Men, would you date or marry someone considered fat?

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Anonymous wrote:If she would have sex with me every time I wanted it, yes.

So you view fat women as not having the right to consent. No one should date you.

That's a reach pp, you know that's no what pp said, and you should be ashamed of yourself. Stop the insanity.

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I can just imagine what some of these no dating “fat” men look like. Here’s a hint: they are missing a top and bottom lip.

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never have never will. If a person is fat, most of the time it means they are lazy. They don't care about health or taking care of themselves. Why would I want to be with someone like that? And if they treat themselves like that how will they treat me or kids?

It really is quite an accomplishment to be this ignorant in 2021. Congrats!

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never have never will. If a person is fat, most of the time it means they are lazy. They don't care about health or taking care of themselves. Why would I want to be with someone like that? And if they treat themselves like that how will they treat me or kids?

It really is quite an accomplishment to be this ignorant in 2021. Congrats!

America lifestyle: fast food and driving everywhere. We’re fatter than people in other countries.

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Anonymous wrote:I can just imagine what some of these no dating “fat” men look like. Here’s a hint: they are missing a top and bottom lip.

Cope

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Anonymous wrote:I married a fat woman. If I found myself single again, I'd do it again if I loved the person.

That is sweet but the constant eating everything in sight would bother me and I like long visible necks.

If you actually dated a large woman, you would find they typically don't eat that much more than skinny women, on the whole.

Agreed. I am fat. I went to see my sister this summer and stayed for two weeks. She is skinny. She ate twice as much as me every day.

But that's the thing about prejudice, it's never factually correct.

Obviously its a metabolic disorder most likely brought on by endocrine issues for the fat woman who eats what the skinny woman eats. However in monitoring the 2 obese women at work they do eat everything in sight and snack all day. Sodas popping every hour and bags of chips or candy being devoured between meals.

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Anonymous wrote:I bet society considers Christina Hendricks fat…

Google tells me she's 5'7" 161. so a BMI of 25.2.

I'd date her.

Each of her fake jugs weighs as much as a newborn

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Anonymous wrote:If she was great in bed and had a high sex drive, yes.

So the consensus is that men would date fat women but only for the reputation of being easy to bed?

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Anonymous wrote:If she would have sex with me every time I wanted it, yes.

So you view fat women as not having the right to consent. No one should date you.

That's a reach pp, you know that's no what pp said, and you should be ashamed of yourself. Stop the insanity.

It is, and I’m not. The PP is saying in essence, a fat woman should “make up for” a perceived physical deficiency by having sex with him. Because she owes him for the privilege of being dated. That’s gross and not at all the enthusiastic consent I assume people want from their partners.

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Anonymous wrote:If she would have sex with me every time I wanted it, yes.

So you view fat women as not having the right to consent. No one should date you.

That's a reach pp, you know that's no what pp said, and you should be ashamed of yourself. Stop the insanity.

It is, and I’m not. The PP is saying in essence, a fat woman should “make up for” a perceived physical deficiency by having sex with him. Because she owes him for the privilege of being dated. That’s gross and not at all the enthusiastic consent I assume people want from their partners.

I don't think this is what he's saying at all. I think he's saying sexual willingness trumps weight for him, which is totally reasonable. I am a woman and would rather have a fat, short and/or bald DH who's good in bed and hot for me then a fit hot man who doesn't really want me much.

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Fat woman here. The least I've weighed as an adult is about 165 (at 5'4") and the most about 220. I was married for several decades and then in a three year relationship and also dated several other guys before and after marriage. Not one of them was overweight and they were all pretty good looking. My weight did not affect any of the relationships. I am totally into sex if it's with someone I love and am attracted to though, so there's that.

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Anonymous wrote:Almost all women are thin when they get married. It’s after that things change.

Ever walk into a couple's house and see a wedding photo on their mantel and wonder, what did you do with those people? Did you eat them?

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I've had ONS and a few affairs with fat women but, now as a single guy, I'd never date one. Not my thing but I have friends who are only attracted to fat women. It's a preference. I doubt any woman, fat or thin, is wanting for dates if she puts it out there.

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Anonymous wrote:Of course you should if you like her. But, she should not be with you bc you are unable to overcome societal negativity and pressure around someone “considered fat.”

If I’m being completely honest, societal pressure has zero to do with who I’m attracted to and who I’ll date. I can’t emphasize this enough. I date who I’m attracted to - much the same as women.

I’m also in the “lid for every pot” camp. Some of our friends are definitely what you’d describe as fat (I personally don’t think about it) and have a very happy marriage.

I dont believe this. So many men are easily influenced, but they all want to believe their mavericks who think for themselves. I dated a very powerful/well known man in my city and it was amazing how much more male attention I got afterwards. Suddenly men were coming out of the woodwork after we broke up, all because I had some kind of new status or social clout since such a powerful man had wanted me. It was really a turn off. Men who were quiet before were suddenly all over me, because of the social status.

I'm not fat but I have no doubt there are many men attracted to fat women who dont come forward because most men are cowards and extremely concerned/preoccupied with what their friends will say. Many men are essentially social golddiggers, looking to use a woman for clout and social recognition

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Anonymous wrote:No, because all women get fatter after marriage. I married an overweight woman, and she got a lot bigger.

Did you stay the same weight?

I'd put on 20 lbs and then lose 30 lbs. At times I was in better shape than when I got married, which made her angry.

So your weight fluctuation is forgivable, even admirable, her hers is not. Got you.

I'm not the pp, but my wife and I were comparably thin when we met. I've gained 10 pounds in 20 years, she's gained 40+. I think it's our duty as partners to stay within 10% of the weight we were when we met.

Did you bear children, which changes your body and ruins your metabolism? No? Then STFU.