Wait do most alpha men get jealous and women like this?

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

If your boyfriend is taking you to places where bar tenders flirt with you, then you’re either young or poor. A real alpha male would have enough money to take you somewhere with professionals who don’t flirt with customers.

Young, yes, and fun places sometimes have hot bartenders. I dont think of old decrepit, saggy or wrinkled men as alpha. More like the opposite. But a lot of these guys did have money and drove Range Rovers, Mercedes, etc

Right… you’re not dating alpha males. You’re dating young immature guys.

No, I'm dating alphas. Sorry you cant relate or were triggered by this.

No, not triggered or even attracted to that kind of person. Just trying to explain to you you’re not dating guys with real money or power. You’re young and you’re dating flashy meatheads.

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

See, if a guy I was with picked a fight with a bartender, there would not be second date. Only have to date a guy like that once to know they're bad news. Like one guy I dated didn't like me going to office hours if the TA was male. Dumped that guy so fast.

Well you and i have different preferences, obviously. It was also never a fight as the guys I dated were very socially smooth and knew exactly how to firmly put the guy in his place without it being an issue. They're also fairly ripped which meant dudes hardly ever started fights with them. Now that's alpha- you probably wouldnt get it.

Why does the guy need to be put in his place? You are not property and you choose who you want to interact with and if you like how they interact with you. Maybe you like that sort of thing, but what you describe isn't alpha it's a misogynistic bozo, but you also sound young so you might grow out of it.

When did I say I was property, lol? Of course I know that. But he's my man, and I WANT him to defend me. It's actually a tough world for women, so it's nice to know that a strong, physically fit man has my back. Otherwise, what's the point of men, lol? Physical strength and protection is one of the main things they bring to the table.

So yeah, i love it. Plus it's HOT.

Sorry you're old and never experienced it 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

If your boyfriend is taking you to places where bar tenders flirt with you, then you’re either young or poor. A real alpha male would have enough money to take you somewhere with professionals who don’t flirt with customers.

Young, yes, and fun places sometimes have hot bartenders. I dont think of old decrepit, saggy or wrinkled men as alpha. More like the opposite. But a lot of these guys did have money and drove Range Rovers, Mercedes, etc

Right… you’re not dating alpha males. You’re dating young immature guys.

No, I'm dating alphas. Sorry you cant relate or were triggered by this.

No, not triggered or even attracted to that kind of person. Just trying to explain to you you’re not dating guys with real money or power. You’re young and you’re dating flashy meatheads.

1) I already alluded to them having money. I guess reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, unless you think they stole their cars, lol

2) You sound old and like youve dated weaklings. If thats what you want, enjoy! There's probably zero competition for these men anyway so you can have your pick of the litter. Get it girl!

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

If your boyfriend is taking you to places where bar tenders flirt with you, then you’re either young or poor. A real alpha male would have enough money to take you somewhere with professionals who don’t flirt with customers.

Young, yes, and fun places sometimes have hot bartenders. I dont think of old decrepit, saggy or wrinkled men as alpha. More like the opposite. But a lot of these guys did have money and drove Range Rovers, Mercedes, etc

Right… you’re not dating alpha males. You’re dating young immature guys.

No, I'm dating alphas. Sorry you cant relate or were triggered by this.

No, not triggered or even attracted to that kind of person. Just trying to explain to you you’re not dating guys with real money or power. You’re young and you’re dating flashy meatheads.

1) I already alluded to them having money. I guess reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, unless you think they stole their cars, lol

2) You sound old and like youve dated weaklings. If thats what you want, enjoy! There's probably zero competition for these men anyway so you can have your pick of the litter. Get it girl!

Driving a Range Rover is like wearing a gold chain. It doesn’t mean you have actual money. It probably means the opposite.

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

See, if a guy I was with picked a fight with a bartender, there would not be second date. Only have to date a guy like that once to know they're bad news. Like one guy I dated didn't like me going to office hours if the TA was male. Dumped that guy so fast.

Well you and i have different preferences, obviously. It was also never a fight as the guys I dated were very socially smooth and knew exactly how to firmly put the guy in his place without it being an issue. They're also fairly ripped which meant dudes hardly ever started fights with them. Now that's alpha- you probably wouldnt get it.

