Redemption comes from acknowledging what he did was wrong and serving time for it. He paid hush money of 2.5 million. But his wife got the rape rock of 4 million. So there was that. Anyways, his mortal life is over and what the tarnish is, remains for perpetuity. |
Show me where I said majority? Take your strawman somewhere else. You need to poke around more. This has happened to many, many athletes. Some of the women even set up cameras and try to doctor evidence to create a case. And these are just the ones that we hear about... The rest of your post makes no sense. Most professional athletes who are married and fathers cheat. That's just how it is. I won't comment on the roughness of the sex they have with groupies because....I don't know. Too many know it alls running around these days. |
And he was more than the worst thing he has done...but the worst thing he did?...man, that was a Whopper. |
I don't know what the arrangement was with Kobe and Vanessa, but many sports wives know their husbands will be sleeping with other women. That is part of the basis of the bargain. They just don't want it to be sloppy and public, so as not to embarrass them. Also, who died and made you the arbiter of defining societal redemption? You can do something wrong, without doing something criminal. Kobe probably learned a lot about the nuances of consent and a bunch of other things from this. That doesn't not mean he is a rapist. |
We get it, you like your selective facts. You would fit right in with the modern media crowd... |
This could range from being an adulterer who liked rough sex to being a rapist. You don't know. For all we know, Kobe could have done some other really crappy things as well that just aren't public. Again, you don't know. |
Ohhh....read your post. Majority means most. Now you are saying that most professional athletes who Are married and fathers cheat. So what Kobe did was in keeping with the culture and women are just sex objects to be used and abused? God has a sense of humor in giving him daughters then. So he was a vile human being and he wAs having violent sex with a groupie and raped her. So everyone deserved what they got, thanks to what the good Lord wants for them? Ok. Then ... Amen. |
Yes, he could have done worse things. Pimping, human trafficking...who knows? But never heard of worse things. Only heard of the rape that was settled out of the court. |
Then you haven't looked. At all. It's been very much a part of the saga from the beginning. (I was home on maternity leave at the time - a time before Netflix, so I followed this story closely and definitely remember this from way back.) And also read it again since he died. |
You need to go have a seat in the timeout and chill out a bit. You are doing the typical thing where you act like women have no agency in their sexual behaviors. Women are attracted to popular, rich athletes. Shock! |
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I don't believe the 2.5 payout has ever been officially released or confirmed. Also I have been involved in cases where high amounts of money have changed hands even though the person was innocent. I am not saying that is the case here but a pay out is a not an admission of guilt. Also the statement he read in court as I understand it was written for him based on what she wanted to hear and was part of the settlement they worked out. It wasn't that he wrote those words. The only words we really have directly from Kobe are the police interview at the hotel when they went to speak to him after she filed a police report.
For those of you who believe he was just a violent rapist who forced himself on a woman who didn't want to have sex with him - why do you think he asked her if he could ejaculate on her face and why did he stop when she said no? (Both agree this happened). Seems very odd that someone who is violently raping someone would ask consent for an act and then stop when the person didn't consent. it goes completely against the whole act of intentional rape. If he intentionally was having non consensual sex - why ask her and why stop? |
So it is your contention that settlement out of court automatically implies guilt for the accused? Interesting development.... |
You are bringing far too much reason into this discussion. Go away! |
+1. The post a few pages back who gave a detailed break down of all the small errors made along Kobe's trip amount to this. Pilot should have said you know what, it's too risky, you will have to drive to your BB game or we wait out the weather. At 9am on Sunday morning they could have driven or waited an hour or two. Gianna's game wasn't until noon. They wouldn't have had as much warm up time but so be it. People are just so bad at assessing risks. It's an awful tragedy that could have been prevented. |
So what? Presumably he knew that. THat means he has license to rape them? And I find the victim-blaming to be disgusting. SHe was a whore, money grabber, etc. Well, he was a whore too. He was not only sleeping around. He was violating his marriage vows while doing it. So, you can stuff your judgment about the victim - who had multiple vaginal lacerations consistent with a trauma. She declined to cooperate after being bullied, harassed, threatened. And you know how a trial would go . . . just as Anna Sciorra. https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/harvey-weinsteins-defense-strategy-is-wretched/2020/01/24/ab8fd64e-3e20-11ea-baca-eb7ace0a3455_story.html She knew what lay ahead of her and i don't blame her one bit for bailing. The comments on this thread are only further evidence of how she would have been treated, while letting him off the hook. |