No karma for OW

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Not my circus, not my monkeys, but just something I noticed. A good friend was cheated on by DH with a young OW for almost a year, nearly killed her but they patched things up after a very hard struggle. OW kept sending DW sordid details of their affair to try to get her to dump him. We all kept thinking the OW would get some karma, but nope, she married a rich (single) guy, bought a 3m home and just had her first kid. Bet the new husband knows nothing about her role in the affair. Just doesn’t seem fair.

Your friend should have sent the DH a informative note.

Sometimes Karma takes awhile. So what... they have a nice home, they may owe that much as well. Like many we know. The recorded docs are all public info. which realtors etc. use. Sometimes they are very telling about how much debt one has. One of my family members was left for the ow after 25 years. They actually had a decent marriage, but the OW was jrecently divorced and broke. She needed a quick life preserver. This was her college bf she stalked from another state. No doubt saw they had a nice home which incidentally they recently paid off. Long story, but she got him away from his wife and 3 teen kids. Two of the kids cut him out of their lives forever. The wife got the home in the divorce, whereby he and the OW had to start over. I think everyone thought and hoped they too would get their Karma, and finally it did happen. The OW had some heart valve operation and never made it out. They had to finally pull the plug. After a year he tried to get back with his ex wife whereby she wouldn't talk to him, or take his calls. He started neglecting his health and died about 3 years later.

Sometimes it takes awhile but yes Karma usually happens to rotten people imo.

The 3 people that really f—d me over in life all got their just due in some pretty spectacular ways. I’m 51 so some of this was 5, 10, 15 years later. I just kept living my life and not dwelling, but it was pretty satisfying seeing how things caught up with each and everyone one of them. It made me feel like all was right in the universe. I didn’t get revenge recently but I know she’s miserable as f—-k and a sad, sad person under her delusion. Just keep eyes forward and leave the trash in the rear view mirror. They are somebody else’s problem now.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Karma does not exist.

Rude. Do you believe in Jesus?

Jesus has nothing to do with karma. I believe in Jesus but not karma. People convince themselves karma exists to make themselves feel better. It is BS.

NP here. Jesus is BS too and nothing more than something people use to make themselves think they are better than they are.

x a million

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

The OW was emailing sordid details of the affair. She’s a complete trashy whore.

Umm… The husband was doing this. The one your friend married. The one you want to keep in your social circle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Off-topic ?:

These OW that repeat this mantra: if it wasn't me, it would have been someone else.

Do they realize how cheap that makes them seem? Do they say this to relieve themselves from any moral decency?

It is weird to categorize yourself this lowly. I didn't matter, it would have just been another woman opening her legs for your husband.

Also, it was YOU. It's like getting hit by a drunk driver and the drunk saying 'well, if it wasn't me that hit you, it would have been another drunk driver'.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Off-topic ?:

These OW that repeat this mantra: if it wasn't me, it would have been someone else.

Do they realize how cheap that makes them seem? Do they say this to relieve themselves from any moral decency?

It is weird to categorize yourself this lowly. I didn't matter, it would have just been another woman opening her legs for your husband.

Also, it was YOU. It's like getting hit by a drunk driver and the drunk saying 'well, if it wasn't me that hit you, it would have been another drunk driver'.

People that choose to sleep with married people aren't that self-reflective or aware. They are blameless and will create any narrative that makes them feel like they are decent. It's a complete and total lack of empathy. A real character defect. If you can't acknowledge you participated in something that ultimately harmed another person/children, you are really self delusional. At the very least, you would expect some guilt or remorse for the innocent party.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Off-topic ?:

These OW that repeat this mantra: if it wasn't me, it would have been someone else.

Do they realize how cheap that makes them seem? Do they say this to relieve themselves from any moral decency?

It is weird to categorize yourself this lowly. I didn't matter, it would have just been another woman opening her legs for your husband.

Also, it was YOU. It's like getting hit by a drunk driver and the drunk saying 'well, if it wasn't me that hit you, it would have been another drunk driver'.

They can't see the irony in that statement. I've always thought the same thing.

[Anonymous]

Do you believe in Karma? I believe the results in your NEXT life are influenced by your acts in THIS life. So you wont SEE Karma in 2-3 years, your actions will be reflected in your NEXT life when you turn into a grasshopper or a Queen, or maybe finally being released from the cycle of birth and death.

Or maybe OW has NOTHING to do with this, and is being used by the universe to punish a woman whose husband cheats on her.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s weird to focus so much on the other woman. She has moved on with her life. In the grand scheme of things, her affair will barely be a footnote in her story. Don’t let it take up any more chapters of yours.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:LIfe is long. Life also isn't always fair, in fact, it seldom is.


You're fixated on karma, doesn't that imply that your friend did something at some point in her life to deserve having her husband cheat on her?


Forget about the OW, your wasting your valuable thoughts and time pining for her demise.

Exactly. Why did this happen to your friend? Who’d she f*ck over to get this karma?

+1

There’s no karma or we are all tragedy-deserving a-holes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I think it’s weird to focus so much on the other woman. She has moved on with her life. In the grand scheme of things, her affair will barely be a footnote in her story. Don’t let it take up any more chapters of yours.

Unfortunately, her affair will be a major theme in her affair partner's wife and children's life. Glad she came out smelling like roses while another person was destroyed. And, yes, she had a moral responsibility/fault for knowingly participating. She completely lacks empathy if she feels zero remorse for that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

+1

Yeah that's been said 1,000 times. Yes, she was just a warm hole and any OW would suffice. She's not that special, it could have been anyone. She's the one that opened her legs easily.

Off-topic ?:

These OW that repeat this mantra: if it wasn't me, it would have been someone else.

Do they realize how cheap that makes them seem? Do they say this to relieve themselves from any moral decency?

It is weird to categorize yourself this lowly. I didn't matter, it would have just been another woman opening her legs for your husband.

Also, it was YOU. It's like getting hit by a drunk driver and the drunk saying 'well, if it wasn't me that hit you, it would have been another drunk driver'.

They can't see the irony in that statement. I've always thought the same thing.

+1,000,000 !!!!

I always thought that was the most ridiculous statement trotted out by self-absorbed, selfish, empathetic, delusional people.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Marrying rich is just that. It's some money. Ok. But you know nothing about what her husband is like, how she feels about him, whether she is depressed and longing for her old affair partner, having a new affair, who knows. I view it like your friend was the winner - she kept her man. OW was the loser. Bye Felicia.

Oh, wow. OP’s friend “kept her (cheater) man.” What a win!

They both desperately wanted him, it was a competition, and the wife won.

Wife - 1

OW - 0

[Anonymous]

^^ unempathetic!!