Men, would you date or marry someone considered fat?

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I married a fat woman. If I found myself single again, I'd do it again if I loved the person.

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Anonymous wrote:No, because all women get fatter after marriage. I married an overweight woman, and she got a lot bigger.

I noticed that! My cousins were thin as strings when dating men but after marriage and a few kids they have really gotten wider. No more girlish figures.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As long as its well proportioned - meaning big chest and full bottom, I love it

I’m a thicc hour glass shape and I’ve never in my life been short on men to date. *shrug*

Hourglass is not fat

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I married a fat woman. If I found myself single again, I'd do it again if I loved the person.

That is sweet but the constant eating everything in sight would bother me and I like long visible necks.

[Anonymous]

This isn't the answer to the question you asked, but basically NOONE should ever sleep with your coworker.

[Anonymous]

Most people tend to pair with people of the same size both in height and width. There's outliers of course. Date the people who want to date you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As long as its well proportioned - meaning big chest and full bottom, I love it

I’m a thicc hour glass shape and I’ve never in my life been short on men to date. *shrug*

Hourglass is not fat

Khloe Kardashian has always been hourglass but she's a big girl. Its either fat or thin. Thin hourglass is Megan fox thick or fat hourglass is demi Lovato or plus size model Ashley graham.

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Anonymous wrote:I think that everyone’s dealbreakers, no matter how petty, are legitimate. If I’m rejected for not being 6’4 or not making 7 figures I chalk it up to not being her type and don’t blame it in society.

No one is blaming society. The problem is when someone won’t be with someone they actually like bc they don’t have the balls to care more about their actual attraction than peer pressure.

That' doesn't happen that often though despite what boards have you believe. If someone was really into you they would give you a shot, the fact is that they aren't with someone who is into you. The funny thing is so many of the women complaining a guy won't be with her because she's fat or a guy complaining a girl won't be with him because he's too short won't give everyone a chance either because they aren't attracted to them. I guess it's fine for them to be picky or have a preference, but if someone isn't into them they're shallow or have been corrupted and too afraid because of society.
Nobody owes you a date, if you are fortunate to find someone interested in you give them a shot, instead of whining about the person who isn't interested in you.

As for the OP, the coworker just sounds like your garden variety douche.

Again, these are not the same thing. Not talking about people who make excuses for their own unpopularity. This question specifically refers to the OP, who is asking whether he should cow tow to peer pressure vs actually commit to someone he already finds attractive. That is just loserville. If you love this woman go get her, who cares what others think.

That's how you interpret ops question. I interpret it as more whining by op.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband married me when I was fat (and he was thin). I'm a lot less fat now, he has loved and banged me at all weights. So anecdotally this one guy who married me did!

I have a friend who was fat when she got married (to a great guy btw) and has completely overhauled her health and her body in the past couple of years. She always had a great personality, but I feel like her husband now has a hot wife (and he probably thought she was hot before too!) Lot of other couples I see are moving in the opposite direction…

[Anonymous]

I have never been in a relationship with a fat woman and never would be. BMI < 22 or no deal

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No, because all women get fatter after marriage. I married an overweight woman, and she got a lot bigger.

Did you stay the same weight?

I'd put on 20 lbs and then lose 30 lbs. At times I was in better shape than when I got married, which made her angry.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband married me when I was fat (and he was thin). I'm a lot less fat now, he has loved and banged me at all weights. So anecdotally this one guy who married me did!

I have a friend who was fat when she got married (to a great guy btw) and has completely overhauled her health and her body in the past couple of years. She always had a great personality, but I feel like her husband now has a hot wife (and he probably thought she was hot before too!) Lot of other couples I see are moving in the opposite direction…

I will say we seem to be the outlier! But it can happen. To all you grumpy guys, my husband never pressured me but always supported me when I made time for myself and when I made an effort to better myself. He didn't blink when I wanted to order an expensive exercise machine, and while I lost weight, he always made sure I knew he loved me then, loves me now, and loves me no matter where I go from here. I am still me, he said. But we have more options in the bedroom now I didn't even know I was missing and I know he does appreciate that! He also pulls his weight with the kids and household and doesn't wait until I'm overwhelmed to step in. He is, like pp's friend's dude, a great guy.

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Anonymous wrote:No, because all women get fatter after marriage. I married an overweight woman, and she got a lot bigger.

Did you stay the same weight?

I'd put on 20 lbs and then lose 30 lbs. At times I was in better shape than when I got married, which made her angry.

So your weight fluctuation is forgivable, even admirable, her hers is not. Got you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Demi has a round face so any extra pounds she’s wearing it

But the answer to the question is deff no

Guys don’t date fat chicks

Now I know why all fat chicks are single/s

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I married a fat woman. If I found myself single again, I'd do it again if I loved the person.

That is sweet but the constant eating everything in sight would bother me and I like long visible necks.

If you actually dated a large woman, you would find they typically don't eat that much more than skinny women, on the whole.