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I didn’t see a lot of people in the Lia Thomas thread or in this just throwing out “transphobic.” I think people just opting to use a screen name would go a long way toward making people’s positions clear without having to sign in. - Stephanie. |
I disagree. I have different needs than a transwoman. My needs are sometimes in conflicts with hers. There needs to be a different organization supporting her needs. |
I’m the PP and I was specifically thinking about the transactivist who called my earlier post “transphobic,” which I genuinely do not understand. That PP seemed to be taking the position that any conversation that references the zero sum nature of athletics in the context of discussing transwomen is “transphobic.” |
You both have more in common than not. Organizations can and do support support ALL women - education, athletics, sexual harassment, pay, healthcare, childcare. Scroll down and see this organization in action - supporting cis-women, women of color, transgender women, etc. https://nwlc.org/issue/education-title-ix/ Pitting women against women is harmful. Women are stronger together. |
They’re not my best friends. They’re not going to find out. Literally the only thing that matters is how I treat them face to face. My personal thoughts their situation are completely irrelevant. They want respect in daily life, they’ve got it. |
I am the PP who made that comment. I'm not a "transactivist". And I didn't call the post transphobic. But the us vs. them sentiment certainly does read as anti-trans to me. There are many inequalities in college athletics. Laser-focusing in on this extremely rare scenario instead of any of the other issues that do affect thousands of girls in sports today seems bigoted. Plus, it's a GOP wedge issue and makes me question motives. A conversation discussing the differences in IOC vs. NCAA vs. USA Swimming transgender guidelines is one thing. Blanketly saying that no transgender women should ever compete against cis-women sounds bigoted to me. |
Well, I certainly didn’t say the bolded, so there was no need for you to immediately answer with an eye roll emoji and call me transphobic (which you clearly did). It is impossible to have conversations that are thoughtful if that’s the tenor taken. |
Dp- i reported your original comment. I stand by that. It’s not okay to shut down civilized and thoughtful conversations. That’s no better than trolling. |
Pretty sure most people want to be sincerely respected, not just superficially because of professional obligations. |
I guess after reading that train-wreck thread full of fake support for transgender people I've come away realizing that there are very few sincere posters. And there wasn't a lot of nuance. Just a whole lot of us vs. them. |
DP but I agree with this poster. You can't force everyone to see transgender people exactly as they see themselves. They are certainly worthy of respect and kindness but you can't force others to believe that a transwoman is really a woman for example if they fundamentally do not believe it. You can apply the same principal to those with different religious beliefs. A person can be respectful and kind towards another person despite sharing different religious beliefs. |
I’m the PP who was talking about primarily white feminist organizations (like NWLC) and their history with marginalized populations and this is a very good example of the language I was thinking about. For many years, practically more than a century’s worth, language exactly like this was used to overtly remove issues of POC women from the platforms of feminist organizations. Black women in particular were often told that they should essentially be quiet because otherwise Black women were “pitting women against women” and that “women are stronger together.” That language is eerily similar to the language used to tell WOC to stop raising their issues because it weakened the arguments of mainstream feminist organizations. It makes me extremely uncomfortable to see this exact language used specifically in the context of athletics given the history of athletics being used as a vehicle of educational mobility for disadvantaged women. There is a very ugly history behind these sort of surface-level pleasantries. I’m not even saying that the sentiment is entirely wrong, but that this glossy type of “win together” language has a brutal and ugly history in mainstream white women’s organizations, and I wish people would be aware of the history of privileges they are invoking when they use it. |
Title IX specifically sets aside funding for female athletes. It is zero sum, a scholarship for one woman means another woman loses the same amount. Please tell me how one organization can advocate for both trans women and women who were born female in college athletics. |
They are advocating for expanded support for all women: https://nwlc.org/resource/webinar-using-title-ix-to-end-gender-disparities-in-athletics/ They want to address gender & racial inequalities which will increase opportunities for all, including scholarships. https://nwlc.org/dear-ncaa-its-not-too-late-to-let-trans-intersex-students-play/ https://nwlc.org/stop-using-girl-athletes-to-justify-your-transphobia/ They are doing real work to help women. All women. |
I am not familiar with the leadership of NWLC and how representative it is, but as an organization they certainly do allocate a lot of their resources to advocate for racial equality. |