Yes, it is disgusting that your husband is a cheater. It's sad that you spend your time watching to see if the OW has received karma yet. You'll never do it, but it would be better for you if you could free yourself from him. Having a husband isn't everything. Your kids having divorced parents isn't the worst thing. You could move on and maybe end up with a rich husband who respects you, would never cheat on you, and treats you like a queen instead of spending your days convincing yourself you are happy, that your husband is great, that your relationship is working and his cheating made your marriage strongerl |
My daughter is a sugar baby and her father and I are so proud of her. We hope one of the daddies will leave their wives and marry her. |
My daughter grew up to be the most prolific married cheater on Ashley Madison. She’s had more lovers then I did in the 60s and her husband has yet to find out. She’s a crafty one. |
I hope my daughter doesn't marry a cheater, and if she does I hope she has the good sense to kick his ass to the curb and not waste her life defending him and hoping the OW gets hers. |
Hopefully, your daughter isn’t the cheater. Married women are outpacing men in the cheating department in the 30-35 demographic. Times are changing. |
I hope my daughter gets a decent enough education to recognize that the common denominator here is patriarchy and women bashing each other in competition over men instead of working on their own independence, autonomy and empowerment. |
I hope my daughter receives quality educaation and develops the ability to critically think and this realized you can't blame every flaw and poor decision made by a man or woman on patriarchy. |
lol Does anyone else find it kind of amusing that even in the present day we have women blaming the "patriarchy" for anything and everything they choose to do, or not do, in their lives? |
I hope my daughter learns that doing things that ultimately harm other women and their children is a form of patriarchy and she does better to her own gender. Sleeping with other people’s spouses is acting in the same manner of the misogynist men pps complain about. Stop trying to be like men. You aren’t liberal and independent and free when you sink to the same level. |
Yes! Especially when they act in the same manner as the patriarch, keeping their own gender down, doing things that harm mothers/wives/children. Go feminists! Sisterhood! Then turn around and bang their husbands. |
Oh but that’s progress, taking down the patriarch . Look mom, I can cheat too. I can take charge and have an affair and bang other people’s spouses, just like the men. Look how far we’ve come, baby.
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| Op. You hate your husband. We get it. |
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This thread is no different than teen age girls fighting over some garbage boy who led them both on.
Both sides should get some self-respect and quit fighting. You’re embarrassing our gender.. |
Exactly. |
I think it's odd to blame all adultery on men and the patriarchy. So weird...and so patently false. The cheaters I've observed/heard about in the DMV are 50/50 men and women. Anyone can cheat, not just men. I think it's fine to blame both the cheater and the AP. The AP is often involved in their own marriage or dating others. Lying and cheating are bad. Period. Trashy people do trashy things. Shrug. Holding onto anger is different though. Holding onto anger only hurts you...the presumed victim. Why hurt yourself? Grieve the lost trust and relationship, get angry, but then move past it. Living well is always the best revenge (although I hate that the saying uses the word revenge). Trampy women who cheat on their husbands or screw around with other people's husbands make our gender look bad. We shouldn't blame men for the actions of women. Blame the women. |