What to do with extreme failure to launch adult sibling

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The next time he is violent get a restraining order, he will have to leave the house.

Next time he is violent call the police and get him involuntarily committed. Do not take him back in after, in Virginia they counties have mental health services that/can help. Look them up now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope. You have to kick him out and cut him off. He’s too comfortable.

+1. Scaffold him out. Or toss him, but scaffolding is better if they aren't violent. Because he is, I'd discuss with a social worker. You need him out, though.