Why does the guy need to be put in his place? You are not property and you choose who you want to interact with and if you like how they interact with you. Maybe you like that sort of thing, but what you describe isn't alpha it's a misogynistic bozo, but you also sound young so you might grow out of it.

When did I say I was property, lol? Of course I know that. But he's my man, and I WANT him to defend me. It's actually a tough world for women, so it's nice to know that a strong, physically fit man has my back. Otherwise, what's the point of men, lol? Physical strength and protection is one of the main things they bring to the table.

So yeah, i love it. Plus it's HOT.

Sorry you're old and never experienced it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do you need defending from someone who is flirting with you?

Young and dumb.

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

If your boyfriend is taking you to places where bar tenders flirt with you, then you’re either young or poor. A real alpha male would have enough money to take you somewhere with professionals who don’t flirt with customers.

Young, yes, and fun places sometimes have hot bartenders. I dont think of old decrepit, saggy or wrinkled men as alpha. More like the opposite. But a lot of these guys did have money and drove Range Rovers, Mercedes, etc

Right… you’re not dating alpha males. You’re dating young immature guys.

No, I'm dating alphas. Sorry you cant relate or were triggered by this.

No, not triggered or even attracted to that kind of person. Just trying to explain to you you’re not dating guys with real money or power. You’re young and you’re dating flashy meatheads.

1) I already alluded to them having money. I guess reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, unless you think they stole their cars, lol

2) You sound old and like youve dated weaklings. If thats what you want, enjoy! There's probably zero competition for these men anyway so you can have your pick of the litter. Get it girl!

Driving a Range Rover is like wearing a gold chain. It doesn’t mean you have actual money. It probably means the opposite.

Well all i can say is he had LOTS of money and a famous name as well. So... if that's your definition of alpha, he certainly was. And hot AF.

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

See, if a guy I was with picked a fight with a bartender, there would not be second date. Only have to date a guy like that once to know they're bad news. Like one guy I dated didn't like me going to office hours if the TA was male. Dumped that guy so fast.

Well you and i have different preferences, obviously. It was also never a fight as the guys I dated were very socially smooth and knew exactly how to firmly put the guy in his place without it being an issue. They're also fairly ripped which meant dudes hardly ever started fights with them. Now that's alpha- you probably wouldnt get it.

Why does the guy need to be put in his place? You are not property and you choose who you want to interact with and if you like how they interact with you. Maybe you like that sort of thing, but what you describe isn't alpha it's a misogynistic bozo, but you also sound young so you might grow out of it.

When did I say I was property, lol? Of course I know that. But he's my man, and I WANT him to defend me. It's actually a tough world for women, so it's nice to know that a strong, physically fit man has my back. Otherwise, what's the point of men, lol? Physical strength and protection is one of the main things they bring to the table.

So yeah, i love it. Plus it's HOT.

Sorry you're old and never experienced it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do you need defending from someone who is flirting with you?

Young and dumb.

You need defending from sexual harassment you absolute clown. But you probably cant relate because no one would glance twice at you. What a loser

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

See, if a guy I was with picked a fight with a bartender, there would not be second date. Only have to date a guy like that once to know they're bad news. Like one guy I dated didn't like me going to office hours if the TA was male. Dumped that guy so fast.

Well you and i have different preferences, obviously. It was also never a fight as the guys I dated were very socially smooth and knew exactly how to firmly put the guy in his place without it being an issue. They're also fairly ripped which meant dudes hardly ever started fights with them. Now that's alpha- you probably wouldnt get it.

Why does the guy need to be put in his place? You are not property and you choose who you want to interact with and if you like how they interact with you. Maybe you like that sort of thing, but what you describe isn't alpha it's a misogynistic bozo, but you also sound young so you might grow out of it.

When did I say I was property, lol? Of course I know that. But he's my man, and I WANT him to defend me. It's actually a tough world for women, so it's nice to know that a strong, physically fit man has my back. Otherwise, what's the point of men, lol? Physical strength and protection is one of the main things they bring to the table.

So yeah, i love it. Plus it's HOT.

Sorry you're old and never experienced it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do you need defending from someone who is flirting with you?

Young and dumb.

