them calling a woman (or me) a whole has zero effect on me.

I'm a woman and I think the woman made poor choices that will negatively affect her children. Feminism isn't agreeing with all women's choices at all times. I DGAF if she wants to sleep around, who cares, but don't bring more children into the situation. She's an idiot for not using birth control.