My ex is getting remarried on what would've been our anniversary!
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Anonymous
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My ex husband called me to let me know that he was getting remarried on October 15th.
That would've been our 5 year anniversary. To make matters worse they're having a destination wedding in Jamaica at the same resort I told him five years ago I wanted to get married, but he was against the idea because he wanted to make sure his family was there. I'm a little annoyed and maybe even a little jealous about their upcoming nuptials! This woman was originally his AP (the reason we got divorced) and now she seems to be getting my dream wedding. Ok, I'm done venting now. |
Anonymous
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That's more than a little weird.
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Anonymous
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He's a weirdo. If I were marrying a divorced man I'd never get married on the day he got married the first time. Talk about bad luck!
FWIW, sounds like you all had a started marriage so not a big loss on your part. |
Anonymous
| They knew this would piss you off. Just forget it and move on, I'd have little to do with him after this. |
Anonymous
| So was it your actual anniversary or the date that would have been? Were you legally married? |
Anonymous
It was our actual date. |
Anonymous
Unfortunately I still have to have some contact with him, we have a child together. |
Anonymous
Why on earth are you talking to this scumbag? If it's because you have kids..forget it. I would nip that right now. Text only and do the kid exchanges with little communication (only kids)..otherwise I would write his ass off. Happiness is the best revenge so work on that, seriously 86 this turd. |
Anonymous
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Ew. If I got divorced I'd stop celebrating the date of our wedding entirely ... like, skip right over it, not remarry my AP on that day. Why would she allow that, either???
I'm sorry, OP, rather odd and annoying. Try to put that loser behind you. |
Anonymous
| He's psycho. Ignore. Can you cut off all contact? Or do you have kids? |
Anonymous
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Total psycho. To be a total bitch, I'd find some way to drop it to his future bride that that's your anniversery date too. And that you're the one who originally found that resort. I have to think that would piss her off.
My dumb dh suggested a song for our wedding that he had apparently discussed using in a wedding with his previous long-term girlfriend (long story, but they never got married but had discussed a wedding). I was horrified and would never have used it knowing the background. |
Anonymous
He called to let me know he was getting a passport for our child and wanted to make sure I was ok with her attending his wedding. |
Anonymous
| OP stop the phone calls and regulate him to text only. Do the agreed upon child exchanges and if there's a change in schedule you both can text. As for school he can find out stuff on his own, same with doctor etc. This is how others do it and it works well with getting the ex out of your life. You really need to do this and move forward. No talking about your personal lives, and don't give him the opportunity to talk about his. I'm afraid you have empowered this guy, only YOU can take control. |
Anonymous
| I'm more weirded out that the new wife doesn't mind sharing a wedding anniversary with his failed marriage. Talk about some bad juju. |
Anonymous
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You know this is all on purpose don't you. Sad people imo.
In a year I would be sending sexy thongs anon in the mail to her. Some hang up calls...you get the idea. Yes immature I know, BUT I do believe in being happy and moving forward - however I am ok with helping KARMA along too!!! 
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