You need defending from sexual harassment you absolute clown. But you probably cant relate because no one would glance twice at you. What a loser

Well this explains how those gross greasy aggressive guys at bars find women. I guess some people are into that...

No thanks

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That idea of “alpha” has been around long before Trump. I remember reading about it online 20+ years ago. It was basically taken by men who lacked social and relationship skills to explain why they struggled with females. Instead of looking at themselves or recognizing that maybe that particular hot female they’d been lusting after just wasn’t interested and it’s nothing personal, it was easier to come up with the stereotype that women only want “alphas”, who are tall, muscular, rich, a-holes, etc. Because it’s easier to blame external factors (“women only like a-holes but I’m a nice guy and refuse to stoop to their level!”) rather than look at yourself and recognize maybe most women don’t want a guy who washes his hair once a week, watches anime all day, and does weird things around her family/friends. And it’s a lot easier to blame women for, say, only wanting tall men since they can’t grow taller, but facing the fact that they have poor leadership skills or can’t handle challenges or lack social skills is a lot more difficult.

It ends up being a bullshit concept, but in fairness, it worked as a marketing tool because there was a grain of truth to it. Assholes in high school were legitimately more likely to have girlfriends than legitimately kind, funny, intelligent guys who were shy. For reasons having to do with socialization, women were less forthright about saying they wanted a guy who was strong, athletic, and good looking. So when asked about what they wanted in a guy, they'd say things like "kind" and "good sense of humor" -- when the hottest girls with the most options were obviously making looks and athletic ability a way higher priority. Also the jerks were more likely to be aggressive in asking girls out. Easier to go out with the jerk who makes the first move than for the girl to make the first move herself on a boy who was likely to treat her better but was shy.

As women mature, their tastes in men tend to mature as well. But those first impressions last -- so it looks like their preference is for aggressive athletic guys. Giving rise to the myth of Chad Thundercock the Alpha.

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

See, if a guy I was with picked a fight with a bartender, there would not be second date. Only have to date a guy like that once to know they're bad news. Like one guy I dated didn't like me going to office hours if the TA was male. Dumped that guy so fast.

Well you and i have different preferences, obviously. It was also never a fight as the guys I dated were very socially smooth and knew exactly how to firmly put the guy in his place without it being an issue. They're also fairly ripped which meant dudes hardly ever started fights with them. Now that's alpha- you probably wouldnt get it.

Why does the guy need to be put in his place? You are not property and you choose who you want to interact with and if you like how they interact with you. Maybe you like that sort of thing, but what you describe isn't alpha it's a misogynistic bozo, but you also sound young so you might grow out of it.

When did I say I was property, lol? Of course I know that. But he's my man, and I WANT him to defend me. It's actually a tough world for women, so it's nice to know that a strong, physically fit man has my back. Otherwise, what's the point of men, lol? Physical strength and protection is one of the main things they bring to the table.

So yeah, i love it. Plus it's HOT.

Sorry you're old and never experienced it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do you need defending from someone who is flirting with you?

Young and dumb.

You need defending from sexual harassment you absolute clown. But you probably cant relate because no one would glance twice at you. What a loser

So now the bartender was sexually harassing you and not flirting with you. You sound like a confused little girl.

But answer me this, why are you miss young and hot who has all the answers posting on a parenting board at 8#0 pm on a Saturday night insead of hanging out with your amazing BF?

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

See, if a guy I was with picked a fight with a bartender, there would not be second date. Only have to date a guy like that once to know they're bad news. Like one guy I dated didn't like me going to office hours if the TA was male. Dumped that guy so fast.

Well you and i have different preferences, obviously. It was also never a fight as the guys I dated were very socially smooth and knew exactly how to firmly put the guy in his place without it being an issue. They're also fairly ripped which meant dudes hardly ever started fights with them. Now that's alpha- you probably wouldnt get it.

Why does the guy need to be put in his place? You are not property and you choose who you want to interact with and if you like how they interact with you. Maybe you like that sort of thing, but what you describe isn't alpha it's a misogynistic bozo, but you also sound young so you might grow out of it.

