No karma for OW

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Karma does not exist.

Rude. Do you believe in Jesus?

Yes. Jesus sees adultery as a cardinal sin.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes the OW is the good person.

My best friend is now with his AP who is a lovely woman. His ex-wife is a rude and viscous woman. His AP gave him the confidence to leave. I wish them well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Marrying rich is just that. It's some money. Ok. But you know nothing about what her husband is like, how she feels about him, whether she is depressed and longing for her old affair partner, having a new affair, who knows. I view it like your friend was the winner - she kept her man. OW was the loser. Bye Felicia.

Oh, wow. OP’s friend “kept her (cheater) man.” What a win!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes the OW is the good person.

My best friend is now with his AP who is a lovely woman. His ex-wife is a rude and viscous woman. His AP gave him the confidence to leave. I wish them well.

Oh come on. The woman who gets left for the AP is going to be rude and vicious about what happened, what do you expect?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

The OW was emailing sordid details of the affair. She’s a complete trashy whore.

I know one that broke into their house while they were away. Don't know what she was looking for but everyone knew it was her. She was stalking them for sometime, and moved very close to them. She wanted him to leave his family for her. And she was married!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes the OW is the good person.

My best friend is now with his AP who is a lovely woman. His ex-wife is a rude and viscous woman. His AP gave him the confidence to leave. I wish them well.

If she was a good person she never would have hooked up with a married man. She would have told him, "Hey if you're ever single give me a call". That's what a decent classy woman would do. Sorry but you don't know the AP. My bil is with his AP only because his wife divorced him. He stills regrets it and cries to his others siblings almost 15 years later. The AP appears to be the nicest church going woman. After getting to know her she is something else on the inside. Most would not see that, same as you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not my circus, not my monkeys, but just something I noticed. A good friend was cheated on by DH with a young OW for almost a year, nearly killed her but they patched things up after a very hard struggle. OW kept sending DW sordid details of their affair to try to get her to dump him. We all kept thinking the OW would get some karma, but nope, she married a rich (single) guy, bought a 3m home and just had her first kid. Bet the new husband knows nothing about her role in the affair. Just doesn’t seem fair.

Your friend should have sent the DH a informative note.

Sometimes Karma takes awhile. So what... they have a nice home, they may owe that much as well. Like many we know. The recorded docs are all public info. which realtors etc. use. Sometimes they are very telling about how much debt one has. One of my family members was left for the ow after 25 years. They actually had a decent marriage, but the OW was jrecently divorced and broke. She needed a quick life preserver. This was her college bf she stalked from another state. No doubt saw they had a nice home which incidentally they recently paid off. Long story, but she got him away from his wife and 3 teen kids. Two of the kids cut him out of their lives forever. The wife got the home in the divorce, whereby he and the OW had to start over. I think everyone thought and hoped they too would get their Karma, and finally it did happen. The OW had some heart valve operation and never made it out. They had to finally pull the plug. After a year he tried to get back with his ex wife whereby she wouldn't talk to him, or take his calls. He started neglecting his health and died about 3 years later.

Sometimes it takes awhile but yes Karma usually happens to rotten people imo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Doesn’t seem like OW did anything that terrible. Presumably the wife wants to know the truth. She then moved on with her life. Good for her.

Yes the OW is equally a horrible person. Married people are off limits, and interfering or breaking up a family as a co-cheater is not only dangerous, but horrible as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Karma does not exist.

Rude. Do you believe in Jesus?

Jesus has nothing to do with karma. I believe in Jesus but not karma. People convince themselves karma exists to make themselves feel better. It is BS.

The concept of karma is religious-based. It’s as much bullshit as Jesus dying for your sins, dead in a cave for 3 days then re-animating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not my circus, not my monkeys, but just something I noticed. A good friend was cheated on by DH with a young OW for almost a year, nearly killed her but they patched things up after a very hard struggle. OW kept sending DW sordid details of their affair to try to get her to dump him. We all kept thinking the OW would get some karma, but nope, she married a rich (single) guy, bought a 3m home and just had her first kid. Bet the new husband knows nothing about her role in the affair. Just doesn’t seem fair.

Anyone with the balls to email the DW sordid details of the affair is going to make sure she comes out okay/on top. That is really, really ballsy. But it would seem obvious what the DW's next move is under this circumstance.

It doesn't take any balls. In fact, it's sort of a pathetic move.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not my circus, not my monkeys, but just something I noticed. A good friend was cheated on by DH with a young OW for almost a year, nearly killed her but they patched things up after a very hard struggle. OW kept sending DW sordid details of their affair to try to get her to dump him. We all kept thinking the OW would get some karma, but nope, she married a rich (single) guy, bought a 3m home and just had her first kid. Bet the new husband knows nothing about her role in the affair. Just doesn’t seem fair.

Anyone with the balls to email the DW sordid details of the affair is going to make sure she comes out okay/on top. That is really, really ballsy. But it would seem obvious what the DW's next move is under this circumstance.

It doesn't take any balls. In fact, it's sort of a pathetic move.

And not that bright. Maybe her new husband wouldn’t care, but chances are that the new husband would be put off if the AP’s wife sent those awful emails to him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes the OW is the good person.

My best friend is now with his AP who is a lovely woman. His ex-wife is a rude and viscous woman. His AP gave him the confidence to leave. I wish them well.

If she was a good person she never would have hooked up with a married man. She would have told him, "Hey if you're ever single give me a call". That's what a decent classy woman would do. Sorry but you don't know the AP. My bil is with his AP only because his wife divorced him. He stills regrets it and cries to his others siblings almost 15 years later. The AP appears to be the nicest church going woman. After getting to know her she is something else on the inside. Most would not see that, same as you.

Now that's karma!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She needs to blame her husband not the OW. If it wasn't this woman, it would have been someone else. Husband is 100% to blame.

The OW was emailing sordid details of the affair. She’s a complete trashy whore.

I know one that broke into their house while they were away. Don't know what she was looking for but everyone knew it was her. She was stalking them for sometime, and moved very close to them. She wanted him to leave his family for her. And she was married!

We had one Internet stalking friends, family, acquaintences. Any bit of info she could get and she was married too!

[Anonymous]

You don’t understand how karma works. Karma is much more about your next life than this one. However, in this life, I do believe you reap what you sow. Just remember, you always reap well after you sow. Sometimes it takes a while.

[Anonymous]

She’ll get hers don’t worry

In fact, someone like that, with no scruples, will probably cheat on the new DH and blow her nice life up because she didn’t learn her lesson the first time.