How to outdo annoying SIL

[Anonymous]

Go buy yourself a tiara to wear with your tasteful outfits to every family function. Amazon has a big selection. Get a custom tailor to make a sash for you with, “I’ll always be the winner here!” embroidered on it. Your DH and your ILs may love that!

So how will this end, OP?

The problem really is not SIL, the problem is you have feelings you don’t know how to deal with and can’t let go of. You need to do some internal work on you. A therapist can help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is not responsible for “triggering” you or “bringing out” anything in you. Take responsibility for your own feelings, flaws and choices.

That would be like saying my sister “triggered” me to shoplift or something. Nope, and nuh-uh. You are grown.

OP here. I am not saying she is CAUSING me to feel a certain way. I mean to say that I feel a certain way by being around her.

Welp, then you should probably seek therapy to work through your feelings. You clearly are insecure.