When did I say I was property, lol? Of course I know that. But he's my man, and I WANT him to defend me. It's actually a tough world for women, so it's nice to know that a strong, physically fit man has my back. Otherwise, what's the point of men, lol? Physical strength and protection is one of the main things they bring to the table.

So yeah, i love it. Plus it's HOT.

Sorry you're old and never experienced it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do you need defending from someone who is flirting with you?

Young and dumb.

You need defending from sexual harassment you absolute clown. But you probably cant relate because no one would glance twice at you. What a loser

Well this explains how those gross greasy aggressive guys at bars find women. I guess some people are into that...

No thanks

Um, not sure how you got that from my comment about my gorgeously attractive ex but anyway... someone seems obviously triggered, jealous and insecure. Yes straight women (and gay men) are attracted to masculine men and masculine energy.

Good luck measuring up one day!

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

See, if a guy I was with picked a fight with a bartender, there would not be second date. Only have to date a guy like that once to know they're bad news. Like one guy I dated didn't like me going to office hours if the TA was male. Dumped that guy so fast.

Well you and i have different preferences, obviously. It was also never a fight as the guys I dated were very socially smooth and knew exactly how to firmly put the guy in his place without it being an issue. They're also fairly ripped which meant dudes hardly ever started fights with them. Now that's alpha- you probably wouldnt get it.

Why does the guy need to be put in his place? You are not property and you choose who you want to interact with and if you like how they interact with you. Maybe you like that sort of thing, but what you describe isn't alpha it's a misogynistic bozo, but you also sound young so you might grow out of it.

When did I say I was property, lol? Of course I know that. But he's my man, and I WANT him to defend me. It's actually a tough world for women, so it's nice to know that a strong, physically fit man has my back. Otherwise, what's the point of men, lol? Physical strength and protection is one of the main things they bring to the table.

So yeah, i love it. Plus it's HOT.

Sorry you're old and never experienced it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do you need defending from someone who is flirting with you?

Young and dumb.

You need defending from sexual harassment you absolute clown. But you probably cant relate because no one would glance twice at you. What a loser

So now the bartender was sexually harassing you and not flirting with you. You sound like a confused little girl.

But answer me this, why are you miss young and hot who has all the answers posting on a parenting board at 8#0 pm on a Saturday night insead of hanging out with your amazing BF?

Because it's fan fiction.

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

See, if a guy I was with picked a fight with a bartender, there would not be second date. Only have to date a guy like that once to know they're bad news. Like one guy I dated didn't like me going to office hours if the TA was male. Dumped that guy so fast.

Well you and i have different preferences, obviously. It was also never a fight as the guys I dated were very socially smooth and knew exactly how to firmly put the guy in his place without it being an issue. They're also fairly ripped which meant dudes hardly ever started fights with them. Now that's alpha- you probably wouldnt get it.

Why does the guy need to be put in his place? You are not property and you choose who you want to interact with and if you like how they interact with you. Maybe you like that sort of thing, but what you describe isn't alpha it's a misogynistic bozo, but you also sound young so you might grow out of it.

When did I say I was property, lol? Of course I know that. But he's my man, and I WANT him to defend me. It's actually a tough world for women, so it's nice to know that a strong, physically fit man has my back. Otherwise, what's the point of men, lol? Physical strength and protection is one of the main things they bring to the table.

So yeah, i love it. Plus it's HOT.

Sorry you're old and never experienced it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do you need defending from someone who is flirting with you?

Young and dumb.

You need defending from sexual harassment you absolute clown. But you probably cant relate because no one would glance twice at you. What a loser

So now the bartender was sexually harassing you and not flirting with you. You sound like a confused little girl.

But answer me this, why are you miss young and hot who has all the answers posting on a parenting board at 8#0 pm on a Saturday night insead of hanging out with your amazing BF?

Flirting can often = sexual harassment. If you really need proof of all the ways women get sexually preyed upon moving through this world then youre a bigger incel than I already thought.

