Do you really wish your ex well?

[Anonymous]

I don't. I wish nothing but unhappiness and horrible things to happen to him. Does this mean I don't really love him because I don't want him to be happy even if it means he's not with me? Does this mean I'm awful and immature?

I just want him to be as unhappy as he's made me. I want what he did to me to happen to him.

PLEASE just give me some honest answers

[Anonymous]

I'm guessing he cheated on you? How did the relationship end?

[Anonymous]

Yeah. But we were able to split up when we saw it wasn't going to get better, but before we viciously hated each other. So after a while, we went back to just being friends, and we have both moved on romantically.

[Anonymous]

Indifference is the opposite of love
No I don't think it's immature but it shows you are still very bitter and cannot move on

[Anonymous]

Yes

However, my ex that I have a child with is an abuser. He continues to destroy out child and other women's children everyday. I can only hope karma or God handles him.

[Anonymous]

Yes, because he deserves it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, because he deserves it.

Deserves what

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, because he deserves it.

Deserves what

Deserves happiness. He is a kind, sensitive soul who wasn't at all sure at the time where he was, what he was doing, and couldn't meet what was expected of him. Full of internal turmoil. I hope he's doing better.

[Anonymous]

I wish nothing but the worst for my ex. He beat me within inches of my life, also attacking me with a broken wine bottle, cutting up my face, neck, and arms. This is not a man I can ever be indifferent towards. I will always hate him for what he did to me.

[lostgirl]

I hate him for how the treated me throughout the relationship like if I was nothing. But I don't wish anything bad to happen to him, just rather not think about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wish nothing but the worst for my ex. He beat me within inches of my life, also attacking me with a broken wine bottle, cutting up my face, neck, and arms. This is not a man I can ever be indifferent towards. I will always hate him for what he did to me.

Thats horrible. I'm so sorry for you, PP. Add me to the list of people hoping he has a horrible, horrific life. I will be sending bad karma and energy in his direction. Glad you have moved on now.

May abusers and rapists burn in hell. Amen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wish nothing but the worst for my ex. He beat me within inches of my life, also attacking me with a broken wine bottle, cutting up my face, neck, and arms. This is not a man I can ever be indifferent towards. I will always hate him for what he did to me.

Thats horrible. I'm so sorry for you, PP. Add me to the list of people hoping he has a horrible, horrific life. I will be sending bad karma and energy in his direction. Glad you have moved on now.

May abusers and rapists burn in hell. Amen.

Agreed, from experience. I have always believed karma would catch up, and maybe it has or will. I have no idea.

[Anonymous]

I am completely indifferent. I refuse to expend any energy on him. He's already taken enough. And it has taken a lot of time and effort to get to a point of indifference.

[Anonymous]

I wish all of my ex-boyfriends all the grief + suffering that they gave to me. Tenfold.

That is the only way that I know they will ever learn to treat others w/pure respect.

Period.

[Anonymous]

I wish him to be functional and successful for the sake of my kids. I don't really care if he is happy in his personal life as long as he holds it together for them.

I also know he's an unhappy and insecure person underneath the happy front he puts on for everyone else. I don't need to wish him ill because I already think his choices are going to come back to bite him in the ass one day.