I'm home with my parents right now for Thanksgiving, nit wit. You might understand if you had a family who loved and tolerated you <3

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That idea of “alpha” has been around long before Trump. I remember reading about it online 20+ years ago. It was basically taken by men who lacked social and relationship skills to explain why they struggled with females. Instead of looking at themselves or recognizing that maybe that particular hot female they’d been lusting after just wasn’t interested and it’s nothing personal, it was easier to come up with the stereotype that women only want “alphas”, who are tall, muscular, rich, a-holes, etc. Because it’s easier to blame external factors (“women only like a-holes but I’m a nice guy and refuse to stoop to their level!”) rather than look at yourself and recognize maybe most women don’t want a guy who washes his hair once a week, watches anime all day, and does weird things around her family/friends. And it’s a lot easier to blame women for, say, only wanting tall men since they can’t grow taller, but facing the fact that they have poor leadership skills or can’t handle challenges or lack social skills is a lot more difficult.

It ends up being a bullshit concept, but in fairness, it worked as a marketing tool because there was a grain of truth to it. Assholes in high school were legitimately more likely to have girlfriends than legitimately kind, funny, intelligent guys who were shy. For reasons having to do with socialization, women were less forthright about saying they wanted a guy who was strong, athletic, and good looking. So when asked about what they wanted in a guy, they'd say things like "kind" and "good sense of humor" -- when the hottest girls with the most options were obviously making looks and athletic ability a way higher priority. Also the jerks were more likely to be aggressive in asking girls out. Easier to go out with the jerk who makes the first move than for the girl to make the first move herself on a boy who was likely to treat her better but was shy.

As women mature, their tastes in men tend to mature as well. But those first impressions last -- so it looks like their preference is for aggressive athletic guys. Giving rise to the myth of Chad Thundercock the Alpha.

Real talk, as a woman I don't know many women who truly only dated jerks or were into jerks as teens and young women, in my experience that's something of a myth. The few who did go through a jerk phase had mental health or daddy issues.

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Anonymous wrote:I have dated a lot of "alpha" men and yes, you can expect some jealousy and kind of "mate guarding" behavior. As in, the hot bartender is flirting with you and they will make it known that youre together and do something to put the bartender in his place. Or you run into an old male friend and they make it very clear that youre together and that the guy can keep it moving.

It's too be expected. I mean, I'm sure evol psych has plenty of explanations for this behavior. I dont let it bother me.

See, if a guy I was with picked a fight with a bartender, there would not be second date. Only have to date a guy like that once to know they're bad news. Like one guy I dated didn't like me going to office hours if the TA was male. Dumped that guy so fast.

Well you and i have different preferences, obviously. It was also never a fight as the guys I dated were very socially smooth and knew exactly how to firmly put the guy in his place without it being an issue. They're also fairly ripped which meant dudes hardly ever started fights with them. Now that's alpha- you probably wouldnt get it.

Why does the guy need to be put in his place? You are not property and you choose who you want to interact with and if you like how they interact with you. Maybe you like that sort of thing, but what you describe isn't alpha it's a misogynistic bozo, but you also sound young so you might grow out of it.

When did I say I was property, lol? Of course I know that. But he's my man, and I WANT him to defend me. It's actually a tough world for women, so it's nice to know that a strong, physically fit man has my back. Otherwise, what's the point of men, lol? Physical strength and protection is one of the main things they bring to the table.

So yeah, i love it. Plus it's HOT.

Sorry you're old and never experienced it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do you need defending from someone who is flirting with you?

Young and dumb.

You need defending from sexual harassment you absolute clown. But you probably cant relate because no one would glance twice at you. What a loser

So now the bartender was sexually harassing you and not flirting with you. You sound like a confused little girl.

But answer me this, why are you miss young and hot who has all the answers posting on a parenting board at 8#0 pm on a Saturday night insead of hanging out with your amazing BF?

Flirting can often = sexual harassment. If you really need proof of all the ways women get sexually preyed upon moving through this world then youre a bigger incel than I already thought.

I'm home with my parents right now for Thanksgiving, nit wit. You might understand if you had a family who loved and tolerated you <3

Flirting is flirting and sexual harassment is just that there's no confusion between the two and you are just now trying to muddy the waters when people a bit older and wiser than you pointed out that your boyfriend's behavior wasn't hot but immature.

You being home for Thanksgiving still doesn't explain why you are on a parenting board, do you not have friends or other things to do, being young and without kids? I do understand your immaturity a bit better now though, you're a college kid, and can't help it, you'll grow out of it.